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Topic: If you meet someone,
Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:57 PM
and they are everything you are looking for, except they weigh 350 lbs, do you give them a chance? And be honest, because I say no. Obesity is a major turn-off for me.

Totage's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:58 PM

and they are everything you are looking for, except they weigh 350 lbs, do you give them a chance? And be honest, because I say no. Obesity is a major turn-off for me.


Nope, they wouldn't be everything I'm looking for, honestly.

shmuzii316's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:58 PM
Edited by shmuzii316 on Tue 03/04/08 09:58 PM
it would mean that they lied to you.id say no too...

hottpinkilicious's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:59 PM
depends...he might be 10 feet tall and then his weight would be proportionate...

TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:59 PM

and they are everything you are looking for, except they weigh 350 lbs, do you give them a chance? And be honest, because I say no. Obesity is a major turn-off for me.


Nopeohwell

TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:00 PM

depends...he might be 10 feet tall and then his weight would be proportionate...


Are we stretching it a little bitlaugh

itsmetina's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:01 PM
i'd be surprised if any1 says yes.i've known people overweight and most of them even want a skinner person

Queene123's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:03 PM
just because of there weight it shouldnt matter, as beauty is the eye of the beholder, never judge a person for who there not.... i dont look at the guys looks i go by there personality.. i had a ex (rest his soul) that weigh 450lbs he may had alot of issue but he had a good heart:cry:

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:05 PM
Yes I would give them a chance.

wanttachat's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:11 PM
wow I am actually disturbed by the responses, I myself would give an overweight guy a better chance then an athletic guy cause the overwieght ones are nicer, friendly, lovable, and just want to be loved to the athletics think they deserve attention, sorry if I stepped on toes but that is my opinionflowerforyou

pennyg281's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:14 PM


Speaking as a person who has struggled with weight issues her whole life. Your weight is only one part of you. It isn't who you are. My name is Penny, i'm kind,caring,honest,and a hopeless romantic, I just happen to weigh 335 pounds.

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:15 PM

wow I am actually disturbed by the responses, I myself would give an overweight guy a better chance then an athletic guy cause the overwieght ones are nicer, friendly, lovable, and just want to be loved to the athletics think they deserve attention, sorry if I stepped on toes but that is my opinionflowerforyou
Nope open forum

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:16 PM
friends yes, more no. To have a realtionship you have to be attracted mind, body and soul. Flame me, but it is the way I see it

Peccy's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:16 PM



Speaking as a person who has struggled with weight issues her whole life. Your weight is only one part of you. It isn't who you are. My name is Penny, i'm kind,caring,honest,and a hopeless romantic, I just happen to weigh 335 pounds.
And I am in no way degrading you Penny, simply saying that it's not for me.

pennyg281's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:48 PM




Speaking as a person who has struggled with weight issues her whole life. Your weight is only one part of you. It isn't who you are. My name is Penny, i'm kind,caring,honest,and a hopeless romantic, I just happen to weigh 335 pounds.
And I am in no way degrading you Penny, simply saying that it's not for me.


Not offended in the least everyone has the right to choose what they like or find attractive.:smile:

mach25's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:51 PM
Edited by mach25 on Tue 03/04/08 10:51 PM

just because of there weight it shouldnt matter, as beauty is the eye of the beholder, never judge a person for who there not.... i dont look at the guys looks i go by there personality.. i had a ex (rest his soul) that weigh 450lbs he may had alot of issue but he had a good heart:cry:


yeh well... alot of beholding then huh?laugh laugh

hottpinkilicious's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:52 PM

and they are everything you are looking for, except they weigh 350 lbs, do you give them a chance? And be honest, because I say no. Obesity is a major turn-off for me.

He never said the person was overweight.....that would depend on the height...

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Tue 03/04/08 11:00 PM



Speaking as a person who has struggled with weight issues her whole life. Your weight is only one part of you. It isn't who you are. My name is Penny, i'm kind,caring,honest,and a hopeless romantic, I just happen to weigh 335 pounds.


Coming from 316 and losing over 120 of that, I feel for you girlfriend. But I do have to say my husband (now ex) never held my weight against me (of course he was topping the scales at over 300 as well) but YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL for you!!!!

Jtevans's photo
Tue 03/04/08 11:04 PM

friends yes, more no. To have a realtionship you have to be attracted mind, body and soul. Flame me, but it is the way I see it



i agree with Rob.

some people are attracted to heavy set guy/girls and some aren't but physical attraction does play a part in the relationship,no matter what anyone says!

pennyg281's photo
Tue 03/04/08 11:05 PM




Speaking as a person who has struggled with weight issues her whole life. Your weight is only one part of you. It isn't who you are. My name is Penny, i'm kind,caring,honest,and a hopeless romantic, I just happen to weigh 335 pounds.


Coming from 316 and losing over 120 of that, I feel for you girlfriend. But I do have to say my husband (now ex) never held my weight against me (of course he was topping the scales at over 300 as well) but YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL for you!!!!

Thank You.FireofThePhoenix I too have been working on loosing weight at my heaviest I weighted 395. You beautiful 2flowerforyou flowerforyou

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