Topic: I also hate asking for advice...
iamlookingforyou2's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:34 AM
Edited by iamlookingforyou2 on Thu 03/20/08 07:45 AM
but i met this really sweet and wonderful guy on here almost a week ago. We talk threw e-mail and sometimes when I catch him on-line!! I know this sounds weird but I really like talking to him.embarassed I am moving out of state in June and moving to AZ to attend ASU and he said he is excited. He seems definately like someone I could date o and really get to know once i move but how do I know if he's for real??? I hope if he reads this he dosen't get offended, its nothing against him just wanting some advice

mommyof1's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:36 AM
only way to find out if he is for real, is to meet him in person!!!


online is, well online yanno?


good luck!! flowerforyou

Justunrick's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:38 AM

only way to find out if he is for real, is to meet him in person!!!


online is, well online yanno?


good luck!! flowerforyou


Got to agree with this you just never know. You could always do a background check on him. If you feel its worth all the bother.

zhiba's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:38 AM
A week is not a very long time. I think you need to talk to him a while longer, also on the phone and maybe eventually meet. I wouldn't put my eggs in one basket just yet. Don't get too invested after only one week, talk some more. Good luck! flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:41 AM

A week is not a very long time. I think you need to talk to him a while longer, also on the phone and maybe eventually meet. I wouldn't put my eggs in one basket just yet. Don't get too invested after only one week, talk some more. Good luck! flowerforyou


I'm w/zhiba - too soon too tell anything, still in honeymoon stage :wink:

froglittlesis's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:42 AM

A week is not a very long time. I think you need to talk to him a while longer, also on the phone and maybe eventually meet. I wouldn't put my eggs in one basket just yet. Don't get too invested after only one week, talk some more. Good luck! flowerforyou


I tottaly agree talk a lot more before things get to far. You never know.:smile:

me2g's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:46 AM

but i met this really sweet and wonderful guy on here almost a week ago. We talk threw e-mail and sometimes when I catch him on-line!! I know this sounds weird but I really like talking to him.embarassed I am moving out of state in June and moving to AZ to attend ASU and he said he is excited. He seems definately like someone I could date and really get to know but how do I know if he's for real??? I hope if he reads this he dosen't get offended, its nothing against him just wanting some advice

just keep chattin and talkin to him but dont rush it... or him. is he in AZ where your gonna be or where your at now?

iamlookingforyou2's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:48 AM


but i met this really sweet and wonderful guy on here almost a week ago. We talk threw e-mail and sometimes when I catch him on-line!! I know this sounds weird but I really like talking to him.embarassed I am moving out of state in June and moving to AZ to attend ASU and he said he is excited. He seems definately like someone I could date and really get to know but how do I know if he's for real??? I hope if he reads this he dosen't get offended, its nothing against him just wanting some advice

just keep chattin and talkin to him but dont rush it... or him. is he in AZ where your gonna be or where your at now?


He is in Az

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:49 AM

A week is not a very long time. I think you need to talk to him a while longer, also on the phone and maybe eventually meet. I wouldn't put my eggs in one basket just yet. Don't get too invested after only one week, talk some more. Good luck! flowerforyou

TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU THERE:wink:

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:49 AM

only way to find out if he is for real, is to meet him in person!!!


online is, well online yanno?


good luck!! flowerforyou


Must agree with this too no matter how much you talk to someone online or on the phone. You never really know a person till you meet them eye to eye and even then you really don't know them. Life and love is a gamble something we all must partake in and find out. Just be careful and meet the first time in a public place and talk talk talk very important you can learn a lot before meeting if you do plenty of it.bigsmile

creationsfire's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:52 AM
oh Hon, don't rush into anything. I have been talking to someone too for about a week. He wants to meet but I said not right now but you are welcome to call.......if you have a cell, don't give out your home phone number either. Better to be safe than sorry. Hey he might just be Mr Right, but if he is, then he wont mind waiting for a while. jmho, Good Luck

me2g's photo
Thu 03/20/08 07:56 AM



but i met this really sweet and wonderful guy on here almost a week ago. We talk threw e-mail and sometimes when I catch him on-line!! I know this sounds weird but I really like talking to him.embarassed I am moving out of state in June and moving to AZ to attend ASU and he said he is excited. He seems definately like someone I could date and really get to know but how do I know if he's for real??? I hope if he reads this he dosen't get offended, its nothing against him just wanting some advice

just keep chattin and talkin to him but dont rush it... or him. is he in AZ where your gonna be or where your at now?


He is in Az

well see there you go.. you have 2 months to get to know each other better before you physically meet.. and when you do... take it slow... lol if at that point you've made it that far and are still talking and interested..... you'll have a lot better feel for each other and idea of what the future has in store.