I just wanted to say Happy Mothers Day to all you mothers out there. May your day be blessed and filled with love and joy. I know our kids can be tough and times get hard. But always remember that God trusts you with them and He knew you were the perfect one for the job. So stay blessed and have a great day.

I hear what your saying in this part but at the same time you all say be honest. God is a huge part of my life and I'll never put Him on the back burner to meet someone. I think thats the problem we hide ourselves from each other for so long we don't even know who we are any more. And if there is one thing I know it's that I'm nothing without the Lord. So if thats scares women away then it's doing exactly what it's supposed to do. Like God says a blessed man is a mirror. Meaning they don't even see me they see whats wrong with themselves. What good is it for me to play small or hide what I believe in (those that believe in nothing fall for anything) I'm a man of God and for Him and Him alone I shine. If women are scared of a man who knows who he is and has a true understanding of himself and the Lord. At the same time he is doing his best to be a man the Lord whats him to be so be it. What I see on here is a lot of people who have a lot of ideals of what they want and don't pat attention to what they really need (LOVE) . Well not me. I'll shot for the moon and if I miss then I'll still be among the stars. I trust the Lord will bring the right women into my life when the time is right. It's funny because think just for a second and think about the things women say in there profiles and what they are looking for. Honesty, Secure, done being a player, no games, looking for a man and not a boy. And so on. Well thats me. Now I haven't always been like that. But with the Lord's help I'm getting closer everyday. I like to say I'm not the best looking man in the world but I do have a choice. And I choose not to settle. I've never had a problem getting a woman it's the right one that eludes me. Just how I feel.

Thank you I'll do that MelodyGirl. Thanks everyone and for being nice. lurchs_sister I always do put my trust in the Lord and wait with good courage.

Be nice.

The Rock.

Well if I had to describe the perfect relationship it would be this. But to me it's about God being first. Communication is everything to me. Honesty, unconditional love, commitment, loyalty, and respect. Are all the ingredients to a wonderful relationship. But it's seems like everyone we (as people) meet and talk to always say the right things to one another but what is really missing is the actions behind the words. The words and actions never really ever meet. Yes there are bits and pieces but it never really goes the same way it's talked about. I'm sure you know what I mean. It's funny I think everyone has this idea of the perfect relationship, but what we should really be asking ourselves is what are willing to do to have the perfect relationship? Well as for me I want nothing less then all of the above. And won't settle for anything less. Just image just for a min how wonderful that would be for the beautiful words and the actions of the one we love actually meet. To me thats sounds like perfection. Let me know your take on it. And please understand I don't mean perfect in the literal meaning but instead complete, mature, developed and wholeness.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."