Topic: Is Anyone Serious Out There
EarthSprite's photo
Sun 07/06/08 10:48 AM
((((sage))))..flowers

Just droping by for a quick hello before I head out to the lake....biggrin

oldsage's photo
Sun 07/06/08 10:51 AM
Earthsprit, good to see you. Lake outside my back door. Plan on being in it later.

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:18 PM
Hello Earthsprit, have a nice day at the lake.flowerforyou :banana:

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:23 PM


I must agree with you, and that is sad especially when there are people such as ourselves that are honest, and truly looking for the same.

Good luck in your quest.

Unfortunately I relocated here in Colorado and sad to say have not even made any friends to go out with. I am truly starting to believe there is a strong dislike when you are not from this state or maybe I just have not been lucky enough to find open minded people.
After time I really didn't look to date again till this year. I've been dating and I state a long term relationship. But most aren't looking for that so I'm weeding my way through.
Like you, I just started to look this year. I'm looking for a relationship, not so much long term, it depends on the person I'm with and if they are interested. Then we can talk about that.

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:28 PM
Hey flame back from lunch how are you today? :)

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:36 PM
Doing good, how about you?bigsmile

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:39 PM

Define "long term relationship"

do you want marriage, long term companionship, a very deep friendship?

Do you know what you REALLY want & what you would do to achieve that goal.
Life all the above a close relationship to end out my life with. It doesn't have to be a legal marriage but a life time relationship a deep friendship I'm not just casual. With friendships and lovers. I would say I'm passionate.

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:40 PM

Doing good, how about you?bigsmile
I'm good wish I had the week off smiles.

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:14 PM
You have to go back tomorrow don't you.? I'm heading out in the morning to look for work.

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:17 PM

You have to go back tomorrow don't you.? I'm heading out in the morning to look for work.
Good best of luck anything special or just to keep busy?

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:28 PM
Mostly to keep busy, but, I do need those few extra bucks to help out.

boneyjoe's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:57 PM
theres a lot of us that would luv to be serious,,,,,but when you find something close to what you would like,,,,there either in another country or th closest maby 1000 miles away

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 02:00 PM

Mostly to keep busy, but, I do need those few extra bucks to help out.
I understand that :)

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 02:02 PM

theres a lot of us that would luv to be serious,,,,,but when you find something close to what you would like,,,,there either in another country or th closest maby 1000 miles away
Funny Joe quess you have to work on it a little hard when they are miles away.:)

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 02:25 PM
When you find that right person that you really want to be serious with things will work out the way they are suppose to. You will get together in time. The distance of miles won't be a problem.

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 02:51 PM

When you find that right person that you really want to be serious with things will work out the way they are suppose to. You will get together in time. The distance of miles won't be a problem.
Yes Flame like soulmate when it is suppose to be. But some times you need to work on it a little bit. Both sides need to try and works things out. Not so much when it is in the others convience. But do it because a relationship is much needed. Isn't that what we are on here for. I guess some are for a botty call. But most women aren't that way. There are the few. But for the most. :)

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 03:22 PM


When you find that right person that you really want to be serious with things will work out the way they are suppose to. You will get together in time. The distance of miles won't be a problem.
Yes Flame like soulmate when it is suppose to be. But some times you need to work on it a little bit. Both sides need to try and works things out. Not so much when it is in the others convience. But do it because a relationship is much needed. Isn't that what we are on here for. I guess some are for a botty call. But most women aren't that way. There are the few. But for the most. :)
I agree with you carol, it is a 2 way street both people have to work on it. They seem to think the booty call is more inportant then a true relationship

carold's photo
Sun 07/06/08 03:29 PM
Well it is easy lol for most guy's sorry I have to say it the way I see it. Flame going to send mail

oldsage's photo
Sun 07/06/08 03:58 PM
They seem to think the booty call is more inportant then a true relationship


I find this remark about "booty call" most interesting. Tell me just how men are TOTALLY responsible for having sex with a lady. Unless it is rape, are the ladies just as responsible for "booty call" as men? If you allow yourself to be decieved, do you not have a responsiblity for not being more careful. I have allowed some people to use me, MY FAULT.

So let's not use this "booty call" crap, just on men. Ladies get just as horny & desperate as men.

If anyone compromises their morals, it is their business for their needs at that time.

PERSONAL responsibility is the name of REALITY.

MY opinion.

flame1cutie's photo
Sun 07/06/08 05:23 PM

They seem to think the booty call is more inportant then a true relationship


I find this remark about "booty call" most interesting. Tell me just how men are TOTALLY responsible for having sex with a lady. Unless it is rape, are the ladies just as responsible for "booty call" as men? If you allow yourself to be decieved, do you not have a responsiblity for not being more careful. I have allowed some people to use me, MY FAULT.

So let's not use this "booty call" crap, just on men. Ladies get just as horny & desperate as men.

If anyone compromises their morals, it is their business for their needs at that time.

PERSONAL responsibility is the name of REALITY.

MY opinion.

Your right sage, I didn't word it right, the resposibility is with both parties. I'm sorry I made it sound like it was just the men. It also lays with the ladies too.