Topic: online dating
ShagnaC's photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:20 PM
OK what was the most bizare date you had meeting someone from online.

Mine was so bizare it was scary!!
I met him on new years eve for about 5 minutes as he was going to meet
up with his family, There was a great physical attraction there no doubt
about it on both ends, He brought his friend with him and I was ok with
that, We decided to all meet up around 11pm when he was done. I brought
my friend also to meet his friend. We went to Dennys as everything was
closed. The man I met up with was a little off in everyway and I could
not pin point it at the time, but oh was he sooo cute. SO I kind of over
looked it. He complained how expensive Dennys was and that he was going
to die single, just weird ****, Anyway after Dennys he dropped his
friend off and I dropped my friend off and met up at the park to get to
know one another more, I was thinking, yes he is a little off but maybe
he is just nervous. So I meet him at the park and it is about 1230am
now, As soon as I walked into the parking lot of the park where he was
already at, a cop pulled up and told us to sit down with our leggs
crossed with our hands on our knees. I am like why to myself as I never
had a run in with the police. Well, the guy I met asked the cop if he
could talk to him in private. I am like OH **** I am going to jail for
something he did, The cop searched this guy, searched his car and I am
like shi^tting my pants at the same time. Well, the cop finally let us
go and I tolf the guy I met What the ****!! He said he was on parole and
just got out of prison 3 weeks ago after serving 13 years for aggravated
assult. He then asked me if I wanted to go somewhere elce. I am like Ahh
NOPE I am calling it a night. Sure as **** 2 days later I get a email
and he said he was falling in love with me. I called him and told him
never to contact me again. But the kicker is~~ A few days later the
friend who he brought to meet my friend called me and asked me out!!
NOW that is my bizare story!
PLEASE BE CAREFUL WHEN MEETING ANYONE ONLINE IN A PUBLIC AREA!!

LAMom's photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:25 PM
OMG,, Shagna, glad it all turned out okay for you and you are
alright..... you never really know what is out thier.... I have nothing
to top that one....

no photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:31 PM
That's crazy!!

unsure's photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:32 PM
OMG!! I guess I would say this to you, listen to your first instinct! I
guess you saw the red flag and you should have ran in the beginning! I
wonder why the police didn't say anything to you? I think if I was you,
I would call them and ask them why they didn't warn you! I guess they
would just tell you that he has a right to his privacy...thats the thing
with on-line dating, they can be what ever they want to be...so be
careful!!

unsure's photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:45 PM
The craziest date I ever had from the internet actually turned out to be
a long time relationship. It didn't get crazy until I moved and then
lordy it got nuts. I met this guy and he seemed really sweet and things
moved really fast. We actually decided on moving in together within 4
months, so we were engaged and purchased a house in another state. I
packed up my boys and moved to Illinois into a beautiful home, things
were perfect until I got all settled.
I wasn't happy and he knew it, thats when he started trying to keep me
away from my family and not allowing me to talk to my friends. He
started locking me in the bedroom, thats when I knew that things had to
change. So, when he left for a jewlerely show, he owned his own
jewlerely shop, I rented a U-haul and got the hell out of there! Of
course I took my $5,000.00 diamion ring with me, that way I knew he
would want it back and he would purchase it from me so I could get back
to Indiana. But, when I moved out, I found knives hid in our bedroom..I
have no clue what he was planning to do with those. I knew something was
wrong with him because when we went to Mexico, we were suppose to get
married and his mother pulled me aside and told me not to marry him. She
said that he had lots of problems...thats when I told her that I was
moving out---that has been my last internet date!!

widowerseeking's photo
Tue 01/09/07 05:57 PM
guess my weirdest one is already posted on (reltionship advise should I
take a chance and meet him). now I know they are not all that weird,
just some friendly adice. watch your back.

zack100's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:33 PM
I,m confused as to why you,d dump off the others and return to of all
places a dark, and dirty park to meet him, especially after complaining
about the prices at Denny,s.

ShagnaC's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:39 PM
Actually it was not a dirty park at all, It is a very large upscale
park. Like I said I thought he was nervous and gave it a chance, If at
any time I thought I was in any kind off danger I would of not put
myself in a bad situation. That is the chances we take meeting anyone
online.

zack100's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:42 PM
A dinner date for me would not be at Denny,s, hopefully you either,
since he complained about the prices should have been an indicator that
he was unstable.

ShagnaC's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:48 PM
read the post Zack, It was New Years Eve and NOTHING was open. Yes he
was a looser and after that night I had nothing to do with him, I posted
this thread to educated others and to have a few laughs not to be
ridiculed but someone.

zack100's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:49 PM
Thanks for sharing....lets do lunch sometime.

widowerseeking's photo
Tue 01/09/07 06:51 PM
the dinner date and complaining about the prices, would not in itself
make him unstable, possibly he was just a little short of cash at the
time. there have been times when I have found it necessary to pull out
the plastic, because I was short of cash on my person. I actually prefer
not to carry much money.

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:31 PM
Shag...I believe what happened to you was just a fluke....going to
Dennys was kool or any public place....but a PARK, AT NIGHT?
PLEASEEEEEEEEE....That was just silly, on your part. I have had LOTS of
internet dates and only ONE bad one, but I always take precations and I
ALWAYS meet in public places and I always have my OWN car...I NEVER get
into THEIR car, nor let them in MY car....and I always have my cell
phone, on my person and never carry cash, only carry plastic. These are
just a few tips...also, on some of these sites I NEVER POST a picture,
either....depending on which internet dating site it is. It is ALSO
wise, for safty, to NEVER put your real zip code on these things,
either...that way the weirdos cannot ever find you, should you ever meet
one....remember SAFTY IS 1ST....PERIOD....AND PEOPLE WHO DO NOT LIKE YOU
''PLAYING IT SAFE'' are, more than likely, THE ONES who WILL DO YOU
HARM, in some way.

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:35 PM
HELLO AND GOODBYE are GREAT WORDS for some internet loves....NEVER be
afaird to use those two words to internet loves or ''so called''
friends.

Morena350's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:36 PM
NEVER HAVE,, trying thoe!! was up shag!!

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:36 PM
BAR CLOSED DUE TO REPAIRS

Morena350's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:37 PM
dream did you see the results??

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:40 PM
Th poem results? That was GREAT!!!! BUT where is the prize....LOL! I
LOVED that idea of yours...I wished that Van would help with it, though!
KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:41 PM
I bet you have more good ideas for this site, as well.

zack100's photo
Tue 01/09/07 07:42 PM
Yeah, but I did,nt read the poems.