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Topic: Are you wondering where all the nice guys are?
hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 03/04/08 06:33 PM Edited by hikerchick on Tue 03/04/08 06:36 PM
Why don't we take the original purloined post and replace "nice guy" with "fat chick" so everyone can feel my pain for a change?

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 03/04/08 06:33 PM Edited by TheShadow on Tue 03/04/08 06:37 PM
All the women are going to give this look but in reality most are what this post talk about. Looking for something that isn't there and end up **ing themselves once again I wonder how many will get mad and maybey they should..... Just women?? I've seen some pretty poor choices made by men also!! No not just women, but if women are getting mad at this. That tells me a little bit about them..... why be consernd if it has nothing to do with you. Not you, just women in gerenal. I myself have never put a women through this and it's because I been through it so why put them through the pain if you were to say. Sorry Shadow is says nothing except he got screwed over so he's generalizing all women... As a matter of fact I'd say he's one of those a$$hole guys he says ALL women like.. Let's see how many dates he gets from this post... See I could take this so many ways, but i have an understanding today and realize it's not all whether it Men/Women There is that part of me that I left behind. The asshole as some call it. where I am at today is place where i keep things real with meself and don't play in to the women that take my looks as being on the net as me being a badass. It throws them off when they actually see that there is a real man here that is ready to give his hart to the right women. I said what i said to see what reaction id. What i got out of this whole post. Is alot of people are different on the net then they are face to face and guys are the worst at it. Lets play the badass but they don't know how there goin g to ** themselves in the end. So all you so call I know what women want You going to have a rude awakining ? can one of you ladies explain it to him

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 03/04/08 06:33 PM
But Shadow.. you said we women couldn't "take" it.... Said some women

StatGirl Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 150	Tue 03/04/08 06:34 PM
Howdy do, hikerchick!!

angelwings1020 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 2440	Tue 03/04/08 06:38 PM
ive dated my fair share of unfortuante looking women based SOLEY on personality. thats another thing that i gained from being a rejected nice guy. this isnt an overgeneralization either. women do not respect "nice guy" types. you see it as bootlicking and weakness. women think they do but its much much different in practice. im not saying women like to be treated like **** or dont enjoy kindness (both of which i still give in abundance) but presenting it directly and honestly will not work for a man who isnt physically attractive. Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that????

StatGirl Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 150	Tue 03/04/08 06:40 PM
Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? You know....those who have to settle for nice guys who use pickup lines and don't make 500k a year.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 03/04/08 06:42 PM
I feel the strongest urge to cut and paste one of my own previous posts here, so I'm going to give in and do it. 1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship. 2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice. 3. Nice doesn't really mean nice. 4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together. 5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 03/04/08 06:42 PM
Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? You know....those who have to settle for nice guys who use pickup lines and don't make 500k a year. LIke me!!!

arcadefan Joined Thu 09/06/07 Posts: 17484	Tue 03/04/08 06:43 PM
ive dated my fair share of unfortuante looking women based SOLEY on personality. thats another thing that i gained from being a rejected nice guy. this isnt an overgeneralization either. women do not respect "nice guy" types. you see it as bootlicking and weakness. women think they do but its much much different in practice. im not saying women like to be treated like **** or dont enjoy kindness (both of which i still give in abundance) but presenting it directly and honestly will not work for a man who isnt physically attractive. Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? evening angel

angelwings1020 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 2440	Tue 03/04/08 06:43 PM
Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? You know....those who have to settle for nice guys who use pickup lines and don't make 500k a year. awww Stat...LMAO...What a Moron...what kind of phrase is that to use about anyone????

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 03/04/08 06:44 PM
I think that particular poster if going to be swept away soon with offers flooding in....

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 03/04/08 06:45 PM
maybe then he'll be inspired to write his own stuff!

angelwings1020 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 2440	Tue 03/04/08 06:45 PM
Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? You know....those who have to settle for nice guys who use pickup lines and don't make 500k a year. LIke me!!! Awww Hilerchick...you are beautiful inside and out...for you

angelwings1020 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 2440	Tue 03/04/08 06:47 PM
ive dated my fair share of unfortuante looking women based SOLEY on personality. thats another thing that i gained from being a rejected nice guy. this isnt an overgeneralization either. women do not respect "nice guy" types. you see it as bootlicking and weakness. women think they do but its much much different in practice. im not saying women like to be treated like **** or dont enjoy kindness (both of which i still give in abundance) but presenting it directly and honestly will not work for a man who isnt physically attractive. Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? evening angel back at you handsome... Charles is a NIce Guy...but in all the right ways

arcadefan Joined Thu 09/06/07 Posts: 17484	Tue 03/04/08 06:47 PM
i think to much tension is building up in this thread backing out of this thread so i don't get into it

StatGirl Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 150	Tue 03/04/08 06:47 PM
LIke me!!! Me too!

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 06:47 PM
Younger ladies overlook nice guys for guys with nice wallets or luxury cars.

arcadefan Joined Thu 09/06/07 Posts: 17484	Tue 03/04/08 06:48 PM
ive dated my fair share of unfortuante looking women based SOLEY on personality. thats another thing that i gained from being a rejected nice guy. this isnt an overgeneralization either. women do not respect "nice guy" types. you see it as bootlicking and weakness. women think they do but its much much different in practice. im not saying women like to be treated like **** or dont enjoy kindness (both of which i still give in abundance) but presenting it directly and honestly will not work for a man who isnt physically attractive. Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? evening angel back at you handsome... Charles is a NIce Guy...but in all the right ways thank you very much angel

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 03/04/08 06:51 PM
Younger ladies overlook nice guys for guys with nice wallets or luxury cars. love you babe but I gotta do it... guys overlook nice girls for girls with bigger boobs and smaller waists...

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 03/04/08 06:52 PM
Unfortunate looking Women ..WTF is that???? You know....those who have to settle for nice guys who use pickup lines and don't make 500k a year. LIke me!!! Awww Hilerchick...you are beautiful inside and out...for you What a sweet thing to say! Women sure like nice women, I will tell you. I suspect these "nice guys" aren't as nice as they think they are.