Topic: Someone is not going like this....
TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:36 AM
laugh

izzie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:36 AM
's ok adj... i get what you are sayin... dont 100% agree with you, but respect your opinion...
flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:36 AM
Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.

adj4u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:40 AM
Edited by adj4u on Tue 03/04/08 09:43 AM

Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.


you can choose to read or not

i can chose to write or not

if my writing is to hard to understand

do not read it

that is your decision to make

i am not at this time changing the way i type my posts

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TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:42 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 03/04/08 09:43 AM


Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.


you can chose to read or not

i can chose to write or not

if my writing is to hard to understand

do not read it

Have to agree, just be who you are and enjoy your time on here

that is your decision to make

i am not at this time changing the way i type my posts

I agree, just be who you are and enjoy your time on here.

adj4u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:43 AM

's ok adj... i get what you are sayin... dont 100% agree with you, but respect your opinion...
flowerforyou


does that mean i should not break it off

when i find out they are in a relationship

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lilith401's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:44 AM

Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.


I understand I'm free not to read them. I choose not to. I said I was going to stop. Let it go. I'm not starting an argument, I'm voicing my opinion.

I did not mean to detract from Shadow's topic.

Shadow~ I apologize. flowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:45 AM
Edited by ellgee1976 on Tue 03/04/08 09:46 AM
i was involved with a married man, til i found out he was married


the point is...it was HIS fault for lookin outside the relationship, not HER fault either, and definatly not MINE..cuz once i found out..it was over..period


adj4u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:45 AM



Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.


you can chose to read or not

i can chose to write or not

if my writing is to hard to understand

do not read it

that is your decision to make

i am not at this time changing the way i type my posts

I agree, just be who you are and enjoy your time on here.


reposted removing line added by mistake bigsmile

izzie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:49 AM


's ok adj... i get what you are sayin... dont 100% agree with you, but respect your opinion...
flowerforyou


does that mean i should not break it off

when i find out they are in a relationship

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
no silly.... ijust ment that you said that it was the fault of the cheeting party... and not the other person.... well if the other person KNOWINGLY persues someone who is in a relationship... i beleve they are as much at fault as anyone else...
jmo..

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BlueskyJ's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:49 AM


Okay, adj4u....then I'll have to stop reading your posts altogether. I guess it's not a write for the reader sort of thing, huh? Nice to know.


you can chose to read or not

i can chose to write or not

if my writing is to hard to understand

do not read it



that is your decision to make

i am not at this time changing the way i type my posts

Your style of writing is uniquely yours....how you type your posts is not what is being discussed....when people write it is usually with an audience in mind...if you lose your audience due to fragmented thoughts then your communication was not a success...you can have a free form writing style and still convey your thoughts & ideas with greater coherence....

when i used your idea about the person being 'hit upon', i had to decipher and reconstruct what i thought you were trying to say....try rereading what you write before posting to see if you are effectively expressing yourself....just my humble opinion...:wink:

TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:51 AM

i was involved with a married man, til i found out he was married


the point is...it was HIS fault for lookin outside the relationship, not HER fault either, and definatly not MINE..cuz once i found out..it was over..period




Yeah i can see that. But it's knowing when you know there taken is where i say you have no respec and neither does the other.

adj4u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:52 AM



's ok adj... i get what you are sayin... dont 100% agree with you, but respect your opinion...
flowerforyou


does that mean i should not break it off

when i find out they are in a relationship

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
no silly.... ijust ment that you said that it was the fault of the cheeting party... and not the other person.... well if the other person KNOWINGLY persues someone who is in a relationship... i beleve they are as much at fault as anyone else...
jmo..

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well iwill give it 70 30 on the blame

70 going to the one in the relationship

but

if you read the later posts

i was referring to an unknown as to the persuer


starryeyed346's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:52 AM

I completely agree. What is very sad is people in here, who are obviously taken and only here for the forums... get mails from members asking if they are interested, or even just send flirtacious messages with compliments and not just friendly overtures. Sometimes they guise it in the form of friendship, and others are blatant and say to "hit them up" if things don't work out.

That is in such poor taste. What happened to the golden rule? noway



It is quite true. I am taken, which I dont conceal on any level.. and i get numerous emails daily containing at least one of the following:
"How you doing baby? Youre gorgeous.. why are you single?"
"Hey starry, youre hot. What you need is a real man. Email me sometime"
"Im going to be in town for a day or two and i was wondering if you would escort me around grand rapids" (escort? i think not.)

izzie's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:55 AM
ok...ill give you 70/30...
flowerforyou




's ok adj... i get what you are sayin... dont 100% agree with you, but respect your opinion...
flowerforyou


does that mean i should not break it off

when i find out they are in a relationship

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
no silly.... ijust ment that you said that it was the fault of the cheeting party... and not the other person.... well if the other person KNOWINGLY persues someone who is in a relationship... i beleve they are as much at fault as anyone else...
jmo..

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



well iwill give it 70 30 on the blame

70 going to the one in the relationship

but

if you read the later posts

i was referring to an unknown as to the persuer



TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:55 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 03/04/08 09:57 AM


I completely agree. What is very sad is people in here, who are obviously taken and only here for the forums... get mails from members asking if they are interested, or even just send flirtacious messages with compliments and not just friendly overtures. Sometimes they guise it in the form of friendship, and others are blatant and say to "hit them up" if things don't work out.

That is in such poor taste. What happened to the golden rule? noway


It is quite true. I am taken, which I dont conceal on any level.. and i get numerous emails daily containing at least one of the following:
"How you doing baby? Youre gorgeous.. why are you single?"
"Hey starry, youre hot. What you need is a real man. Email me sometime"
"Im going to be in town for a day or two and i was wondering if you would escort me around grand rapids" (escort? i think not.)


If your taken, why not put that in your profile

adj4u's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:58 AM


Your style of writing is uniquely yours....how you type your posts is not what is being discussed....when people write it is usually with an audience in mind...if you lose your audience due to fragmented thoughts then your communication was not a success...you can have a free form writing style and still convey your thoughts & ideas with greater coherence....

when i used your idea about the person being 'hit upon', i had to decipher and reconstruct what i thought you were trying to say....try rereading what you write before posting to see if you are effectively expressing yourself....just my humble opinion.



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well i am not going to argue it with ya

but does he need hit in the head with a shovel

she don't want him



above is in regards to friend

not hard to see that as next line explains



and as far as on the site

yes it would be nice to be respectful

but in the real world

the partner will be hit on

and it is not the one doing the hitting on

that is to be blamed if something develops

the partner is the one that has promised to

be faithful not the others in the world

altho i would not knowingly develop a relationship

with someone in a relationship

it would not be my fault if it happened

as i did not promise anything to the other person

the one to blame for being unfaithful

is the one that promised it

and second you need to figure out why

cause usually if they are happy

they will be faithful





does not seem hard to follow to me

but i did write it

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/04/08 09:59 AM
She does, and so do I. flowerforyou

I know mine is abundantly clear, as is my SO's...

It's not the lack of reading, it's those that read and don't care.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:00 AM

She does, and so do I. flowerforyou

I know mine is abundantly clear, as is my SO's...

It's not the lack of reading, it's those that read and don't care.


It's morning and my head is thinking to muchlaugh I just read it over again:smile:

starryeyed346's photo
Tue 03/04/08 10:01 AM


If your taken, why not put that in your profile


It IS in my profile... genius... lol