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Topic: HOW MUCH??
popcornncoke's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:45 PM
How much do you tell about yourself?How much is to much?Let's just say that you might have a checked past.Do you tell the person that you want to have a relationship with or do you keep your mouth shut.What if someone from your past,told him.

barefootbaby78's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:46 PM
honesty is the best policy...i guess it all depends how much you like each other and if you think its going to go somewhere...if so tell himflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:46 PM
Why ask why????drinker

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Wed 03/19/08 10:46 PM

How much do you tell about yourself?How much is to much?Let's just say that you might have a checked past.Do you tell the person that you want to have a relationship with or do you keep your mouth shut.What if someone from your past,told him.


if you are looking for a real relationship you must be honest...not on the first date mind you..but eventually you must come clean.

Winx's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:47 PM
Edited by Winx on Wed 03/19/08 10:51 PM
That is your past and not your future.

I wouldn't blurt it out right away. I would tell someone when you trust them with your feelings.

It is not the place of someone from your past to tell him before you did and it would suck if they did.

iRon's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:47 PM
True intimacy requires complete honesty and no healthy relationship can live without intimacy.

VirginVirgo's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:48 PM
100% is perfect .. tell it all

Kaseynej's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:48 PM
I just like to lay all the drama out on the table for them right away. Makes it easier to get away faster. Course it's nigh on impossible to squirm out of if for some reason they decide they're okay with that.

LeVieilAmant's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:48 PM
Edited by LeVieilAmant on Wed 03/19/08 10:49 PM
No secrets allowed in a good relationship. Anyone who can't understand a checkered past may not be open-minded and end up not being the right person for you. Often times, I find that the most interesting people have had checkered, striped, and polkadotted pasts.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:49 PM
I don't tell, but if asked the correct question I also don't lie.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:49 PM
laugh noway I got accused of being married noway laugh

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:50 PM
everything on the internet is truthful........

barefootbaby78's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:50 PM

laugh noway I got accused of being married noway laugh




quit acting weirdlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lonelyshorty's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:50 PM
oh yeah just like wikipedia is reliable.........

popcornncoke's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:51 PM
WHY ASK WHY? Cause if someone else told him,he would wonder why you didn't tell him yourself and could he really trust you.

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Wed 03/19/08 10:52 PM

How much do you tell about yourself?How much is to much?Let's just say that you might have a checked past.Do you tell the person that you want to have a relationship with or do you keep your mouth shut.What if someone from your past,told him.


The amount of information I give out is relative to the amount of info SHE gives out. You'll only get yourself into trouble if you let out every little detail of your life. That is unless the other person asks, that is- then it's okay.

me2g's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:55 PM

No secrets allowed in a good relationship. Anyone who can't understand a checkered past may not be open-minded and end up not being the right person for you. Often times, I find that the most interesting people have had checkered, striped, and polkadotted pasts.


I agree.. if you ask any given someone what is the most important thing in a realationship is? its trust or honesty.. they go hand in hand.. and you cant have one without the other.. cuz sooner or later without one there will be no other. PERIOD! no matter which one is missing to begin with.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/19/08 10:57 PM


laugh noway I got accused of being married noway laugh




quit acting weirdlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 03/19/08 11:01 PM
There is no reason to tell everything.. If you live in a small town maybe they'll find out things.. but really, before you met them is YOUR life and YOU share what you're comfortable with and don't share what you're not comfortable with and if they can't understand that then they have their own issues, which personally I don't have the inclination to deal with...

erowid1's photo
Wed 03/19/08 11:01 PM
ask no questions and there will be no answers. ~~erowid~~

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