hi i would be real carful with this soul mate things and the two of u
being in love cause i had it once not too long ago and than he moved to
the far west we are supposingly still toether but i think now he is
playing me. its all good and dandy when u are together he makes u laugh
and smile and treats u good, and u the same for him but how do u know
its going to last u never do. i thought he was the one. well i still
think he is but i dont think he thinks the same for me anymore thats the
problem. so i dont believe in soul mates because ive been looking
forever and all i get is users!

i would love to comment on this becuase its not all woman . i was
married for 13 years and just got out. sureing the time i got out i met
a guy in the navy we dated for so long well nto really 5 months and he
was great he told me he loved me and we were so close than he moved away
claiming we would stay in touch and contine to date. now he lives in
washington state and im in ny state. he tries to keep me hanging on and
tells me nothing is wrong we are still ok. but in my heart the one i
felt all my love for him now i feel he is stringing me along like he
wants me when he comes to ny to visit. its terrible what woman do to men
yes they give us good ones a bad name but look around the perfect 40 yr
old does the same thing and u think he mature cause hes grown thinking
he wasted all his life with someone when u think he found the right one
leaves her hanging. what kind of BS is that. its not all about what the
woman do its all people who have not grwon up yet and just dont know
what they want. if its meant to be it will be so quit blameing and move
on im trying to now.

U can love again it takes a very long time but it happens just make sure
the person u think u love, loves u as much before u give yourself to
them. i did that i gave myself to them and im back where i started
wondering why. its not a nice feeling be patient u will love again and
the next time will be better because u will not make the same mistakes
twice.