Topic: any muslims here i have a ?
Italy0219's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM




i need to know if its true cuz this is whats told to me that in there religon its against the law for them to go down on a women ..is this true? m not a muslim just want to know


I bet you give him oral, right???sorry if I seem forward, but they always expect that, but they won't do that for the females, the beginning of problems...so don't marry him...just my opinion:wink:
yes i do but he refuses.


Wow, my Muslim husband wanted that all the time, so if oral is against the religion, he is in big Trouble...lol



Well I for one, could not live w/o oral sex, what else is there??? LOL

nu2topcat's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM
love 30 yr old collage students!!!!

glitterybee's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM




smokin It is NOT true.smokin It is a racist slur and a bigoted statement.smokin Im sorry. smokin if someone told you that they are liars or stupid.smokin Im studying world religions in college and I'm telling you that it is a lie.smokin Im not a Muslim.flowerforyou Im just telling you the truthflowerforyou


Mirror, Mirror, I was married to one, and he would not do it, i think it is against there religion....



and Mirror Mirrow, don't get so upset, we are not calling anyone names, we are just discussing a topic, don't sweat it, nobody here is being bigoted!!!


MirrorMirror is correct in what he/she says about it not being true, though... I did a lot of looking into that last year (I was curious myself, being a practicing Muslim at the time), and I found it to not be true. Oral sex is not haram (forbidden) in Islam, no matter who it is... Man or woman.

It might not be haram but it is a taboo against many conservative muslims to this day.

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Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM


If anyone is interested in learning about Islam, there is an online Qur'an. I'm not posting any links, so you'll have to google it.

There is an English version. I think most Americans would be served well to read it. I know I have.
thankyou thats what am looking for because i dont want to throw away sumting that can be meaaningfull but i have to know the truth


Rose~ Within reading this you need to communicate with your boyfriend. If you have questions, refer to him in regards to the practices to which he subscribes. All muslims are not the same. flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:11 AM
laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

Italy0219's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:12 AM



If anyone is interested in learning about Islam, there is an online Qur'an. I'm not posting any links, so you'll have to google it.

There is an English version. I think most Americans would be served well to read it. I know I have.
thankyou thats what am looking for because i dont want to throw away sumting that can be meaaningfull but i have to know the truth


Rose~ Within reading this you need to communicate with your boyfriend. If you have questions, refer to him in regards to the practices to which he subscribes. All muslims are not the same. flowerforyou



True, all Muslims are not the same, just like all Christains are not the same, thank You!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:12 AM





smokin It is NOT true.smokin It is a racist slur and a bigoted statement.smokin Im sorry. smokin if someone told you that they are liars or stupid.smokin Im studying world religions in college and I'm telling you that it is a lie.smokin Im not a Muslim.flowerforyou Im just telling you the truthflowerforyou


Mirror, Mirror, I was married to one, and he would not do it, i think it is against there religion....



and Mirror Mirrow, don't get so upset, we are not calling anyone names, we are just discussing a topic, don't sweat it, nobody here is being bigoted!!!


MirrorMirror is correct in what he/she says about it not being true, though... I did a lot of looking into that last year (I was curious myself, being a practicing Muslim at the time), and I found it to not be true. Oral sex is not haram (forbidden) in Islam, no matter who it is... Man or woman.

It might not be haram but it is a taboo against many conservative muslims to this day.
flowerforyou Its the same everywhere.flowerforyou its not a Muslim thing.flowerforyou

forever_fifites's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:13 AM

as i said operative word is WAS married, we could not get along..


along what?
laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:13 AM

love 30 yr old collage students!!!!
You look about 80

MollyLeandra's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:13 AM

Molly are we wrong??? it is not against the Muslim religion, then how come so many Muslims find it so digusting???


I'm not sure... I wondered myself when I was dating my Muslim boyfriend at the time. When he said he thought it was forbidden, I was very sad! laugh

So anyway, I set in to find the truth, seeing as how he wasn't 100% sure... And after tons of research, I learned that oral sex is okay between husband and wife in Islam; however, when a woman performs oral sex on a man... Well... She isn't supposed to swallow. That's considered dirty and so is anal sex (big "no no" in our religion).

Rose41's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:13 AM



If anyone is interested in learning about Islam, there is an online Qur'an. I'm not posting any links, so you'll have to google it.

There is an English version. I think most Americans would be served well to read it. I know I have.
thankyou thats what am looking for because i dont want to throw away sumting that can be meaaningfull but i have to know the truth


Rose~ Within reading this you need to communicate with your boyfriend. If you have questions, refer to him in regards to the practices to which he subscribes. All muslims are not the same. flowerforyou
i did and his answer was ( if i do oral sex and use my tongue other then it is meant to be used for god will not forgive him

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Mon 03/10/08 11:14 AM

laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze.
Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:15 AM


laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze.
Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly.
They lied to you. its not a religious thing

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:15 AM
I apoligize to any gal I offended

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:16 AM

i want to follow up on this later, a lot
devil You better do it quick.laugh You dont look like you got much time left grampslaugh

glitterybee's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:17 AM
No, he didn't. And a lot of other women and men will tell you the same thing.

MollyLeandra's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:18 AM


laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze.
Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly.


I suppose it's considered uncleanly among most Muslims; however, it's not so much a religion thing as it probably is a cultural thing.

Rose41's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:19 AM
i just really need to find where ican read about their religon and beliefs on this matter...to me oral sex is important but if he is telling the truth and not just lying to me i might be able to live with that,,but as for now were just dating so lies may be wondering around with him i just need to know

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:19 AM


laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze.
Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly.
It may have been a personal preference or a cultural taboo but not religious. No religion profanes itself with that kinda nasty talk

glitterybee's photo
Mon 03/10/08 11:19 AM



laugh Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sexlaugh Get real peoplelaugh

For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze.
Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly.


I suppose it's considered uncleanly among most Muslims; however, it's not so much a religion thing as it probably is a cultural thing.

Exactly, he was originally from Iran. Its a widespread thing with a lot of muslim men culturally. which is unfortunate laugh