My friend had been with his gf for 6.5 years and they broke up. The first 4 years they didnt get along and she went to prison for 2 years and he took care of her finanically, she was a pill head. She got married to a man in jail only later to regret it. When she got out all looked good and then she told him she wasn't coming home and they both were ok with it. In August he caught her talking to a man on the phone, she then doesn't talk to him for 3 weeks. They start talking again and he feels sorry for her and continues to help like always. He finds out in January she has been living with this man since October, he then says no more money unless she gives out sex so she did 4 times in a month and then they started getting along and he helped her out and then the sex stopped, what is up with this situation, someone help me out

not your problem dude....unless the friend is....naaaa....no way... couldnt be..too cool for that.

ditch her

This guy has been writting perveted emails to Barefoot Baby and we would like him to stop.

oh where to start? he needs to realize she is just using him... People will do whatever you let them get away with. As long as he allows her to use him, the more she will do it, and the more it becomes his fault...

whatever mirror mirror mind your own business

well, he needs to offer her an ultimatum, get help, or else (or else: I cut myself off from you and you stop receiving support)

seriously, not cool, she can tell him to stop on her own

agree...other than just be honest with your friend...even if you don't agree with it..it is his choice. Just let him know that he deserves better...he may not think so. But be carefull sounds like a touchy subject.

Jill they were together for 6 years and when he doesn't give in to her the guilt trips come but he does the same (guilt trips that is and she says she loves her new BF, is that true when she has slept with her x for some money 4 times

You posted this in a general forum, so you made it everyones business. Your friend...needs a brain transplant.

gotta agree on this... were all big people here. not 7th graders tellin secerets.

lmao, this topic does not even need to be answered. You already know, or if you don't then maybe you could start dating her too

I would've gave her the boot long ago.

grrr

he may love her, but he is allowing her to treat him like crap. It seems like they are just bad for each other and feed off one another. It's not a healthy relationship and hopefully you're friend can realize this and be able to walk away

It doesnt make sense the way the two act he told me she said her bf overdrew her account at the bank and she was upset but never asked for his hekp until the next day, he said give it up or no money and she was like can't you just be my friend, friends don't just hand over money like that do they? I don't! Sounds to me she's trying to see how far she can take it before she may have to give in, she has no money til friday but he does and she knows it

It sounds like he has low self esteem.

hes talkin bout himself here people this is him and his ex girlfriend and her new boyfriend...hes been paying her