Topic: why so hard
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Wed 03/12/08 11:27 PM
why is it so hard in the age group 45-50 to find a nice looking man in this age group that does not look like grandpa standing next to me.
i love to kayak and go to the beach and get outside i love the water but it seems like most look like old wrinkly old men in my age whats up hasnt anyone taken care of themselves?

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Wed 03/12/08 11:29 PM
perhaps you consider yourself younger and should go and find yourself a younger guy? Just a thought.

looking4something's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:30 PM
I'm 33......can't wait 4 50

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:30 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Wed 03/12/08 11:30 PM
smokin Show us what you look like smokin

itsmetina's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:30 PM
why do all the men that age want an 18 yr old

Lucky_Charms's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:32 PM
Well hello Miss, I'm 48 and I like to rock climb and hike. I think I don't look like a grandpa. No pic of me as yet, but I;m trying. flowerforyou

Kg1's photo
Wed 03/12/08 11:33 PM
I don't want an 18 yr old just like to look at them now and then..lol oh they probably want to reconnect with their youth...:tongue:

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Wed 03/12/08 11:36 PM
i cannot see why men go for the 18 year olds either as they only have a new ***** that lasts 5 min what else is left hahahahhahah

unsure's photo
Thu 03/13/08 05:22 AM
Maybe you should date someone that is a little bit younger then you? Age is just a number and I don't really think it should go by their age any ways. I think it should go by how you feel when you are with them.
I have noticed that some people do look older but then a lot of people do look a lot younger also. Try talking to them and judging them by whats on the inside instead of going by looks! flowerforyou

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Thu 03/13/08 05:42 AM
Well I'm 46 and I date a 26 year old woman that is quite attractive. Maybe she likes old wrinkly men?

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Thu 03/13/08 05:46 AM
Edited by MyrtleBeachDude on Thu 03/13/08 05:52 AM

why do all the men that age want an 18 yr old


Not true. I date a 26 year old but only because we connect. I have dated women older and equally enjoyed that too. If I have something in common with a woman and we connect then I don't care how old she is. I just don't see a lot of 18 year olds that want to stand with me on the beach at 4am in the morning to watch the space station / space shuttle fly over. I think when you get a girl as young as 18 and your in your 40's it starts to get a little on the perverted side.

froglittlesis's photo
Tue 03/25/08 10:50 AM

Maybe you should date someone that is a little bit younger then you? Age is just a number and I don't really think it should go by their age any ways. I think it should go by how you feel when you are with them.
I have noticed that some people do look older but then a lot of people do look a lot younger also. Try talking to them and judging them by whats on the inside instead of going by looks! flowerforyou



Looks only last for so long!!!! Don't always judge a book by it's cover you may read inside and find something amazing and wonderful!!!:smile:

krazykitty323's photo
Tue 03/25/08 11:13 AM
your just not looking in the right places. They are out there

franshade's photo
Tue 03/25/08 11:48 AM
It's not hard, kinda fun if you ask me :wink: flowerforyou

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Tue 03/25/08 12:30 PM
My age might say 49 BUT I guess I am the oldest 12 year old I know ... good luck anyway .... flowerforyou

ddpainting7777's photo
Wed 03/26/08 07:13 PM
Awwwwwwwwww come on
Show us what you look like,
Im not all wrinkled up and old looking, hell even have all my hair and teeth LOL.
Dont be shy now.

Silntstrnger's photo
Thu 03/27/08 06:07 AM
ok first all, what is wrong with wrinkles? everyone gets them..

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Wed 04/02/08 10:59 AM
I think that is because the good looking ones who have some personality and are successful, are either taken or enjoy them selves with younger chicks, to full fill their egos!! you should know that about men??indifferent

Nurseguy08's photo
Sat 04/19/08 06:55 AM
Wow, I'm well past 40 but can't say I'm wrinkled up. Ain't as tight and firm as I was but I look just fine stripping down and tossing on the wetsuit.

As for guys going for the younger ladies, sorry, can't hang with that either. 4-5 years either side of me is fine. Sometimes I think we guys in our 40's get nailed with a "midlife crisis" stereotype that has to include sports cars and young women.