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Topic: Question for the Men
sweet950's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:25 PM
I have been married 3 years. My husband doesn't like to have sex. What's
up?

slowtogetit's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:28 PM
hi sweet, is he gay or doesn't find you attractive?

sweet950's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:30 PM
I am beginning to wonder. I was married once before to a man who wanted
it 7 days a week several times a day. I actually called him and asked
him what could be up with my new husband. He said he was crazy. I have
never had a problem meeting men. I was a model for 5 years until I moved
to Houston. He says he "has a low sex drive". I am getting really
depressed over it.

slowtogetit's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:32 PM
this wasn't a problem when you were dating him? 3 yrs is a long time for
a low sex drive....lol

sweet950's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:33 PM
No, not at all. Just after the marriage. Several of my friends think he
may be gay.

slowtogetit's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:40 PM
well why don't you come right out and tell him this?

Nervesgone's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:46 PM
I had a brother in law that turned out to be gay. If he is, you can
catch him!

Vega77's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:46 PM
Maybe he has other problems going on right now. Being in a relationship
isnt all about sex. It would be best to sit down with him and find out
what things may be bothering him and it will give you a chance to let
him know what is bothering you

Gryphyn's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:48 PM
Sounds to me like he is missing something, try something different or
spike his drink with Viagra. He may be feeling depressed or doesn't
think he is satisfying you in bed. Any number of things could bring it
on

no photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:50 PM
sounds like your marriage is falling apart!... it probably wont be
long.... its over.... been their done that.

barney2's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:55 PM
In the beginning, God created the Earth and rested.

Then God created Man and rested.

Then God created Woman.


Since then, neither God, nor Man has rested.
(The only reason why man has not rested is because, he has yet to prove
himself to the woman.)

There you go! Right back at ya!


PS.. You have to solve the problem !! [no offense]

joe1973's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:02 PM
viagra? that will help a little bit. plop a playgirl on the table and
walk away BUT keep an eye out . if he starts fornicating his manhood
with the mag in front of hisself then "BINGO" you know the rest.

TheShadow's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:15 PM
OK this is kinda weird to night reading the threads lol what man that is
in a relationship don't like to have sex I like to hear this

widowerseeking's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:22 PM
a relationshop is more than just sex,sit down and talk with him, try to
find out what the problem is. you still may not find out, the next step
have him go to the doctor, and by all means go along with him. don't
just say it is over, try to find a way to correct the problem first.

mtironroses's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:57 PM
yeah, what widow said..

iceprincess's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:59 PM
mayby he really does have a low drive and is picking up on the fact this
bothers you and he therefor feels even more inadequate. life is not sex
and neither is love.

heatherrae's photo
Sun 01/07/07 11:05 PM
the two of you should be speaking with physicians about this not online
forums. there are many reasons for people to have declines in their sex
drives it does not mean that he does not love you it does not mean that
he's gay it does not mean that he's cheating. it means his body is not
as responsive to sex right now as "society" says that it should be.

GolfBear's photo
Sun 01/07/07 11:07 PM
Heather is right, just spice it up!

iceprincess's photo
Sun 01/07/07 11:13 PM
variety is the spice of life but some just don't have the drive society
is not always right and some men really don't want it.

mtironroses's photo
Mon 01/08/07 12:11 AM
whatever is going on here, (or not going on), its not you, try to get to
the bottom of it, if he won't open up with you, well... life is short,
move on...
best wishes to you !!

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