looks fade, bones break, all that's left is a heart, figure this you could be caught in a tragic fire and burnt like Kruger, I can almost promise they would stay with you, if it was true love. then again if they left you, then you just proved atleast you live in another realm, where the blind are king and the heart leads.

Takes different strokes, for different folks

I once remembered seeing a beautiful woman 5'3", 115 lbs, very shapely, long hair, bright eyes, full lips, contagious laugh, 20 years old, now she's 38 and the only thing that has changed is her weight. Would you love her more at 20 years old or 38?
Would you love her less cause she gain lbs?

This is a delicate matter, I would've had to get to know them in a way that weight never came up so that I would not find myself immediately judging her before getting to know her and later I wouldn't think of her as a liar because well, it never came up to be lied about.

I may give a girl a chance knowing she was a big girl as well, I don't know, I've never been in that situation.

That being said, I feel that once I know her, I'd like them for who they are on the inside not the outside, the outside is just a shell for the beautiful spirit within someone anyway.

I BELIEVE THE THING TO BE REMEMBERED HERE, IS THAT TRUE BEAUTY HAS BEEN ,AND WILL FOREVER BE, IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

Right but unfortunately the outer shell is what keeps sooo many from finding the beauty within and that is just wrong to let that beauty lay ignored and ungloried

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Physical attration is important in all things. When we buy a car, furniture or even a house. We dont see the flaws till we grow tired of it, if ever. We choose what we like. And that is human nature.

no, they wouldnt be what I was looking for. we couldnt shop, go walking, go hiking, go play in the park, or go swimming. IDK, I doubt I would even get far enough to know their name.

Sound I am able to do all those things, hiking in ruff terrain might be a challenge. but just because i'm overweight dosen't mean i'm not active. I work a ft job where I am on my feet 8 hrs a day, plus i have 3 teenagers and a grandchild at home 2 care for.Just because i'm overweight dosen't mean i'm not active.

I think the inside is much more important than the outside and of course I would give them a chance. I know I'm not perfect by any means, nor is anyone else.

well each to there own, i personally wouldnt judge somone over there weight. she could be the most wonderfull woman on the planet and you could be missing out on that just because of the way she looks

Of course, if they were everything I wanted in a person/mate size would not matter. My ex was at 320 lbs when we split and his weight had nothing to do with our split.

Nicely said, Wanttachat.

Yep.

I honestly don't know. I'm small, so how it would work may be on my mind. Most of my friends are heavier than me and I love them all!

I dated a guy for 9 months that was that heavy, he was an angel... depends on the person, but I would do it again in a heart beat....

He was more active than me, he swam every day, he hiked in the good weather, he did low impact aerobics.....