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Men think something sounds like a good idea until it's put into practice. Then they realize it's not at all what they wanted but fail to say anything.

I say very poor communicator, as well as a tad touch of passive aggressiveness.

Sorry.. I missed the not about you part, Madam.

I know and I appreciate what you are saying as well I do too

no biggie darlin...most people just think that a post is directly about them, no harm no fowl.

but i think that is a very good explaination of the situation

maybe it makes them feel powerful that they can now reject you. he may be playing out a past issue with you where he was rejected...just a thought.
and along those lines...when did men get so lazy?
this was mentioned in a past thread...men just seem to have given up. they want and they need...but they want the woman to initiate. they want a girl to mail them first. they don't want to tell you anything about themselves, they want you to do all the asking. they don't want to have to move for a woman who loves them, shes gotta do all that work too.
what a shame.

...and before all the rock-slinging begins, i'm not pointing at anyone in particular...
just making a general comment based on what i have observed on this site.

I agree !!!

Madam I do think it's refreshing to point out here, in a roundabout sort of way, that it is an individual thing to not always know what we want. We know there is a void or something off kilter... but that is it.

We, as people, sometimes know there is a need and are unable to express how it can be fulfilled... for we really don't know. I know that I tend to do this and in a way, it's why I can be guilty of expecting a man to read my mind.

so very true. i do the same thing. its like if i am feeling it, then he should know. also sometimes there are things i want or need and have trouble expressing what i mean exactly then i get disappointed when its not the way i wanted it, not thinking that i did not tell it perhaps to where they can/could understand it.

lilith, i love your point of view on things!

Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.

Confusion rules

If he is playing the submissive role, then why are you giving in to him so easily?

try a year and a half

well if u like it too,then its ok,if not then leave such kind of guys,they are turned on by the agressive things.Its up to you.Good luck.

Smack him tell him to wake up. Hell it's hard to find women that are more aggressive and i don't want to see how most women will come on here and post I am. This is the net, anyone can say anything and when it comes down to reality, there not....