have read my recent posts, you know I have been wondering and worrying about why my ex hardly wants anything to do with his daughter anymore...Well I found out last night..I talked on the phone to him yesterday afternoon and he asked if he could have Kate Lynn over night and I told him the only way I would let him is if he actually kept her at his house instead of pawning her off on his mom, well he said okay. He picked her up about 6pm after he got off of work and she didn't call so I assumed everything was okay, then at 2am in the morning I get a phone call from the police and they tell me I need to come pick up my daughter because her father is going to jail for possession of a controlled substance..He had my daughter out with him at 2am buying drugs, what the hell was he thinking??? It took me forever to get her to sleep last night because she was so scared. I don't know what to do?? My daughter cried half the night and i don't know how to explain to her what happened?? When he get's out, do I still trust him with our daughter?? Please Help me!!

your hubby needs to go to rehab yes yes yes lol sorry not funny

helll no go to court get supervised visits.make him get drug test. call social services

you need to keep daughter away from him, get a lawyer and sort it out legally, all you can do with your daughter is be there listen and love..child councilling mite help too.

WOW ... parenting 101 , dictates that you ALWAYS have the well being on your children before ALL ELSE .... I think there is a serious issue here, with your EX ... I personally WOULD NOT trust the safety of MY DAUGHTER with my ex after a stunt like that .... just my opinion ..
Good luck with that

absulty not...i agree what was he thinking...a child picks up there morals from the ages of 2-6 years old...that can have such a devsting effect on here...wanting to be just like daddy as she grows older...wow...im sorry...

Something happened to me like this but it was with alcohol. My only words to you is this....why would you trust your child with him again? If he did this once, he will do it again! I actually talked to the police officer who wrote up the report and I have him backing me up in court because I am now in contempt of court for not sending my son to see his father.
You now have to worry about the safety of your child!! Obviously the father wasn't worried about her SO you need to step up to the plate and take all the precautions to protect her from what he is doing. ANY judge is going to have visitaion that is supervised so NO I would not allow him to keep her over night unless he goes back to court and has court papers stating that you must allow this to happen.
Good luck because you have a very long road ahead of you! BUT your child is number one and you have to protect your child!!

Time for CPS & a judge meeting, PRONTO!!! Need to get a copy of the arrest info for both. Bless your hearts!!!!!

There is no way I would let my daughter be alone with him again. You need to take him to court and get sole custody with supervised visit. He is not safe for her. What if the drug deal went bad and something really bad had happened to you ex. Your daughter would have been in the middle of it all, could witnessed something horrible or maybe even got her herself. This man is not safe for her. KEEP HIM AWAY.

Oh, hell no! Take him back to court to change to supervised vistations, with drug testing if you wishes to see his daughter. Also, ask for increase in child support since you will have sole custody of your child.

When I went to pick up Kate Lynn, the police officer she was with was so nice and he was talking to Kate Lynn when I got there, calming her down. And when I talked to him about what happened he handed me the report number and said I can get a copy of it at the county building and said that I can use that at court.

Get him back in Court!!!Was he also charged with Child Endangerment?If not,he should of been..Where i come from,He would do at least 7mos for that alone.
Best of luck to you.l.p.o.

Supervised visits my azz. He wouldn't get anywhere near my kid after doing something as stupid as that. No way in hell. Revoke his priviledges until he's out of rehab and finished with whatever penalty the law hits him with.

i totally agree with you there....i wouldnt let him see her....thats your baby..you need to protect her..if you dont who will..hell no i wouldnt let him see her.....

I'm sorry
It's sad how some guys can't be there for their kids
that really sucks
not to mention it makes it hard for fathers like me to get to see their kiddos when they want to