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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:20 AM
Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sex Get real people For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze. Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly. I suppose it's considered uncleanly among most Muslims; however, it's not so much a religion thing as it probably is a cultural thing. Its the same with alotta old dudes. its cultural.Women are cleaner now than they were in the past

glitterybee Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 147	Mon 03/10/08 11:21 AM
Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sex Get real people For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze. Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly. It may have been a personal preference or a cultural taboo but not religious. No religion profanes itself with that kinda nasty talk he wasn't being degrading, profane or nasty. its just how they view things. among muslims YES it is a cultural thing. No other religion culturally has a taboo against oral sex.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:21 AM
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MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:22 AM
Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sex Get real people For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze. Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly. It may have been a personal preference or a cultural taboo but not religious. No religion profanes itself with that kinda nasty talk he wasn't being degrading, profane or nasty. its just how they view things. among muslims YES it is a cultural thing. No other religion culturally has a taboo against oral sex. No religion does.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:23 AM Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 03/10/08 11:23 AM
Its cultural not religious. People are cleaner in the western world if you get what I mean. Its not religious.

glitterybee Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 147	Mon 03/10/08 11:24 AM
Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sex Get real people For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze. Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly. It may have been a personal preference or a cultural taboo but not religious. No religion profanes itself with that kinda nasty talk he wasn't being degrading, profane or nasty. its just how they view things. among muslims YES it is a cultural thing. No other religion culturally has a taboo against oral sex. No religion does. Then go date one and see what happens.

glitterybee Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 147	Mon 03/10/08 11:25 AM
Its cultural not religious. People are cleaner in the western world if you get what I mean. Its not religious. Did you see my other post? It hasn't got anything to do with cleanliness, its about the taboo they have with blood.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:26 AM
Aint no dang religion sittin around talkin about oral sex Get real people For the last time: Have you ever dated a serious Muslim man? Just because you study a subject in school doesn't make you an authority over any given religion, jeeze. Oral sex is taboo for a lot of the men, because its socially considered uncleanly. It may have been a personal preference or a cultural taboo but not religious. No religion profanes itself with that kinda nasty talk he wasn't being degrading, profane or nasty. its just how they view things. among muslims YES it is a cultural thing. No other religion culturally has a taboo against oral sex. No religion does. Then go date one and see what happens. They may have said that but it aint true

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 03/10/08 11:26 AM
Regardless of anyone's religion, I think to view a sexual act (like oral sex) as wrong, and then use religion as a reason, is even more wrong. Intimacy is based upon mutually satisfying your partner. If any partner of mine ever said they did not want to pleasure me because God did not like it... I think the first thing I'd do is point out every other hypocritical thing they'd ever done, and then walk them to the door. It is my understanding that respect of a women is key here in Islam. This talk, in here, about oral sex does not fit. It is these men, their families, their culture. It is not the religion. I see it as selfishness, however you veil it. Intimacy is about pleasure and respect. The relationship with God/Allah/Yahweh... is not an excuse.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 11:30 AM
Any sex in any religion is profane

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 03/10/08 11:33 AM
Can we stop talking about oral sex..... It's making me....

glitterybee Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 147	Mon 03/10/08 11:34 AM
They may have said that but it aint true Regardless of whether you think its true or not, its an actual belief, and they take it seriously.

showme12345 Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 134	Mon 03/10/08 12:10 PM Edited by showme12345 on Mon 03/10/08 12:11 PM
I think it is not so much religion, but , fundamentalist , gaining more power than real muslim people. Following is an example of how Fundamentalist take things too far. She is the uprising star. She refused to change the dress in spite of threats to her life by Islamic Jihadists wanting her to play tennis in a dress that covers her whole body and face. According to media reports, India's tennis sensation Sania Mirza will receive extra security after an Islamic group opposed to her on-court dress threatened to stop her from playing in next week's WTA event, police said on Friday. Muslim clergymen have denounced the 18-year-old player for wearing skimpy skirts and colourful sleeveless tops on court, which they say are un-Islamic. The teenager has emerged as one of India's most visible sporting icons following a sensational year in which she has climbed to 34 in the WTA world rankings. The group, Jamaat-e-Ulema-e-Hind, has warned that its members would try to prevent Mirza from playing if she did not wear "proper clothes." "What she wears offends Islam. She will be stopped from playing if she doesn''t adhere to it," Siddiqullah Chowdhry, the group's chief, told Reuters. http://www.indiadaily.com/editorial/4607.asp This news is an example of how fundamentalist spoil the religion for all. Compared to other tennis players the above mentioned tennis player doesn't even wear that much skimpy dresses and suck. The fundamentalist expect her to play tennis in burka.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/10/08 12:54 PM
I think it is not so much religion, but , fundamentalist , gaining more power than real muslim people. Following is an example of how Fundamentalist take things too far. She is the uprising star. She refused to change the dress in spite of threats to her life by Islamic Jihadists wanting her to play tennis in a dress that covers her whole body and face. According to media reports, India's tennis sensation Sania Mirza will receive extra security after an Islamic group opposed to her on-court dress threatened to stop her from playing in next week's WTA event, police said on Friday. Muslim clergymen have denounced the 18-year-old player for wearing skimpy skirts and colourful sleeveless tops on court, which they say are un-Islamic. The teenager has emerged as one of India's most visible sporting icons following a sensational year in which she has climbed to 34 in the WTA world rankings. The group, Jamaat-e-Ulema-e-Hind, has warned that its members would try to prevent Mirza from playing if she did not wear "proper clothes." "What she wears offends Islam. She will be stopped from playing if she doesn''t adhere to it," Siddiqullah Chowdhry, the group's chief, told Reuters. http://www.indiadaily.com/editorial/4607.asp This news is an example of how fundamentalist spoil the religion for all. Compared to other tennis players the above mentioned tennis player doesn't even wear that much skimpy dresses and suck. The fundamentalist expect her to play tennis in burka. Muslim bigotry at its worst. You should be ashamed

Rose41 Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 940	Mon 03/10/08 05:50 PM
Can we stop talking about oral sex..... It's making me.... but this is the topic

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Mon 03/10/08 05:57 PM
http://www.answering-christianity.com/oral_sex.htm 1- Is oral sex allowed in Islam? 2- Sex of all types (intercourse and oral) is not allowed while women menstruating. A member on my message board kept insisting on me writing an article about this topic for the sake of Muslim brothers and sisters who are about to get married and are curious about whether or not "oral sex" is allowed in Islam. This is a fair question, and therefore, I will go ahead and answer it. Here is what Allah Almighty said in the Noble Quran: "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or HOW YE WILL; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. (The Noble Quran, 2:223)" "how ye will" means that the husband can do anything graphical, including oral sex, with his wife's body as long as it causes her no harm. In other words, he can't jerk his way in unto her and say it is his right. Allah Almighty said in the same Noble Verse: "and fear God." A husband must fear Allah Almighty when he sleeps with his wife. He must make sure that she enjoys him just like he enjoys her. He can make love using his penis, fingers or tongue; what ever makes both spouses happy. Allah Almighty left the door wide open for the two spouses when He said "how ye will". However, anal sex is not allowed between the two spouses. Oral sex is okay, but the Koran draws the line at anal intercourse. The answer straight from an Imam.

showme12345 Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 134	Mon 03/10/08 06:52 PM Edited by showme12345 on Mon 03/10/08 06:54 PM
http://www.answering-christianity.com/oral_sex.htm 1- Is oral sex allowed in Islam? 2- Sex of all types (intercourse and oral) is not allowed while women menstruating. A member on my message board kept insisting on me writing an article about this topic for the sake of Muslim brothers and sisters who are about to get married and are curious about whether or not "oral sex" is allowed in Islam. This is a fair question, and therefore, I will go ahead and answer it. Here is what Allah Almighty said in the Noble Quran: "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or HOW YE WILL; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. (The Noble Quran, 2:223)" "how ye will" means that the husband can do anything graphical, including oral sex, with his wife's body as long as it causes her no harm. In other words, he can't jerk his way in unto her and say it is his right. Allah Almighty said in the same Noble Verse: "and fear God." A husband must fear Allah Almighty when he sleeps with his wife. He must make sure that she enjoys him just like he enjoys her. He can make love using his penis, fingers or tongue; what ever makes both spouses happy. Allah Almighty left the door wide open for the two spouses when He said "how ye will". However, anal sex is not allowed between the two spouses. Oral sex is okay, but the Koran draws the line at anal intercourse. The answer straight from an Imam. Seriously I think that is left to open interpretation. Nowhere does it mention oral or anal. Just because someone said doesn't mean it is the right answer. And what's up with instilling fear, instead of giving courage and strength, it always says fear this, fear that.