LAmom, THAT GOES FOR ME TOO, WINK,WINK....LOL

Humm well guess the question should be can you be in-love instead of
love someone lol

I believe one has to MEET THAT PERSON,BEFORE they could ever say or BE
in-love with them!!!!!!!!!!

Words spoken so true,
soon time will tell......

Well,Im not sure if I would say that TIME can SPEAK,LOL,,,BUT,
before one's voice can speak them WORDS,,,,,,

AND YOU, MY YOUNG LADY SHOULD BE SLEEPING,LOL.......

LOL, It seems she suffers from the same time thing I do IAM. It is the
curse of living on the west coast. Your Up late to talk to her, and she
is early up because she wants to talk to you. Its a never ending cycle.
Afternoon naps have become a little more frequent.

:)

G

Gryph,
Afternoon naps are the best....

Yes LAmom they are, morning naps on the weekend work too. Something
about them gives meaning to an otherwise mundane life.

So True!!!!

Love takes time..... like learning to live with dirty stinky socks....
you gotta be there and live through it.

YOUR SOOOO RIGHT KAREN!!!!!!!

Sure its possible to love someone before meeting them but not be in love
with them...gotta learn alot of things about someone before you can be
in love with em...just my lil ol goof ball opinion :)

Poet you are so funny,
But truth you speak...

I'm in love with Cameron Diaz and never met her..........oh wait that's
lust n/m

well I think it is very possible to fall in love with someone that you
have never seen before because Imhave been there and done that,Love is
much more that what a person looks like,its bout what that person is
about inside,thats how I feel bout that subject.

mike you are a beauty...lmao

Hi again, everyone. What I hear you saying is all true. Meeting
someone to love them, and being in love with them are aspects of love --
but, there are many. And not one precludes any other. After a
political science seminar I took back in Ohio, I was in discussion with
my professor about the subject of love. He anguished over the fact that
he felt his kids weren't turning out to be the kind of understaning
people he had hoped they would become. We got to talking, and I told
him that I believe, as I still do, most people don't know how to love;
they have never fully developed within themselves the capacity for love.
He himself seemed to have a bias towards people of european ancestry (if
you get my drift). I swear that I had never seen anyone's ears and
whole face turn as red as hot coals before!

At the beginning of the next class, he began his lecture with a
paraphrase of my previous remarks, and asked the class if they disagree.
No one answered -- an ominous silence befell the room. His intro was
geared toward embarrassing me, calling me out before the entire class,
but I knew no answers were forth coming. Hot coals radiated from the
front of the room.

My point, here is that everyone comes into this world with the capacity
to love, but it has to be developed. Most people arrest that
development, stuggling to balance fear, pain, and even utter rage with
the urgency to love and be loved -- blurring thier vision of love as it
defines itself. Like an "undiscovered country" love, its meaning, by
necessity has to be discovered and seen as it reveals itself in and of
itself. All we have to do is look with complete openess.

Keep thinking about it. I have seen and felt the ecstasy of it, but
only when I realized that to love one entails loving all. It is this
awareness that allows one to truely love another seen or unseen.

i think it depnds on the person. but then again i do agree that you have
to get together to see if the chemistry is there. so i say a little of
both. if thats possible. cause yes i did fall with someone . but we
never met. and the feelings were defently there though. but yeah i do
think its both. but thats my opinion.

Looking and talking are very different from actually meeting. Too many
things come up at a meet that didn't before hand.

I think that when you talk to someone for a long time, that feelings can
develope. I do believe that you should meet someone and get to know that
person before you ever say those words...I LOVE YOU...those are some
mighty big words to say to someone that you have never met.
I think you have to meet just to find out if that person is true in
everything they say, just like, how do you really know that the picture
is real? How do you know how they really live? I think meeting someone
is a must before I ever say those words.
I did talk to someone on here for over a year, not once did I ever say I
love you to him. Then he flew to America and then I flew to New Zealand
just to see how things were in each others lives. I do believe that you
develope feelings for that person from talking to them and then when you
meet, thats when you can decide if the feelings are true :)