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Topic: how do you tell someone you like them for more than sex?
cnoteblack Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 691	Tue 03/25/08 08:43 PM
is it wrong to be attracted to the mind as well as the body?

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Tue 03/25/08 08:43 PM
no its better

aims84 Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 207	Tue 03/25/08 08:44 PM
wow. No, that is definitely not wrong. Actually its very good. I think most women (well i would be) would be flattered that you are interested in their mind as well as their body

LOVELYisLEGAL Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 198	Tue 03/25/08 08:44 PM
wow. No, that is definitely not wrong. Actually its very good. I think most women (well i would be) would be flattered that you are interested in their mind as well as their body Agreed.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 03/25/08 08:45 PM
i think that is a good thing. I personally would like to be told upfront that. I would respect it if they told me they only wanted sex...not into booty calls but at least the person told me the truth why are you having trouble telling someone that? or is this a general question?

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 03/25/08 08:45 PM
People are actually attracted to the mind? Woooooooooooooow

Lycidas Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 59	Tue 03/25/08 08:45 PM
A lot of women don't believe me if I tell them that. Once I even meant it, too.

Elizabeth98999 Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 393	Tue 03/25/08 08:46 PM
nope

lvsingle Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 292	Tue 03/25/08 08:46 PM
way wrong dude....

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Tue 03/25/08 08:47 PM
is it wrong to be attracted to the mind as well as the body? I'm pretty sure that's how it should be!

cnoteblack Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 691	Tue 03/25/08 08:49 PM
i just think a woman whos a deep thinker..or has much more to offer than hot sex is a more rounded choice for me..when you can connect intellectually and physically than you have something rare.but telling a woman your attracted to her intellectually i hope doesnt mean your not attracted sexually.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 03/25/08 08:50 PM
i just think a woman whos a deep thinker..or has much more to offer than hot sex is a more rounded choice for me..when you can connect intellectually and physically than you have something rare.but telling a woman your attracted to her intellectually i hope doesnt mean your not attracted sexually. not at all

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Tue 03/25/08 08:50 PM
Actually it's BETTER to be attracted to the mind,heart,soul,attitude etc than the body or the face..because outside appearances can and WILL change..whether its from old age,an accident,an illness..SOMETHING will change it.

sweetpea1970 Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 171	Tue 03/25/08 08:50 PM
hi lvsingle how are you tonight?

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Tue 03/25/08 08:51 PM
There is HOPE 4 mankind after all.Woo-Hoo!

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Tue 03/25/08 08:57 PM
Isn't that the most obvious answer EVER????? Isn't that like asking if the sun will rise in the east tomorrow? A good deal of sex is in the mind anyway bro Especially for women

Prtyeyes4U Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 82	Tue 03/25/08 09:42 PM
I feel if they bring sex up on the first meeting then that's all they are out for. If they are interested in getting to know you then sex won't be brought up.

cnoteblack Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 691	Tue 03/25/08 09:42 PM
what i meant was if you tell a woman that its her intellectuall mentallity that turns you on do you think that she will be offended or disappointed that you didnt say that it was her body or sexuallity that comes first?is that like asking if the sun rises in thje east or is that a valid question?