How many people on here have been rejected by another member of jhs? I would also be interested in hearing how you handled it, and if it really ahd an impact on your life. Curious to here honest responses

yep... he deactivated

maybe if ya put the gun away.....

nope just ignored,loathed,hated,dissed....but not rejected

I get rejected more than you know. There have been a few I really like but they rejected me. So here I am, still plodding along hoping to find someone special

I say people come people go..Next
The most I get is an email, I respond and then poof they vanish, must not like my personality

No sh*t that's kinda scarey...I didn't even break in your house...

lol.. you get used to it after a while

The gun goes nowhere. We are a package deal. It is kinda like the bbw debate, if you don't like it, tough, they are as much a part of me as my personality. I let everyone know upfront that I am an official card carrying member of gun queer annonymous

i just say next.it is kinda like the bar but you dont have to pay for drinks.

Kinda had rejections and it hurts, but that's OK.

Some folks when I try to arrange details of dates will stop communicating when I get too detailed as to where I want to go and when. All I can say is we all fall short and people should understand and forgive and give me do-overs and all that. At least send me an e-mail and say, no longer interested because....

But, if that's not to be, so what. BFHD, you know? I usually have two or three plans and options going at any one time anyway.

And one of my problems is I'm so darned busy that I'd only have about one day a month when I could go see anyone anyway. I'm looking for a relationship where I could drop in at someone's place for an hour or two, spur of the moment and vice versa, but I'm having trouble getting to that and any advice you could provide'd be appreciated.

Hang in there, Rob. You the man.

I haven't been YET.. but I'm sure you might get some responses from guys.. SORRY y'all.

rejection is something that happens everyday and to everybody in different situations of life.
The only way out (as far as i have experienced) is to move on. The world does not wait for us to recover, so we gotta keep moving.

DISCLAIMER: just my opinion.

well I have been rejected on here by some woman, and I still talk to them as friends if we cross path. Some I even still email on a friendly only basis. Rejection can be healthy, and grounding as well. Everything is what you want to make out of it imho

Amen to that, I own a P1911 that's my baby, keep the gun pic it's the real you...

darlin you know I would NEVER reject you

Rejected? No, it never got that far. I used to send out e-mails to new local people, but none of those ever got a reply, so I stopped.

Ignored? Oh yeah -- that's par for the course here.

But it's been a long time since I've seen anyone here who I would consider a legitimate dating prospect....maybe never, actually....so it's not like I'm missing any real opportunities....

when I get rejected it doesn't bother me... I don't care what someone thinks about me that doesn't even know me.