Topic: Ok here you go
Goldenskin's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:46 AM
Edited by Goldenskin on Fri 03/27/09 09:54 AM
Be nice.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:51 AM

Be honest but please be nice.
smitten Dreamydrool

Mr_Music's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:51 AM
Most times, the words "honest" and "nice" are mutually exclusive.

Just sayin'.

prisoner's photo
Fri 03/27/09 09:54 AM
:smile: Goldenskin...sounds like a Bond film be seeing you

Destin2gocrazy's photo
Fri 03/27/09 10:05 AM
I think your profile is great! Good luckbigsmile

lurchs_sister's photo
Fri 03/27/09 12:12 PM
I love what you have said!

A verse for you to enjoy and my favorite... Psalm 118:8

Have a great day and enjoy!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 03/27/09 12:13 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 03/27/09 12:15 PM
For the type of person you are trying to attract, your profile is fine. Seems you are very 'church-like'. At first, it seems a little 'in your face'. That might be something to bring up on the second or third date. I don't know ... I'm out of my element on this one. It makes sense for people that are super devout to wear that on their sleeve so they only attract the same.

I would shorten the first paragraph a little though, and instead, add something FUN and whimsical. What do you like to do? What type of lady do you like (prissy, athletic, homebody, adventurous, etc).

I would also switch your main pic. The one you have now is too grainy. The other is much clearer and is more inviting for someone to click your profile. Maybe add one with a smile!

Have a blast! Whooo Hoooo! Rock on! :banana:

Goldenskin's photo
Fri 03/27/09 01:19 PM
Thank you I'll do that MelodyGirl. Thanks everyone and for being nice. lurchs_sister I always do put my trust in the Lord and wait with good courage.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 03/27/09 01:31 PM

Thank you I'll do that MelodyGirl. Thanks everyone and for being nice. lurchs_sister I always do put my trust in the Lord and wait with good courage.



YES!! Much better first pic!! flowerforyou

lurchs_sister's photo
Fri 03/27/09 02:14 PM

Thank you I'll do that MelodyGirl. Thanks everyone and for being nice. lurchs_sister I always do put my trust in the Lord and wait with good courage.



Love that verse and knew you would as well after reading your profile. I live by it and will never be steared wrong because of it.

I think Melody is right a smile would be nice to see as you have a very strong face and nice features. Your eyes are beautiful so the smile will shine in them.

I can see what Melody was saying but I also believe that your profile is fitting for the type of man you happen to be. Your faith is beautiful and will be what draws in the right woman for you. Caught my eye!

Goldenskin's photo
Fri 03/27/09 10:09 PM

For the type of person you are trying to attract, your profile is fine. Seems you are very 'church-like'. At first, it seems a little 'in your face'. That might be something to bring up on the second or third date. I don't know ... I'm out of my element on this one. It makes sense for people that are super devout to wear that on their sleeve so they only attract the same.



I hear what your saying in this part but at the same time you all say be honest. God is a huge part of my life and I'll never put Him on the back burner to meet someone. I think thats the problem we hide ourselves from each other for so long we don't even know who we are any more. And if there is one thing I know it's that I'm nothing without the Lord. So if thats scares women away then it's doing exactly what it's supposed to do. Like God says a blessed man is a mirror. Meaning they don't even see me they see whats wrong with themselves. What good is it for me to play small or hide what I believe in (those that believe in nothing fall for anything) I'm a man of God and for Him and Him alone I shine. If women are scared of a man who knows who he is and has a true understanding of himself and the Lord. At the same time he is doing his best to be a man the Lord whats him to be so be it. What I see on here is a lot of people who have a lot of ideals of what they want and don't pat attention to what they really need (LOVE) . Well not me. I'll shot for the moon and if I miss then I'll still be among the stars. I trust the Lord will bring the right women into my life when the time is right. It's funny because think just for a second and think about the things women say in there profiles and what they are looking for. Honesty, Secure, done being a player, no games, looking for a man and not a boy. And so on. Well thats me. Now I haven't always been like that. But with the Lord's help I'm getting closer everyday. I like to say I'm not the best looking man in the world but I do have a choice. And I choose not to settle. I've never had a problem getting a woman it's the right one that eludes me. Just how I feel.

lurchs_sister's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:17 AM


For the type of person you are trying to attract, your profile is fine. Seems you are very 'church-like'. At first, it seems a little 'in your face'. That might be something to bring up on the second or third date. I don't know ... I'm out of my element on this one. It makes sense for people that are super devout to wear that on their sleeve so they only attract the same.



I hear what your saying in this part but at the same time you all say be honest. God is a huge part of my life and I'll never put Him on the back burner to meet someone. I think thats the problem we hide ourselves from each other for so long we don't even know who we are any more. And if there is one thing I know it's that I'm nothing without the Lord. So if thats scares women away then it's doing exactly what it's supposed to do. Like God says a blessed man is a mirror. Meaning they don't even see me they see whats wrong with themselves. What good is it for me to play small or hide what I believe in (those that believe in nothing fall for anything) I'm a man of God and for Him and Him alone I shine. If women are scared of a man who knows who he is and has a true understanding of himself and the Lord. At the same time he is doing his best to be a man the Lord whats him to be so be it. What I see on here is a lot of people who have a lot of ideals of what they want and don't pat attention to what they really need (LOVE) . Well not me. I'll shot for the moon and if I miss then I'll still be among the stars. I trust the Lord will bring the right women into my life when the time is right. It's funny because think just for a second and think about the things women say in there profiles and what they are looking for. Honesty, Secure, done being a player, no games, looking for a man and not a boy. And so on. Well thats me. Now I haven't always been like that. But with the Lord's help I'm getting closer everyday. I like to say I'm not the best looking man in the world but I do have a choice. And I choose not to settle. I've never had a problem getting a woman it's the right one that eludes me. Just how I feel.


Love the honesty!! It is so refreshing to see a man that is willing to lay it all out there and keep his faith first!

Sending you wishes for the best...flowerforyou