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Topic: Is Anyone Serious Out There
moman65672's photo
Mon 03/31/08 02:50 PM



I think a "serious" relationship is just one that never stops being fun.


A relationship becomes serious when you have to get a court order to stop the stalking. brokenheart :wink:

no photo
Sat 04/26/08 08:58 AM
i am serious , about not winding up in the same boat . did it twice ,first divorce in 1990 . left with about 450 dollars a month to live on for 3 years . 2nd running around on me 2 months after we got murdered ! laugh i am serious now ! explode

CATBW56's photo
Sat 04/26/08 09:03 AM

i am serious , about not winding up in the same boat . did it twice ,first divorce in 1990 . left with about 450 dollars a month to live on for 3 years . 2nd running around on me 2 months after we got murdered ! laugh i am serious now ! explode


noway after we got murdered????

carolanne58's photo
Sat 04/26/08 09:29 AM


i am serious , about not winding up in the same boat . did it twice ,first divorce in 1990 . left with about 450 dollars a month to live on for 3 years . 2nd running around on me 2 months after we got murdered ! laugh i am serious now ! explode


noway after we got murdered????

Cat,I was wondering about that too!!!!!huh

Greyhound's photo
Sat 04/26/08 10:13 AM
Have we got a ghost on here? well he did say he got murdered.
I think I got it. He means 2 months after they got married.
Married....murdered...same thing for some folks I guesslaugh

atlasgirl2006's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:24 AM



I am serious. Local dating around here is kind of nil. The guys my age all want the cute younger girls & the others always are either afraid to send a message, or they are waiting for that special person to fall in their lap. They started one of those fast dating things close by, and my son said I should try that. They have them for us older folks and then they have others for the younger ones. I might have to mosey across the river for that.

62easygoing's photo
Sat 04/26/08 11:29 AM
I am serious;about my search for one special person. I'm just a down-to-earth man. I do love people; guess thats why i worked as a wal-mart greeter for ten years.glasses glasses

1stfizz's photo
Sat 04/26/08 01:46 PM
Edited by 1stfizz on Sat 04/26/08 01:53 PM
You have truly said what it is...bigsmile(To Abra about the stalled spaceship...flowerforyou )

LouLou2's photo
Sat 04/26/08 02:20 PM
I'm very serious...but I am not wanting just 'someone'. I can wait for the someone who is right for me. If I never find him, I will have lived a happy life filled with loving friends and family.
Is that being too picky? Maybe. Am I over-looking some really terrific guys? Probably, but as someone earlier said...I'm no longer willing to 'settle'. I want someone who is compatable with me and who has interests in common with me.

Abracadabra's photo
Sat 04/26/08 03:02 PM

I'm very serious...but I am not wanting just 'someone'. I can wait for the someone who is right for me. If I never find him, I will have lived a happy life filled with loving friends and family.
Is that being too picky? Maybe. Am I over-looking some really terrific guys? Probably, but as someone earlier said...I'm no longer willing to 'settle'. I want someone who is compatable with me and who has interests in common with me.


Exactly!

And what would you be 'settling' for if you settled for less?

A relationship with an incompatible person?????

Too many people already do that, and that's why there are so many divorces!

drinker

CATBW56's photo
Sat 04/26/08 03:14 PM
Exactly!

And what would you be 'settling' for if you settled for less?

A relationship with an incompatible person?????

Too many people already do that, and that's why there are so many divorces!

I'm not looking for Perfection.....just someone who is perfect for me. Just like it says on the heading of my profile. I'm to old to be playing games that some ppl play. Just would like to find the one last love of my life.

Abracadabra's photo
Sat 04/26/08 03:33 PM
I'm not looking for Perfection.....just someone who is perfect for me.


That's all I'm saying. flowerforyou :wink:

carolanne58's photo
Sat 04/26/08 05:34 PM

I Have no interest in seperated women, i have seen too many get back with the ex and someones heart gets broken, going both ways, men and women!! i am serious but not in a hurry, haste makes waste.
and if they dont fit your mold do you change who you are so they will?? thanks, but no thanks. love me or leave me as i am, and i will do you the same, that will equal a match made in heaven. no offence but ill look and wait for that, and except no substuite. lol

I respect what you said.Being A widow and looking back on my relationship I tried dam hard to change in my husband what I had no right to.I won't make that mistake again.And if someone doesn't like me the way I am so be it.:wink:

carolanne58's photo
Sat 04/26/08 05:40 PM




I am serious. Local dating around here is kind of nil. The guys my age all want the cute younger girls & the others always are either afraid to send a message, or they are waiting for that special person to fall in their lap. They started one of those fast dating things close by, and my son said I should try that. They have them for us older folks and then they have others for the younger ones. I might have to mosey across the river for that.

I wish I could mosey accross the river with you, there just isn't anything like that here in Kitchener Ontario.I can't see you haing a problem you have a nice profile on the site.:smile: nice pics.

carolanne58's photo
Sat 04/26/08 05:50 PM
I have tried other dateing sites but really like the cool people on here.flowerforyou I too believe it takes time and courage to put yourself out there,and maybe I have scared a few people off with my whineing the other nite about school but hey I think I am allowed once a year anywaybigsmile

oldsage's photo
Sat 04/26/08 07:47 PM
Carol, you will have to work alot harder to scare most of the people here.

carolanne58's photo
Sat 04/26/08 07:56 PM

Carol, you will have to work alot harder to scare most of the people here.

thankyou so much you made my nite!bigsmile

oldsage's photo
Sun 04/27/08 08:07 AM
If we weren't so far apart, that could have a different meaning.
laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou bigsmile blushing

cherokeeangel53's photo
Sun 04/27/08 11:22 AM
I've actually got someone from here that lives about 30 miles from me and tell me they are looking for long term. They have been to visit me 3 times now since last Sunday and we actually have dates and a great time. I'm hoping he's as serious as I am about a LTR but I've been burned so many times I'm holding my breath wondering when I don't hear from him for a while.

oldsage's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:21 PM
Take it slow & be careful.
the best things take time building.

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