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Topic: first time you talk to someone or meet them
Winx's photo
Sun 03/23/08 08:04 PM


I don't really worry about whether or not they're gonna like me, I worry about how our conversation is gonna go in person. I've found that though you may be able to talk forever over the internet, it still doesn't compare to the face to face.

Been through that one meeting and that was that. The internet/phone and in person are 100 times different. I get a lot more nervous when meeting girls in person than on the internet because the internet doesn't matter you're never gonna see the person so who cares what they think of you?


Warning - never say never. You just never know if that person is going to be in your city for a couple of days and wants to say hi. It's happened to me.

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Sun 03/23/08 08:05 PM
Well I don't have to worry about it. No one on here talks to me laugh laugh

Jess642's photo
Sun 03/23/08 08:05 PM

are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..


Nup...what you read is what you get... no masks... a grumpy, forthright cantankerous woman, who will tell it straight...

I like me...as I am... if others don't.... their loss...

Cut me, and I bleed like everyone else.

jonny63's photo
Sun 03/23/08 08:19 PM
Its almost no different to walking up to someone you have seen around but never met,you have to be prepaired for rejection. If
you are, then its harder to be let down.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:51 PM


are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..

Im never nervous about meeting or talking to a woman...

I figure if they dont like me its their loss and my gain...

The right person is out there for me...I just have to weed through the rest until I find her or she finds me.

That sounds like the right way to look at it.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/23/08 11:02 PM
I always used to like meeting people but after meeting a couple of dates that seem to have ulterior motives for dateing DECIDlY More cautious.

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