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I have been married 3 years. My husband doesn't like to have sex. What's
up? |
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hi sweet, is he gay or doesn't find you attractive?
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I am beginning to wonder. I was married once before to a man who wanted
it 7 days a week several times a day. I actually called him and asked him what could be up with my new husband. He said he was crazy. I have never had a problem meeting men. I was a model for 5 years until I moved to Houston. He says he "has a low sex drive". I am getting really depressed over it. |
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this wasn't a problem when you were dating him? 3 yrs is a long time for
a low sex drive....lol |
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No, not at all. Just after the marriage. Several of my friends think he
may be gay. |
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well why don't you come right out and tell him this?
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I had a brother in law that turned out to be gay. If he is, you can
catch him! |
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Maybe he has other problems going on right now. Being in a relationship
isnt all about sex. It would be best to sit down with him and find out what things may be bothering him and it will give you a chance to let him know what is bothering you |
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Sounds to me like he is missing something, try something different or
spike his drink with Viagra. He may be feeling depressed or doesn't think he is satisfying you in bed. Any number of things could bring it on |
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sounds like your marriage is falling apart!... it probably wont be
long.... its over.... been their done that. |
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In the beginning, God created the Earth and rested.
Then God created Man and rested. Then God created Woman. Since then, neither God, nor Man has rested. (The only reason why man has not rested is because, he has yet to prove himself to the woman.) There you go! Right back at ya! PS.. You have to solve the problem !! [no offense] |
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viagra? that will help a little bit. plop a playgirl on the table and
walk away BUT keep an eye out . if he starts fornicating his manhood with the mag in front of hisself then "BINGO" you know the rest. |
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OK this is kinda weird to night reading the threads lol what man that is
in a relationship don't like to have sex I like to hear this |
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a relationshop is more than just sex,sit down and talk with him, try to
find out what the problem is. you still may not find out, the next step have him go to the doctor, and by all means go along with him. don't just say it is over, try to find a way to correct the problem first. |
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yeah, what widow said..
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mayby he really does have a low drive and is picking up on the fact this
bothers you and he therefor feels even more inadequate. life is not sex and neither is love. |
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the two of you should be speaking with physicians about this not online
forums. there are many reasons for people to have declines in their sex drives it does not mean that he does not love you it does not mean that he's gay it does not mean that he's cheating. it means his body is not as responsive to sex right now as "society" says that it should be. |
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Heather is right, just spice it up!
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variety is the spice of life but some just don't have the drive society
is not always right and some men really don't want it. |
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whatever is going on here, (or not going on), its not you, try to get to
the bottom of it, if he won't open up with you, well... life is short, move on... best wishes to you !! |
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