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it could be a problem , because people go by their past experiences and the mind naturally makes generalizatindividual d upon those experiences if a person is willing to start new with you, however, and treat you as a new and unique individual, it may not be a hindrance to their getting to at least know you Id say it just all depends upon the person, I have things like that, like someone in their late forties who was never married or had kids,,, is a turn off for me, only because I do not feel such a person is a match someone who has never experienced loss, may not feel they could relate to what you are going through ,,,, Msharmony,you deserve a million dollars for making the above points Most of the guys who have posted so far are just been emotional rather than logical. She needs to mourn her late husband and get done with it. And treat whosoever she opens her heart to as a different individual from her ex husband. |
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Meditate. Online chat.
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It doesn't matter anymore folks!!!.. its OVER!!! I caught her up on the other's others threads trying to pick up guys.......THAT *****!!! Now the guys from India have swarmed her!!!! and you all know how that goes... I'm heartbroken....but I will rebound.............. Maybe if you had had profile a profile pic .....you'll had won her over. ....... |
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buzz me Don't bother dude .....lol....she is in the arms of the guy without profile pic ...maybe its high time he shows his face. . |
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Come on greeneyes....contact her I'm going too..;) I just have to sit down for awhile and catch my breath.. and wipe the sweat from my brow. Oh Boy!!! O Boy!!! Oooh Booy!!! I'm a lucky Guy.... It is true love!!... I can smell it!!!!.. its like roses.. or some kind of flower like that!! I'll let you guys know what happens!! Can I be your flower girl? Pretty please? You know you adore me You'll ruin the romance ---because you're too old for a flower girl |
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Come on greeneyes....uote] I'm going too..;) I just have to sit down for awhile and catch my breath.. and wipe the sweat from my brow. Oh Boy!!! O Boy!!! Oooh Booy!!! I'm a lucky Guy.... It is true love!!... I can smell it!!!!.. its like roses.. or some kind of flower like that!! I'll let you guys know what happens!! Can I be your flower girl? Pretty please? You know you adore me You'll ruin the whole romance---because you're too old to be a flower Girl :wink laugh: |
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Beach volleyball
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I would take a job there and work for free... even just be a sand raker.. who cares... look at THAT scenery all day... I'm in!! laugh: |
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NO sex before "I do"
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Why is it such a rare thing to find a young Christian man who believes in this? Unfortunately I can say the same thing bout the opposite gender :(. Would make it so much more lovely, and much more of "making love" rather then just another night of "sex". It's rare in general, because of the fallen world we live in. Everyone wants sex, only problem is they want it "now". And not willing to wait for the "appropriate" time :( Yep... |
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NO sex before "I do"
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I'm 32 and a Christian. I never had sex (shocker) and if i waited this long, i can wait til the "i do". I never had any luck finding a Christian woman near me. I keep praying to God that he gives me the woman of my dreams.. That's great I believe that God is just preserving you for a great woman. |
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Beach volleyball
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Women's beach volleyball is awesome See what I'm talking about... they win.. they get excited... then the high beams go on. This is why it is such a great sport :) Yes....they win in the wears as well ...lol... |
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Strong Women..
Edited by
Godsfriend10
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Sun 03/12/17 09:41 PM
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A woman who doesn't sleep around with Men should be a much adored jewel to any Man.
If she is a brilliant blend of beauty and brains - that is even better. However, being 'unnecessarily strong' can harm a relationship especially if the parties involved do not make concessions on issues but hold rigidly to each others views. |
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Surgery
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Just stay mentally strong.
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Girl's
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Because we wise up after a while |
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I need a God sent husband
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I need a partner who can give my daughter a good life...I need a husband! Well, make sure he is God sent when one shows up, because the devil also sends 'em... |
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Rate me!
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You type a pretty wicked Hi.. You'll just do well not to get so enticed by the hot hot...everything.. Cos she's not looking for the dudes...looking for her kind...what a miss... : |
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1. Why does he travel? Is it due to his job or is it for fun and leisure? > If due to his job, where is his home city? > Is his job position that has him traveling permanent or could he possibly be restricted to an office someday? Where is that office? > How often and for how long is he usually in his home city? > Could he be playing the field in all the different cities and you just happen to be the girl in your town? > When he arrives in your town, does he immediately contact you? > Could he have a family in his home city? 2. Are the qualities that make him perfect for you qualities that are unique or common? 3. Could the reason he isn't willing to commit to you as his girlfriend other than he travels a lot? 4. It seems that he is not very excited to be with you if he says "I'll see you soon: knowing that he will be in town for the next 6 months. 5. Are you as important to him as he is to you? 6. If you tell him you like him, do you suspect he may want to end the relationship? 7. Telling someone you like them is not a difficult thing to do. Is your trepidation based on something that you sense from him but have not admitted to yourself? 8. You just met in real life yesterday. You like him right now but you really don't know him well. Perhaps you need a few more face to face meets to really determine if you actually really like him? 9. Are the qualities that you are attracted to in him superficial? 10. When it is all said and done, you should do what is best for you. I hope you use good judgement and look at all aspects of him and his personality before you commit your heart to him. > Have you seen him angry? > If he drinks have you seen him drunk? > Have you seen him disappointed? > Have you seen him very excited about something? > Has he shared info about his family with you? > During the 6 months he will be in town will you need to set an appointment to see him? > Did he actually tell you where he is staying? Did you look for it? > Has he called you today? I wish you all the luck but I also hope you use your head. These are all good questions for any new relationship What a long list of questions----longer than the United states medical licensing examination (USMLE )questions |
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Edited by
Godsfriend10
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Sat 02/25/17 08:10 AM
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If I read you well you are assuming he doesn't have a woman in his life.
Be sure. It will be nice to be nice close friends with him so that you know him better. Communicate with him often when he is in and out of town. This could reveal a lot about him. Finally, show you like him by your actions not words...for actions speak louder than words. Make him want to come to your city---you have the power--feminine power. |
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Thinking of my dad who just died- the loss, raising money for the burial rites, planning, etc ...
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Thinking of my dad who just died- the loss, raising money for the burial rites, planning, etc ...
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Topic:
🎁TODAY🍾IS♋MY🎂BIRTHDAY🎉28
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OP turns 28, and thinks 8 years older male is old enough to be their dad. Something doesn't make sense... Guess her dad was an early bloomer... |
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