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Topic: Friendship or nothing???
Derekkye's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:05 PM
Could (or should) you stay in a relationship with someone you love if they were only interested in friendship, but you were interested in being that person's significant one?

Totage's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM

Could (or should) you stay in a relationship with someone you love if they were only interested in friendship, but you were interested in being that person's significant one?


No

southern_bee's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
ive been there but it always turns out if worked out for the best for me..flowerforyou

Redsoxfan1's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
I don't think so. If you want a real relationship, and all he/she wants is friendship, I don't think it'll work out.:heart: flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
flowerforyou You probably shouldnt flowerforyou

steelersgirltina's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
I think that friendship can lead to possible relationships.
Dont give up. Take it day by day.

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
Yes, because maybe if that other persone get to know you more their feelings will change into wanting to be in a relationship with you.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:07 PM
Ouch. Sounds way too painful.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:08 PM
Yes i could. Its sometimes more important to just have that person in your life in whatever way possible.

PragmaticMind's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:08 PM
Edited by PragmaticMind on Sun 03/23/08 07:10 PM

Could (or should) you stay in a relationship with someone you love if they were only interested in friendship, but you were interested in being that person's significant one?


Friendship.. what good is it doing you being with someone who most likely isn't going to love you mutually in return.. (assuming the relationship has been going on for a decent period of time). Friendship is all it may really be, once one gets over the infactuation :wink: that's not fulfillment, happiness, a relationship filled undying love, contentment for that matter, etc. Either friendship only is possible, or the 2 go separate ways. bigsmile It can grow either way.. to a great friendship or a match made in heaven (hopefully).

bgeorge's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:09 PM
definitely not

WhiteSox0507's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:09 PM

Could (or should) you stay in a relationship with someone you love if they were only interested in friendship, but you were interested in being that person's significant one?


I'd say yes. I have a friend that I'd like to be with, but I'm not going to destroy the friendship over it. I'd rather have her in my ife as a friend than not at all.

Derekkye's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:11 PM


Could (or should) you stay in a relationship with someone you love if they were only interested in friendship, but you were interested in being that person's significant one?


Friendship.. what good is it doing you being with someone who most likely isn't going to love your mutually in return.. that's not fulfillment, happiness, a relationship filled undying love, contentment for that matter, etc. Either friendship only is possible, or the 2 go separate ways. bigsmile

I agree :smile:

designer83's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:13 PM
no...definately not! I met a guy last summer and I enjoyed spending time with him as friends. He wanted more...it ended up just being akward when we were together. I dont recommend it!

Moondark's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:14 PM
Not a good thing. Because you might miss someone great because you will always be waiting for that person to change his or her mind. Oh, you won't realize that is what you are doing, but it will happen. At the worst, you will try to manipulate situations to get that person to turn to you instead of someone else. And the resentment will grow when that person has a different significant other.

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:15 PM
Edited by Jamie82 on Sun 03/23/08 07:16 PM
It depends how important the friendship is to u. Just because the person doesnt feel exactly the way u do isnt his or her fault. And if u respect the person enough than u will still want to be their friend. It might be hard but u have to weigh the options urself and see what u think u should do.

EstrellaNegra's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:18 PM
It's heart ache waiting to happen.

Don't do it man!noway

itsmetina's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:36 PM
probaly not

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:41 PM
I could never do it. But if you think you can, good luck.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 03/23/08 07:45 PM
see "When Harry Met Sally" drinker

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