Topic: Stay at home moms....
lulu24's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:11 PM
some work from home.

some have saved money that will last until their kiddos hit school.

others receive child support/disability/alimony/school loans, etc.

some come from well-off families.

however they manage, kudos to them.

hellkitten54's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:12 PM
I'm single, not working, going to school, money wise I'm ok. I have chosen not to work my sons first year of life. I am not here looking for a father for my son, or someone to support me. I am very capable of making ends meet on my own. But I am still a woman, and like having a handsome guy around.flowerforyou

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:13 PM


So stop looking at them then! lol

They keep looking at me!


Something about you must scream I'LL SUPPORT YOU... laugh
Lemme have a looksie at your profile and figure out what it is...

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:14 PM

I'm single, not working, going to school, money wise I'm ok. I have chosen not to work my sons first year of life. I am not here looking for a father for my son, or someone to support me. I am very capable of making ends meet on my own. But I am still a woman, and like having a handsome guy around.flowerforyou

I wasn't knocking it. Just askig the question.

Hope the birthday went well today and your cupcakes were good!

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:15 PM



So stop looking at them then! lol

They keep looking at me!


Something about you must scream I'LL SUPPORT YOU... laugh
Lemme have a looksie at your profile and figure out what it is...

Sure go ahead!!!!!!!

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:15 PM
Why do you ASSUME they want you to support them and their children?
Maybe they are looking for a poor sucker to support and you look like a poor slob who could use some hellaugh laugh p!

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:16 PM
Ohhh yeah I can clearly see why.

It's because you're attractive, have good manners, and you read and write well. Who wouldn't want that around their kids? laugh Silly man.

hellkitten54's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:17 PM


I'm single, not working, going to school, money wise I'm ok. I have chosen not to work my sons first year of life. I am not here looking for a father for my son, or someone to support me. I am very capable of making ends meet on my own. But I am still a woman, and like having a handsome guy around.flowerforyou

I wasn't knocking it. Just askig the question.

Hope the birthday went well today and your cupcakes were good!



Thank you. Yes everything was wonderful today!! And the ones with the sprinkles didn't get eaten. laugh drinker

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:17 PM

Why do you ASSUME they want you to support them and their children?
Maybe they are looking for a poor sucker to support and you look like a poor slob who could use some hellaugh laugh p!

I didn't say me and if I would have assumed anything, I wouldn't have asked the question! I would have already had my answer!

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:18 PM

Ohhh yeah I can clearly see why.

It's because you're attractive, have good manners, and you read and write well. Who wouldn't want that around their kids? laugh Silly man.

Thanks

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:19 PM



I'm single, not working, going to school, money wise I'm ok. I have chosen not to work my sons first year of life. I am not here looking for a father for my son, or someone to support me. I am very capable of making ends meet on my own. But I am still a woman, and like having a handsome guy around.flowerforyou

I wasn't knocking it. Just askig the question.

Hope the birthday went well today and your cupcakes were good!



Thank you. Yes everything was wonderful today!! And the ones with the sprinkles didn't get eaten. laugh drinker

I would have eaten a sprinkled one!

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:19 PM
I have always had to work, my daughter's whole life, even when I was still married. I have never had the luxury of staying home with my child.

If a woman has investments, a trust fund, lottery winnings, generous family, a home business or whatever that allows her to stay at home with her kids - why would anyone knock that?

I would have done it in a heartbeat if I could have.

I don't understand why you feel it has something to do with you.

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:19 PM
your question is the equivalent of asking someone how much money they make. If they wanted to tell you, they would. Otherwise, it is none of your business....

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:21 PM
I'm a stay at home single mom and I don't feel I have to answer to anyone. If you are not paying my bills, it is frankly none of your business.

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:22 PM

I have always had to work, my daughter's whole life, even when I was still married. I have never had the luxury of staying home with my child.

If a woman has investments, a trust fund, lottery winnings, generous family, a home business or whatever that allows her to stay at home with her kids - why would anyone knock that?

I would have done it in a heartbeat if I could have.

I don't understand why you feel it has something to do with you.

I didn't say it had anything to specifically do with me. I only asked to get a better understanding. I believe I made clear that I was asking this question as a child that was raised by a single mother. In which case, you can easily see my interest!

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:23 PM
You could always add something to your profile about not wanting any moochers laugh but they'll probably write you anyway!

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:25 PM
well...yeah...God knows a woman couldn't be successful and have money saved up or invested so she could stay home with her children......
Ever hear of financial planning???????

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:25 PM

I'm a stay at home single mom and I don't feel I have to answer to anyone. If you are not paying my bills, it is frankly none of your business.

Why didn't you just say so in the first place. However, there is no need to defend yourself or answer any questions on your income. I wasn't putting you down by no means. I just don't understand the term, that's all!

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:27 PM


I'm a stay at home single mom and I don't feel I have to answer to anyone. If you are not paying my bills, it is frankly none of your business.

Why didn't you just say so in the first place. However, there is no need to defend yourself or answer any questions on your income. I wasn't putting you down by no means. I just don't understand the term, that's all!

How hard is it to understand????
Single stay at home mother---a mother who is not married and is home to raise her children....

Thomas27's photo
Sat 03/22/08 04:28 PM

well...yeah...God knows a woman couldn't be successful and have money saved up or invested so she could stay home with her children......
Ever hear of financial planning???????

Why are you so quick to defend yourself, when no is attacking you. I'm happy for you and all your great choices and your ability to carry them out!