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He doesn't know what he wants. So he makes excuses. Just a guess.
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Good answer moon
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He's an idiot?
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Another good answer ((water))
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<---not a man but
maybe because he's really unsure with what he wants or in himself? from a girl's stand point...what if we did the same? what would the reason be? I put myself in the guy's place and that's what I came up with 
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looks to me like a bad case of committment phobia. he probably feels threatened when you initiate things and then he runs.
been there, done that. my advice: RUN ! |
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There is another possibility here. If the OP is referring to sexual advances, that is. He may not have a strong sex drive. He may use the excuse he wants her to initiate, so he doesn't feel pressured to initiate himself.... and then when she does, he is reluctant and becomes irritated because now he must respond in some way. I think the guy may have sexual issues.
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There is another possibility here. If the OP is referring to sexual advances, that is. He may not have a strong sex drive. He may use the excuse he wants her to initiate, so he doesn't feel pressured to initiate himself.... and then when she does, he is reluctant and becomes irritated because now he must respond in some way. I think the guy may have sexual issues. another good point. |
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Madamx, you can take the lead, get aggressive, make me service you, do any damn thing you want darlin, dont know how to answer the question for you tho, maybe you skeered him
 maybe he just thought that was what he wanted maybe his willie wasn't workin
good luck and best wishes to ya always darlin
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When someone says to you....to be more aggressive and then they arent happy with that.......get rid of him!!!! Youre too much this your not enough that!!!!!! gaaaaaaaaaaaawd who needs that aggravation????
 
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Edited by
Gypsy41
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Sun 03/23/08 01:05 PM
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buy him a plastic barbie doll!!!
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Madam. I am at a loss on this one. Unless he does have the controller issues as another posted. Personally I like it when the lady takes charge it definately spices things up.
 
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Probably control issues, keep doing what you do...forget them if they don't like you for that.
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Maybe he simply wanted to know that you are interested as well and therefore put out the suggestion that you initiate. However, when you do he decided it was not at all what he wanted. It's not you, Madam.
I say very poor communicator, as well as a tad touch of passive aggressiveness. |
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again my dears, this isnt about ME its a question in general. pretty much everyone knows i have an "aggressive" side haha.... but i have heard alot of women complaining about this and i certainly dont have the answer to it, so i brought it forward to see if you could shed some light on the issue.
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Madamx, you can take the lead, get aggressive, make me service you, do any damn thing you want darlin, dont know how to answer the question for you tho, maybe you skeered him maybe he just thought that was what he wanted maybe his willie wasn't workin
good luck and best wishes to ya always darlin
i always do what i want pumpkin hehehe 
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Nice to know Madam. I am at a loss on this one. Unless he does have the controller issues as another posted. Personally I like it when the lady takes charge it definately spices things up.
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he must be gay.... Gay, Defineatly gay. |
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 Madamx, you can take the lead, get aggressive, make me service you, do any damn thing you want darlin, dont know how to answer the question for you tho, maybe you skeered him maybe he just thought that was what he wanted maybe his willie wasn't workin
good luck and best wishes to ya always darlin
i always do what i want pumpkin hehehe
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Maybe he simply wanted to know that you are interested as well and therefore put out the suggestion that you initiate. However, when you do he decided it was not at all what he wanted. It's not you, Madam. I say very poor communicator, as well as a tad touch of passive aggressiveness. another good thought on this. |
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