Topic: ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING.
Gryphyn's photo
Sun 01/07/07 05:28 AM

Thank you backinthesaddle for my post

I have seen in the last few weeks countless posts about attitude and
those who start them don't even realize it.

Finding what your looking for is all attitude. Whether your looking for
a friend or someone that is your soulmate. This site is for dating, to
get to know a person that you can spend the rest of your life with.
Anyone who tells me different is either lying to themself, already has
found that special someone to fill the void, or isn't really interested
in finding Him/Her.

Winners come in first, and losers are leftover. Me I am one of the
winners, and I know why. I became willing to lose everything to find
that one special person in my life. I gave up the 6 figure income, the
house, community respect, toys and a bad marriage. I walked away from
everything to find HAPPINESS. I have spent more than 3 years traveling
and searching for my soulmate. I have moved 7 times, 4 jobs and pissed
in several bowls of Wheaties. I have loved and lost,and kicked in the
teeth. The woman I have met are truly beautiful, they allowed me to find
out who they are, yet did not accept me for who I am. They loved me as
best they could, however thier love was for someone else.

I hear and read on these forums almost every day about how people run
from the word LOVE. I am amazed how many people truly believe it is
TABOO to tell someone how much they love someone. Me I don't give a $hit
who knows I LOVE Toyota Girl. I really don't give a rats A$$ who knows
it either.

You see it really quite simple how to find the one thing in life
everyone wants to find, Love! To be accepted for who I am, To be
accepted for what I do, to be accepted for what I do, To accept me with
all the flaws I have.

I am no different from anyone else on this site, except I am willing to
do whatever it takes to find and learn more about my SOULMATE. Many
people here I know here have Scoffed at me, they THINK they know it all.
What a laugh, The only way to find the love of your life IS to seek it
out in everyone you meet. I have and will continue to do this the rest
of my life. I HAVE LOVED each and every lady I have ever been close too.
I have been KICKED in the teeth more than once, and until the time
comes that I find the woman of my dreams, I will continue to do so.

On the 12th of this month, I WILL find out if Toyota Girl is that woman.
If she will be the woman who accepts me for who I am. If she will love
me for who I am, and if she will be my soulmate in this life. We will
spend 10 days together, learning more about each other than any of you
could find out in a year on the internet. We will play together, eat
together, live together, and Love together. YES I said LOVE TOGETHER,
for those of you who are afraid of saying this word you are afraid of
finding it.

The women in my life have and always will be the one who will make the
final decision in our relationship. I know who I am looking for, I have
written about her in my poems. They TELL everything about me, who I am,
what I do, and most of all that I am willing to go the distance to BE IN
LOVE.

Someone very dear to me recently found her smile again and is seeing a
special someone this weekend. She became willing to put it all on the
line to find out. Are those who read this WILLING to put it ALL on the
line to find it? This person is just like me in that she became willing.
Just Like TG and I, she is willing to give till it hurts to find that
one who will walk down that road of destiny.

Who of you will be next to find The Love of YOUR Life?

Attitude IS Everything

:)

G

venusrose's photo
Sun 01/07/07 06:05 AM
I admire your courage to speak and live your truth. Many blessings to
you and TG!

Gryphyn's photo
Sun 01/07/07 06:09 AM
Its not necessarily courage, Its wanting more out of life. Its wanting
what most people take for granted, I have learned Happiness is not an
illusion of life.

Gryphyn's photo
Sun 01/07/07 10:43 AM
LOL, Push it out of mind?

Back to the top

no photo
Sun 01/07/07 11:36 AM
well said gryphyn!... i think alot of people on here are looking for
that special person but also i think alot dont want to take that risk
like you are and also many people cant handle the rejection that they
might get SHOTDOWN. like you said it is a gamble in what ever you do in
life and if ya dont go for it you will never know...

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 01/07/07 07:18 PM
It is very true if you don't take the risk you will never know. Sometime
or other you have to put the past in the past and just jump in with both
feet. Kinda like swimming you have to at least dog peddle or float in
order to keep your head above water but you can't just give up or you
will sink. Life is a journey you can either sit and let it pass you by
or you can take a hold and run with it. I have taken my share of chances
and have been laughed at and heard the jokes for me doing so but ya know
what I really don't care I'm going to do what makes me happy and that is
to keep trying till I find that one that we hit it off and can't seem to
live without each other. I want one that gives me the attention I'm
looking for and I will return that attention as well. But... I'm not
going to force myself on someone either they act like they want to be
with me or its just friends and we move to the next level. It's your
life do what makes you happy not what others expect of you.

Sluggo's photo
Sun 01/07/07 07:38 PM
Gryphyn, I have to admit I think you're a little Nutz but I wish you all
the Luck in the world!

If this works out is there anyway to chooce to keep Ice Princess out of
the family...lmao

BTW...On the 12th, Do NOT forget to bring your Keyboards with you (the
two of you can sit around and smack each other over the head with
them)...lmao!!!

Seriously though, best of luck!!!

Gryphyn's photo
Sun 01/07/07 09:43 PM
Your right Sluggo I am NUTZ. It is a state of mind, and I like it. Life
today is much simpler than yesterday.

Yes, I have several keyboards one of them is a wireless so I can get the
momentum going. At $2.00 a piece for the wired ones its cheaper than a
hooker at Thirsty's( Is That still there?)

Nope, If it does work out I am stuck with Ice Princess also and the rest
of the family. Besides she isnt all that bad once you get past that
rough exterior. Don't let her know that I told you this, but Ice really
has a heart of gold, she would kill me for telling her secrets.

Thanks for the support we will let you know how things go.

:)

G

no photo
Thu 01/11/07 06:13 AM
It's not just attitude you have to have, you have to be willing and
wanting to take a risk, without taking the risk to open up, let someone
in, and go for it then you are still just sitting there wallowing in
your own self pity.Take a chance, take the risk...do it today becuase
you never know when your time comes up, life is a risk START LIVING
TODAY!!!

jus lil ol CCP and her opinion :)

Tneal's photo
Thu 01/11/07 06:42 AM
I am waiting on my chance.... I just pray that I am not being jerked
around... time will tell *S*

ellgee1976's photo
Thu 01/11/07 07:24 AM
attitude, and priorities...

you've made it a priority to find that special someone G...good for you,
im happy for ya :D

hope it works for ya, let us know *hugs*

slowtogetit's photo
Thu 01/11/07 08:08 AM
good luck to you and tg gryphun, i hope you both find what you are
really searching for. but also everytime you get hurt it makes you all
that more hesistant and skeptical when you look at the next
person.always thinking is he/she going to treat me like crap again.




*hmmm those words came from my brain* lol

MLG40's photo
Tue 09/02/08 05:51 AM


Thank you backinthesaddle for my post

I have seen in the last few weeks countless posts about attitude and
those who start them don't even realize it.

Finding what your looking for is all attitude. Whether your looking for
a friend or someone that is your soulmate. This site is for dating, to
get to know a person that you can spend the rest of your life with.
Anyone who tells me different is either lying to themself, already has
found that special someone to fill the void, or isn't really interested
in finding Him/Her.

Winners come in first, and losers are leftover. Me I am one of the
winners, and I know why. I became willing to lose everything to find
that one special person in my life. I gave up the 6 figure income, the
house, community respect, toys and a bad marriage. I walked away from
everything to find HAPPINESS. I have spent more than 3 years traveling
and searching for my soulmate. I have moved 7 times, 4 jobs and pissed
in several bowls of Wheaties. I have loved and lost,and kicked in the
teeth. The woman I have met are truly beautiful, they allowed me to find
out who they are, yet did not accept me for who I am. They loved me as
best they could, however thier love was for someone else.

I hear and read on these forums almost every day about how people run
from the word LOVE. I am amazed how many people truly believe it is
TABOO to tell someone how much they love someone. Me I don't give a $hit
who knows I LOVE Toyota Girl. I really don't give a rats A$$ who knows
it either.

You see it really quite simple how to find the one thing in life
everyone wants to find, Love! To be accepted for who I am, To be
accepted for what I do, to be accepted for what I do, To accept me with
all the flaws I have.

I am no different from anyone else on this site, except I am willing to
do whatever it takes to find and learn more about my SOULMATE. Many
people here I know here have Scoffed at me, they THINK they know it all.
What a laugh, The only way to find the love of your life IS to seek it
out in everyone you meet. I have and will continue to do this the rest
of my life. I HAVE LOVED each and every lady I have ever been close too.
I have been KICKED in the teeth more than once, and until the time
comes that I find the woman of my dreams, I will continue to do so.

On the 12th of this month, I WILL find out if Toyota Girl is that woman.
If she will be the woman who accepts me for who I am. If she will love
me for who I am, and if she will be my soulmate in this life. We will
spend 10 days together, learning more about each other than any of you
could find out in a year on the internet. We will play together, eat
together, live together, and Love together. YES I said LOVE TOGETHER,
for those of you who are afraid of saying this word you are afraid of
finding it.

The women in my life have and always will be the one who will make the
final decision in our relationship. I know who I am looking for, I have
written about her in my poems. They TELL everything about me, who I am,
what I do, and most of all that I am willing to go the distance to BE IN
LOVE.

Someone very dear to me recently found her smile again and is seeing a
special someone this weekend. She became willing to put it all on the
line to find out. Are those who read this WILLING to put it ALL on the
line to find it? This person is just like me in that she became willing.
Just Like TG and I, she is willing to give till it hurts to find that
one who will walk down that road of destiny.

Who of you will be next to find The Love of YOUR Life?

Attitude IS Everything

:)

G



I wonder?

MLG40's photo
Tue 09/02/08 05:51 AM


Thank you backinthesaddle for my post

I have seen in the last few weeks countless posts about attitude and
those who start them don't even realize it.

Finding what your looking for is all attitude. Whether your looking for
a friend or someone that is your soulmate. This site is for dating, to
get to know a person that you can spend the rest of your life with.
Anyone who tells me different is either lying to themself, already has
found that special someone to fill the void, or isn't really interested
in finding Him/Her.

Winners come in first, and losers are leftover. Me I am one of the
winners, and I know why. I became willing to lose everything to find
that one special person in my life. I gave up the 6 figure income, the
house, community respect, toys and a bad marriage. I walked away from
everything to find HAPPINESS. I have spent more than 3 years traveling
and searching for my soulmate. I have moved 7 times, 4 jobs and pissed
in several bowls of Wheaties. I have loved and lost,and kicked in the
teeth. The woman I have met are truly beautiful, they allowed me to find
out who they are, yet did not accept me for who I am. They loved me as
best they could, however thier love was for someone else.

I hear and read on these forums almost every day about how people run
from the word LOVE. I am amazed how many people truly believe it is
TABOO to tell someone how much they love someone. Me I don't give a $hit
who knows I LOVE Toyota Girl. I really don't give a rats A$$ who knows
it either.

You see it really quite simple how to find the one thing in life
everyone wants to find, Love! To be accepted for who I am, To be
accepted for what I do, to be accepted for what I do, To accept me with
all the flaws I have.

I am no different from anyone else on this site, except I am willing to
do whatever it takes to find and learn more about my SOULMATE. Many
people here I know here have Scoffed at me, they THINK they know it all.
What a laugh, The only way to find the love of your life IS to seek it
out in everyone you meet. I have and will continue to do this the rest
of my life. I HAVE LOVED each and every lady I have ever been close too.
I have been KICKED in the teeth more than once, and until the time
comes that I find the woman of my dreams, I will continue to do so.

On the 12th of this month, I WILL find out if Toyota Girl is that woman.
If she will be the woman who accepts me for who I am. If she will love
me for who I am, and if she will be my soulmate in this life. We will
spend 10 days together, learning more about each other than any of you
could find out in a year on the internet. We will play together, eat
together, live together, and Love together. YES I said LOVE TOGETHER,
for those of you who are afraid of saying this word you are afraid of
finding it.

The women in my life have and always will be the one who will make the
final decision in our relationship. I know who I am looking for, I have
written about her in my poems. They TELL everything about me, who I am,
what I do, and most of all that I am willing to go the distance to BE IN
LOVE.

Someone very dear to me recently found her smile again and is seeing a
special someone this weekend. She became willing to put it all on the
line to find out. Are those who read this WILLING to put it ALL on the
line to find it? This person is just like me in that she became willing.
Just Like TG and I, she is willing to give till it hurts to find that
one who will walk down that road of destiny.

Who of you will be next to find The Love of YOUR Life?

Attitude IS Everything

:)

G



I wonder?