I just found out that my younger sister [21] got married two months ago. Great right? Except the fact that nobody knew.
And, she had a baby about 6 months ago. She lives in Kentucky, so that explains why we didn't know. But still. >< All of us feel hurt that we haven't heard anything of this. She just called us and popped it on us. ><

Sorry to hear that but if you need a shoulder to cry on i'm here!

*Hugs*

Sorry,..what was your first impression?.

Obviously none of my business, but on the bright side, at least the guy had the sense of responsibility to marry her and take care of the child. Lotta guys just *poof*

You mean thought?

My first thought was "I'm not good enough to know?"
My second thought was "A baby!"

Yeah.

Surprise!!

(sigh) Family

ahh... to be 21 again

sorry to hear that, as she should have called you to let you know, but you could have also made a call her her just the same.
Not trying to be rude, just a last minute thought of mine.

But on the other hand CONGRATS on being a new auntie, and having a new brother in law.

A new baby in the family that you get to spoil.

if she had a baby 6 months ago, and 9 months being pregnant, that means you havnt saw her for over a year and a half??

I haven't seen her for about 3 years. I have talked to her, just not seen her.

But other than today, I haven't talked to her for about 7/8 months. I know, I'm a horrible sister. >_<

totally understand ... sorry hon *hugs*

your not horrible, i didnt say that.

in all fairness either one of you could have picked the phone up. not just you.

true be that eh?

Where does they live in Kentucky. 21 is awful young, but still, they could make it. If they respect the kid and each other and give the kid proper consequences (see the Love and Logic series of books for help on this) they oughta be able to make it. Pray for them and tell them to enlist the help of the Lord. Standing on him and his principles, they won't go too far wrong. Also, learning not to argue about every little thing helps, too. You learn that not everything's worth going off about. And yeah, you are a bad sister. I'd call them about once a month if I was you. I'm kind of out of touch with my family, too, and I regret it. (So, like, I'm one to talk, right?). JMO.

GS