So it seems thaat I was right about some of the BS that goes on here. I
will be little bit more withdrawn from this site yet again. It seems
that the admin cares nothing about what goes no in the threads of the
number of profiles a person is able to create. I would imagine a few of
you noticed I haven't been posting much of my poems lately, now it will
be even fewer if any at all.

Good Luck to those who enjoy the BS.

G

They will be sorely missed, would much rather have the pen than the BS.
Sometimes the pen isn't mightier than the sword.
Take care

DRAMA... thats what keeps things going on here.. lol

I think people sometimes take this too seriously, G. Hey, it's the
internet....who really knows anyone here? If people want to post several
profiles, let 'em do it. It'll backfire on them in the long run. It
always does. If they want that kind of humiliation, they'll get it. Even
when people are banned, they come back as an alter ego. As far as
internet goes, I am afraid it probably won't get a lot more real than
this.

I would like to know as to what the other profile's have been doing as
far as causing havoc here?

I have not not met withanyone who has an alt profile as of yet.

But maybe I have.

Who knows.

So let them do so if it tickle's their fancy.

I don't care.

Besides. There is report abuse button here.

So why not use it?

Ghost

if what you say is true, thats sad. sad that people have nothing better
to do than to jump profiles

Van, even you know mods are needed to solve the problem with the bs that
goes on here. Finding mods that will be unbiased and honest is the
delemna you are faced with. As you search to find these people others
are destoying this site with there BS. Rags, ontario, Bloody Cesar, now
Truth of life/dreamweaverangel. I have watched these people change
profiles faster than I can change a TV station. They come back all
polite then go right back to the bs.

I choose not to participate in the bs, yet it seems I find myself being
pulled into it once again. In so doing I lowered myself to thier level,
and for me that is going back to square 1. I personally don't wish to
start over, I have worked too hard to get out of the gutter to go back.

Until solutions or mods are found I will be only one of the ghosts I
have written about.

G

I thought I had found a friendly place, where I could put in my 2 cents
worth on ocassion. without all the fighting guess I was wrong to think
such a place exists.

I too have lost friends from th BS...also reported th abuse...

but what good does it do if they can just return as another???

I don't see why people can't ignore the threads that are flaming at the
time? But it probably will be easier to ignore for a short period of
time as long as we know something will happen soon enough.... Sorta have
to agree with G on the Moderator part....

If we would have had a mod in place tonight we would not have lost karma
or fine and dreamweaver would have been suspended prior to it going this
far.

Sad time when you lose good people. Maybe we will have mods in place
before it happens again. Who Knows

we can only hope Kevin...M.

Gryp, how do uou all find out these things? I've talked to all of the
people you mentioned and never got any response out of the ordinary. Of
course, I haven't said anything to set them off. I agree with Lily; who
cares if you're talking to a fake. I would never discuss anything on
here that would land me in jail. Or make me embarrassed or anything of
the sort. So let them go ahed and play.

Dearm, Truth? Really? they seemed so normal.

For those of you who think life is a game. You can go play in somebody
else's tournament. I choose to not play in it.
As for taking things serious?

I didn't come to this site to find someone fake, its as easy as that. I
came to this dating site to find someone I would be able to spend time
with, to learn how to love someone with all my heart. To be able to
trust someone with my secrets. I honestly can tell you I have never done
this with anyone in my life!!! I am not even sure I can but I will die
trying to find out.
How can you trust anyone with all the BS that you see here? How can you
honestly believe anything anyone says with all the BS Flying? How could
you find a partner here that you can trust, if all you see is the same
people over and over build a new profile just to find a soft spot in you
and then BURN you with it? I am an intelligent man, and I usually can
tell a person by the way they write, however anyone can be conned,
ANYONE.
Hopefully the lady I have met here will be the end of my search, if not,
well I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

Like I said before this ghost will be in different shadows from now on.

Come on Gyp, this is a computer thing. You can trust someone only after
you know them and they've earned your trust. Sometimes that even
backfires. Meet the woman in person; see how she treats her dog, kids
and friends. Meet the parents--then you'll have a pretty good idea of
what you're dealing with. Don't share secrets with anyone on here.
This is the WWW for all to see.

waaaa waaaaa waaaaaaa

Hey folks -

I don't chime in on these types of discussions that often since Vanchau
handles everything so well, but I just wanted to reiterate to everyone
that we DO care.

Our #1 goal is to make JustSayHi a friendly, fun place to meet new
people, make new friends, and hopefully find the love of your life! So
far, we think we're doing an ok job, but we know there are a LOT of
things we can do better. In particular, we know the site is growing
very quickly, and consequently, we're facing new challenges in managing
more and more members to ensure we keep the same fun environment.

We're working on some new tools that will hopefully help improve the
experience for everyone. For example, we will not allow users to make
duplicate profiles, and we're working on methods to detect and eliminate
users with duplicate profiles. And we're working on ways both mods and
the community can help us moderate posts and discussions. The trick, of
course, is to make sure we continue to allow people to express
themselves, but not to the point where it is disparaging or hurtful to
others.

In the meantime, though, we need your help! With what we have today, we
just can't manage it all ourselves. We need you to notify us when users
become abusive, send bad mails, etc. PLEASE make sure to use the report
abuse feature. It's the fastest way to let us know that something bad
is happening on the site.

Thanks for your patience, and more importantly, thanks for your help in
making JustSayHi such a great place.

Hummmm seems that what ever went on here last nite I missed again go
figure. I don't post as much as I did at one time I go through the post
and answer the post I chose to ya sometimes I seem to get dragged into
the drama as well. But if I do no one drags me into it but myself. As
far as the Mods on stopping the drama sorry this is not a day care we
should be adult enough to handle it ourselves there are abuse buttons
for those that chose not to use them well you are defeating the purposs
of them being there. I have used them and I have seen those problems
handled very quickly. So I can say I will miss those that chose to go.
But...... for the reasons of the fake profiles most people don't even
know there neighbors for the persons they really are deep inside you
might think you do but you dont do you let it keep you from driving down
the street to your house noooooooo. You by pass that person in life you
chose not to talk to as you must do any where else in life. For no
matter where you work or go at times there will be others you dont see
eye to eye with but does it stop you from being who you are and become
them no. At times we might bring ourselves to there level but..... we
have enough sense to see that and walk away from that one person or
thing but .... we do not isolate our selfs from the ones we do enjoy
being around. That only gives in to them and now you have done what they
wanted and not what you wanted!

Now G even yourself must admit that the site must work for you did find
someone on this same site and will know in just a few days if it will be
someone you would consider spending more time with or not so guess the
internet does work at least it is possible it does. And there are
several others also that has.

As far as the fake profiles you show me a dating site that has
nooooooooo fake profiles and it will cost you dearly due to only a few
go to the extreme of running back ground checks on the members and must
have pics that they can verify.

As all knows you should use caution when online dating and ask the
questions when u are talking to someone your interested in . As far as
the ones that are fake here okay I have heard of Truthforlife AKA
Dreamweaverangel But......... as far as I know she is not been talking
to any guy on here to date she just voices her thoughts there are others
as ghostrecon that has a profile and no pic guess what I dont care the
knowledge he brings to the site is what I'm interested in not to date
him for sure if he was to start talking to someone that is there issue
to see his pic not ours for just talking to him and passing our time.
This site is not only consider a dating site it is a friends site as
well. Some as Fineporclein do not show her pic either why who knows that
is her choice she brings nothing but good with her. Luvspanks which is
new just join he prefers not to show his pic for the reason he thinks
for some strange reason he does not feel as if he is nice enough to look
at and when he did show what he looked like damn if he did not get
e-mails from others tellin him what is wrong with his looks. So if they
chose to hid behind a cartoon or a sunrise does it really matter if they
are someone that someone is interested in and refuse them there pic it
is there choice to move on not to belittle them into something they do
not want to do.

I know time for the ending on this book! Hope you see my point!
Only we chose the path in life we take or the friends we chose to talk
to !!

I'll be a posting a topic about how we'll moderator the forums later
today. It will be stickied... it will explain how we will solve this
problem.