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Probably going to catch heck with this one...... but given all the threads ad nauseum about "Where are the nice women? Why nice guys finish last?" I felt compelled to contribute this list.
Ladies, feel free to add your own thoughts. This is not meant to denigrate anyone, but rather to point out some characteristics and behaviors associated with the "typical" nice guy, and how it may be perceived by the ladies.. If you are a nice guy, who does not exhibit the negative behaviors listed, and/or do exhibit some of the others..... all hope is not lost!I'm not bashing nice guys here. There are plenty of nice guys out there that already know this stuff. 10 Reasons Why Women Turn Away NICE Guys 1. We want a guy who does not have “Doormat” or “Pushover” stamped on his forehead. 2. We want a guy who doesn’t call us 40 million times a day just to hear our voice. 3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. 4. We like challenges as much as men. Let us wonder about you a little bit. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve too soon. 5. Being a little bit bad is NICE…….. and sparks excitement. 6. We want to feel like the guy we’re with has more testosterone than we do. 7. We want a man who does not come off as “needy”. If you demand all our time, or push us too fast…..or insist on a commitment a week into a relationship….. as is sometimes the case….. we run. (Men do the same thing with women) 8. We need a man who will not smother us. There is sometimes a fine line between attentiveness and overdoing it. 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this. 10. We like men who take ACTION…….. accept responsibility for themselves and their actions….and who do not whine. |
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sorry,i stopped at one,cause theres really only one reason
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!AMEN!
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lol .. yea theres only one reason .. who wants some one who cant say no or be dominate at times
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Point number 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this.
Just happens I've meet someone that is a very nice guy who is very good at bringing out the bad girl in me. And what fun it is. |
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Hmmm.. for reason #9.. instead of someone to bring out the "bad" girl in me.. I need someone who can bring out the "good" girl in me
   Okay.. just kidding.. in a sense. The sexual mind takes over more than not ~sighs~ 
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Probably going to catch heck with this one...... but given all the threads ad nauseum about "Where are the nice women? Why nice guys finish last?" I felt compelled to contribute this list. Ladies, feel free to add your own thoughts. This is not meant to denigrate anyone, but rather to point out some characteristics and behaviors associated with the "typical" nice guy, and how it may be perceived by the ladies.. If you are a nice guy, who does not exhibit the negative behaviors listed, and/or do exhibit some of the others..... all hope is not lost!I'm not bashing nice guys here. There are plenty of nice guys out there that already know this stuff. 10 Reasons Why Women Turn Away NICE Guys 1. We want a guy who does not have “Doormat” or “Pushover” stamped on his forehead. 2. We want a guy who doesn’t call us 40 million times a day just to hear our voice. 3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. 4. We like challenges as much as men. Let us wonder about you a little bit. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve too soon. 5. Being a little bit bad is NICE…….. and sparks excitement. 6. We want to feel like the guy we’re with has more testosterone than we do. 7. We want a man who does not come off as “needy”. If you demand all our time, or push us too fast…..or insist on a commitment a week into a relationship….. as is sometimes the case….. we run. (Men do the same thing with women) 8. We need a man who will not smother us. There is sometimes a fine line between attentiveness and overdoing it. 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this. 10. We like men who take ACTION…….. accept responsibility for themselves and their actions….and who do not whine. No such thing as a nice guy |
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Very well put...and its not complaining....
People can have intelligent posts/conversations in here... |
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3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. I have a problem with that one, since all self esteem and "back bone" was raped from me as a kid. Like I said before, let me get a gun, shoot myself and pray I reincarnate as a woman. 
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stupid threads
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Probably going to catch heck with this one...... but given all the threads ad nauseum about "Where are the nice women? Why nice guys finish last?" I felt compelled to contribute this list. Ladies, feel free to add your own thoughts. This is not meant to denigrate anyone, but rather to point out some characteristics and behaviors associated with the "typical" nice guy, and how it may be perceived by the ladies.. If you are a nice guy, who does not exhibit the negative behaviors listed, and/or do exhibit some of the others..... all hope is not lost!I'm not bashing nice guys here. There are plenty of nice guys out there that already know this stuff. 10 Reasons Why Women Turn Away NICE Guys 1. We want a guy who does not have “Doormat” or “Pushover” stamped on his forehead. 2. We want a guy who doesn’t call us 40 million times a day just to hear our voice. 3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. 4. We like challenges as much as men. Let us wonder about you a little bit. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve too soon. 5. Being a little bit bad is NICE…….. and sparks excitement. 6. We want to feel like the guy we’re with has more testosterone than we do. 7. We want a man who does not come off as “needy”. If you demand all our time, or push us too fast…..or insist on a commitment a week into a relationship….. as is sometimes the case….. we run. (Men do the same thing with women) 8. We need a man who will not smother us. There is sometimes a fine line between attentiveness and overdoing it. 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this. 10. We like men who take ACTION…….. accept responsibility for themselves and their actions….and who do not whine. No such thing as a nice guy Your so right.... Whatever 
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stupid threads 
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sorry,i stopped at one,cause theres really only one reason |
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Mon 03/17/08 05:08 PM
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Probably going to catch heck with this one...... but given all the threads ad nauseum about "Where are the nice women? Why nice guys finish last?" I felt compelled to contribute this list. Ladies, feel free to add your own thoughts. This is not meant to denigrate anyone, but rather to point out some characteristics and behaviors associated with the "typical" nice guy, and how it may be perceived by the ladies.. If you are a nice guy, who does not exhibit the negative behaviors listed, and/or do exhibit some of the others..... all hope is not lost!I'm not bashing nice guys here. There are plenty of nice guys out there that already know this stuff. 10 Reasons Why Women Turn Away NICE Guys 1. We want a guy who does not have “Doormat” or “Pushover” stamped on his forehead. 2. We want a guy who doesn’t call us 40 million times a day just to hear our voice. 3. We want a guy whose backbone is at least as strong as our own…. Who has opinions, expresses them, and does not necessarily back down when challenged. 4. We like challenges as much as men. Let us wonder about you a little bit. Don’t wear your heart on your sleeve too soon. 5. Being a little bit bad is NICE…….. and sparks excitement. 6. We want to feel like the guy we’re with has more testosterone than we do. 7. We want a man who does not come off as “needy”. If you demand all our time, or push us too fast…..or insist on a commitment a week into a relationship….. as is sometimes the case….. we run. (Men do the same thing with women) 8. We need a man who will not smother us. There is sometimes a fine line between attentiveness and overdoing it. 9. We like it when a guy can bring out the “bad” girl in us. Many “nice” guys (not all) have a hard time doing this. 10. We like men who take ACTION…….. accept responsibility for themselves and their actions….and who do not whine. No such thing as a nice guy then you better open your eys girls, because there is more out there then you know Now me, i don't know what anyone would call me and the men on here. Don't answer that
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blabbety blabbety...
boo hoo wah wah Do I win? 
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What would we call the men on here? I'd say varied and interesting.... all over the map.....
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Hey Josh Hartnett is a hottie Mc Hotterson.
 toodles gonna go watch my movie. 
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I am just odd thank u
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blabbety blabbety... boo hoo wah wah Do I win? To the whiny thread you go!! |
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well i guess you have pretty much covered me i know im a nice guy but i can be bad and i can have a backbone. however i am a loving and very caring person who would do anything for the one im with and you know it has not gotten me any were so maybe its time to change......
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