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Topic: Ahhrggg ... I don't understand !
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Thu 03/27/08 09:45 AM
I have been talking to a guy from this site for a while now almost 6months . We made plans to meet once and it fell through . We still talk and I tease him about meeting me but actually meeting hasn't been brought back up . I think financial reasons may be part of the problem but not sure . I think I could have feeling for him and seriously want to get to know this man but I don't want to scare him away . We both are inexperienced w/this type of thing and lack some social skills I think .. How do I tell him I am really interested without scareing him away?

Maybe he doesn't even like me like that .... I am no good at disecting a mans words and feelings .

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:47 AM
flowerforyou Either he's hiding something or there are too many financial difficultys in meeting you.flowerforyou

yaya28's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:48 AM
wow six months! I would just tell him. What do you have to lose? You don't want to be just friends with him.

krazykitty323's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:49 AM

flowerforyou Either he's hiding something or there are too many financial difficultys in meeting you.flowerforyou



I agree

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Thu 03/27/08 09:49 AM
If you haven't even met in person yet, my advice is don't say anything about feelings yet, just meet him and see for yourself if he feels the same way, If he does, he'll show you!drinker :heart: If that happens or not, you'll know whether or not he does!flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/08 09:49 AM

wow six months! I would just tell him. What do you have to lose? You don't want to be just friends with him.

Can I have your hat???bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

yaya28's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:50 AM
That's why I'm single...I muck everything up laugh Listen to these guys!

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Thu 03/27/08 09:50 AM

That's why I'm single...I muck everything up laugh Listen to these guys!

No really....can I have your hat??huh laugh laugh

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Thu 03/27/08 09:50 AM


wow six months! I would just tell him. What do you have to lose? You don't want to be just friends with him.

Can I have your hat???bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



I'll rent it to ya laugh

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Thu 03/27/08 09:51 AM

flowerforyou Either he's hiding something or there are too many financial difficultys in meeting you.flowerforyou


I agree.

azrae1l's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:51 AM
show him some boobies, he'll meet you then....

lilith401's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:51 AM
How about we've been talking for six months, and I really care about you. I think it's time we met. Pretty easy.

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Thu 03/27/08 09:52 AM



wow six months! I would just tell him. What do you have to lose? You don't want to be just friends with him.

Can I have your hat???bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



I'll rent it to ya laugh

No ....I think you should just give it to me!! laugh laugh j/k....it is really fun though!drinker

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Thu 03/27/08 09:53 AM
Edited by brandynicole on Thu 03/27/08 09:53 AM
haha Boobies ! Yeah that didn't work . laugh

We don't really even live that far apart like within a couple of hours .

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Thu 03/27/08 09:54 AM
Edited by hellkitten54 on Thu 03/27/08 09:54 AM
darnhuh

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Thu 03/27/08 09:54 AM
Yeah, I would just lay it all on the line and ask him. I mean, if nothing else you will know whether or not you want to continue to use your time with him. Good luck.flowerforyou Six months is a long time internet wise.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:54 AM

haha Boobies ! Yeah that didn't work . laugh

We don't really even live that far apart like within a couple of hours .
flowerforyou Then you need to meet in person.flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/08 09:57 AM




wow six months! I would just tell him. What do you have to lose? You don't want to be just friends with him.

Can I have your hat???bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



I'll rent it to ya laugh

No ....I think you should just give it to me!! laugh laugh j/k....it is really fun though!drinker


ok you can have it. My ex gave it to me so it's yours! laugh

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Thu 03/27/08 09:58 AM
Well since i dont know who this man is i can only guess. If the first meeting didnt happen due to financial reasons then thats probably whats keeping him from you now. As for telling him how you feel, I would say that after six months of talking to him you should know what hes looking for. Does he want a relationship? Did he just come out of a relationship? How old is he? And how does he feel about long distance relationships? He hes someone that you truly feel is a friend you should not be sacred of talking to him. He will let you know he he feels the same way or not. Better to find out sooner than later, i think.

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Thu 03/27/08 10:04 AM

How about we've been talking for six months, and I really care about you. I think it's time we met. Pretty easy.
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