Topic: first time you talk to someone or meet them
hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:31 PM


If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou

I know that very well. :wink:


I :heart: you like a son, boy!

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:31 PM



Why would you be scared?

I don't know actually


So don't be because there's no reason. Another problem solved! I wish they were all this simple. huh


Yoda strikes again!

jonny63's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:32 PM

are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..

Thats why we should all take our time getting to know each other
first, so you should like each other before you ever meet. Being friends should always come first even in person, if you are looking for long term relationship.

southern_bee's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:33 PM
i think its a natural feelings humans in gneral have the need to feel accepted..too much discovery channel

but then again,if someone doesnt like me i dont waste my energy on someone that does not like me flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:33 PM

If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all


hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:34 PM


If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all




is there something wrong with us?

Jim519's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:35 PM

i think its a natural feelings humans in gneral have the need to feel accepted..too much discovery channel

but then again,if someone doesnt like me i dont waste my energy on someone that does not like me flowerforyou



Call me bitter

I dont need to feel accepted at all

Jim519's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:35 PM



If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all




is there something wrong with us?


Would you really care if there was? laugh

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:36 PM




If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all




is there something wrong with us?


Would you really care if there was? laugh


nah - it was a rhetorical question.

PragmaticMind's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:36 PM

If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



flowerforyou drinker

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:37 PM
If I'm gonna spend time worrying? I can usually find lots more urgent things to worry about.

If you are worrying about stuff like this? Life must be abnormally good for you!

liquidcandy's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:38 PM
never game a damn before and dont give a damn now !!!!!!!!

Jim519's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:38 PM





If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all




is there something wrong with us?


Would you really care if there was? laugh


nah - it was a rhetorical question.


Not sure if you saw my post from earlier. It was nice to hear from some educated people that had great insight. Talked to some friends on the phone and my Dad as well.

Come to find out, we are normal my dear :wink:

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:42 PM






If you have ever read any of my posts, it will be evident to you that I don't give a crap whether people like me or not.flowerforyou



Ditto...

I truly just dont care at all




is there something wrong with us?


Would you really care if there was? laugh


nah - it was a rhetorical question.


Not sure if you saw my post from earlier. It was nice to hear from some educated people that had great insight. Talked to some friends on the phone and my Dad as well.

Come to find out, we are normal my dear :wink:


no - where is your post?

I am glad to be normal - no one has ever said that about me before. The only thing I would add...I don't feel any bitterness..you mentioned that a few posts back - I am happy as a clam in my own world. If people don't like me, whowowowowowowowooo I am still happy as a clam. I like me, you see!

Jim519's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:44 PM
I guess when I say bitter, I mean not caring and blunt. May be a poor definition...

Here is the post

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/97281

Winx's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:45 PM

are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..


The first time that I met someone on-line, I was severely nervous. I was putting my own self on a blind date! I was nervous about what to say, would he like me, would I like him too. It turned out good. We dated 4 months.

It has been easier meeting people since that initial meeting.
I am much more relaxed. Each person that I meet is a learning experience.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:48 PM
yes always..

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:48 PM

are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..

Nope..I already know they won't so I don't let it bother me anymore.laugh

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:49 PM

are you ever really scared they're not gonna like you? whether in person or on here..

Im never nervous about meeting or talking to a woman...

I figure if they dont like me its their loss and my gain...

The right person is out there for me...I just have to weed through the rest until I find her or she finds me.

no photo
Sun 03/23/08 05:50 PM

yes always..



You Prncs? Really?