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yeah, how important
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Just a silly question here. If all the big women are as happy with themselves as they claim to be, why does a big woman always start these threads *****ing about how they are manhandled by the world for being big? omg...I just asked someone that same question in email. my point is why the heavier vs the skinnier? these threads can be a real beat down |
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Lindyy startted this thread & she isn't big.
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Rose where are you seeing this competition you are referring to? I am not seeing that in this thread.
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Lindyy startted this thread & she isn't big. |
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Rose where are you seeing this competition you are referring to? I am not seeing that in this thread. i was refering to any time these threads come up...things get mentioned about skinny etc |
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Just wonder how everyone feels about weight, skin and bones, slim, medium, few extra pounds, 50 pounds, it is of great importantance in creating a relationship.
is one of the things I was referring to. I know why lindyy posted it...it was moved from the current events forum. I know she wasn't meaning it in that way but more about the media. |
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yeah i wish everyone was fatter than me
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yeah i wish everyone was fatter than me
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It depends on the person, I think I'm cute for my size and I would only change it for health reasons. And as for what I look for I want a bigger guy there better that way
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Of course thier are people who are irresponsable & not healthy. I have friends I would like to see lose weight for thier health, as well as some that should quit smoking & drinking .But drug users & alcoholics are socailly more acceptable than fat chicks! I smoke, and I aacept responsibility for my smoking, and it's efects. I don't start threads whining about how I am not accepted in a eating establishment with my cigs. I do not complain in threads about how I have to stand 50 feet from a business entry way while smoking, nor about the women who will not date me because of the smoke. Smoking is a choice that I made, as the MAJORITY of big people choose a lifestyle that creates their situation. The bottom line is it is personal choice. Big people attacking thinner people, bigger people attacking thinner people, smokers v. non-smokers, the story goes on and on. Whatever your personal choices are do not play a vicitm, take responsibility for the decisions YOU make that create your situation. You must also accept that not everyone is going to like you, appreciate you, or respect you for living our life the way you see fit OR a multitude of other reasons. Life goes on, ignore it, deal with it, laugh about it, cuss about it, bury it or wear it. Life goes on I agree with this Rob. I hope you do not see me as a whiner. I am trying to help people feel better about themselves, but not at any one else's expense. . I also hope that you do not see me as a hater, because I am not. I would just like for people to understand that personal preference in ones dating life doesn't always equate to hate, and those who are rejected levying some of the rhetoric they do on the rejector makes them more spiteful than the other indvidual. Preference is not hate, it is personal choice.
Rob! I think I love you! |
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weight is imortant you can be too heavy or to thin depending on your health problems
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Its not what they look like ok i lied i like them cute an chubby haha !
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Just wonder how everyone feels about weight, skin and bones, slim, medium, few extra pounds, 50 pounds, it is of great importantance in creating a relationship. is one of the things I was referring to. I know why lindyy posted it...it was moved from the current events forum. I know she wasn't meaning it in that way but more about the media. She was referring to the whole culture of obcession with body types I believe,& asking why it's a big deal. She certainly didn't single out anyone. I don't want to speak for her, this is my interpretation. |
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but in my 1st post on here...i addressed the eating disorders.
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Just wonder how everyone feels about weight, skin and bones, slim, medium, few extra pounds, 50 pounds, it is of great importantance in creating a relationship. is one of the things I was referring to. I know why lindyy posted it...it was moved from the current events forum. I know she wasn't meaning it in that way but more about the media. She was referring to the whole culture of obcession with body types I believe,& asking why it's a big deal. She certainly didn't single out anyone. I don't want to speak for her, this is my interpretation. and I didn't take it that way or saying anything but what it goes into. I know she posted it for a current event topic. but there are several posts about skinny peoples ribs and other comments that turn this into larger vs smaller |
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Of course thier are people who are irresponsable & not healthy. I have friends I would like to see lose weight for thier health, as well as some that should quit smoking & drinking .But drug users & alcoholics are socailly more acceptable than fat chicks! I smoke, and I aacept responsibility for my smoking, and it's efects. I don't start threads whining about how I am not accepted in a eating establishment with my cigs. I do not complain in threads about how I have to stand 50 feet from a business entry way while smoking, nor about the women who will not date me because of the smoke. Smoking is a choice that I made, as the MAJORITY of big people choose a lifestyle that creates their situation. The bottom line is it is personal choice. Big people attacking thinner people, bigger people attacking thinner people, smokers v. non-smokers, the story goes on and on. Whatever your personal choices are do not play a vicitm, take responsibility for the decisions YOU make that create your situation. You must also accept that not everyone is going to like you, appreciate you, or respect you for living our life the way you see fit OR a multitude of other reasons. Life goes on, ignore it, deal with it, laugh about it, cuss about it, bury it or wear it. Life goes on I agree with this Rob. I hope you do not see me as a whiner. I am trying to help people feel better about themselves, but not at any one else's expense. . I also hope that you do not see me as a hater, because I am not. I would just like for people to understand that personal preference in ones dating life doesn't always equate to hate, and those who are rejected levying some of the rhetoric they do on the rejector makes them more spiteful than the other indvidual. Preference is not hate, it is personal choice.
Actually FatnSassy was my idea inspired by Hiker. Hotpink just posted it 1st. wow - now I love you, Hen! |
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My opinion on the whole matter is "Your only worth to others what You are worth to yourself"............weight has nothing to do with that
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weight is very important in a relationship. Without any weight, one would just float off into space because gravity would have no effect. All the prospective dates I have must have no weight, because, they just vanish. Either that, or the aliens get them. 
Now I love you, Willy! |
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I havn't seen any "skinny" vs "fat" war. I got involved with a guy looking for "nice" who stated on his profile no overweight women & had a bunch of half naked chicks with stripper names on his friends list. & I did rag on him a bit about it. there were several perfectly nice ladies on the thread & he was ignoring us. Rose you were there from the start & I am certainly sorry I offended you, I have appoligiged reapeatly, but I never intended to be agaist any sized woman. I just wanted that man to admit he didn't want "nice" but a sexual fantasy.
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