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I think if your "involved" with someone here, then their profile should indicate that in some way. There are people here that just like to "play". I know from being in the forums and such who is basically "taken" here.
It's when profiles are not changed that people can get confused as to what the other person is feeling. Great topic Shadow....thank you 
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sometimes the profiles do change puff, and people dont bother to check it out to see...
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sometimes the profiles do change puff, and people dont bother to check it out to see... Yeah and guys are known for not reading before they reply 
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well i am not going to argue it with ya
but does he need hit in the head with a shovel she don't want him and as far as on the site yes it would be nice to be respectful but in the real world the partner will be hit on and it is not the one doing the hitting on that is to be blamed if something develops the partner is the one that has promised to be faithful not the others in the world altho i would not knowingly develop a relationship with someone in a relationship it would not be my fault if it happened as i did not promise anything to the other person the one to blame for being unfaithful is the one that promised it and second you need to figure out why cause usually if they are happy they will be faithful |
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Well done Shadow and I agree with you
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I commend you Shadow....you have strong moral character....you have demonstrated respect, trust,concern for your friend & you value relationships...you avoided putting yourself in an uncomfortable situation not letting temptation get the better of you....
and yes wouldn't it be nice if others were the same.... and like adj4u said, the person getting 'hit upon' has to have their moral character in place to resist that temptation cause in this world the partner will get 'hit' upon.... |
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well i am not going to argue it with ya but does he need hit in the head with a shovel she don't want him and as far as on the site yes it would be nice to be respectful but in the real world the partner will be hit on and it is not the one doing the hitting on that is to be blamed if something develops the partner is the one that has promised to be faithful not the others in the world altho i would not knowingly develop a relationship with someone in a relationship it would not be my fault if it happened as i did not promise anything to the other person the one to blame for being unfaithful is the one that promised it and second you need to figure out why cause usually if they are happy they will be faithful  I like the part that you said, although i would not knowingly develop a relationship with someone in a relationship. It would not be my fault if it happened. Question, please explain how it would not be your flat if it happened? You have the choice to end it reight there and then if it came up. How could you not take resonibility for your actions? |
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as far as I am concerned, stepping into the middle of a relationship and trying to get one of the two to be with you instead is the same thing as stealing.
I myself am in love with my best friend. She knows this too. She also knows that I am not willing to try a long distance relationship with her due to problems she has had with the very asses we are discussing here. I want to be close enough to see her regularly, and not once a month or so. Also, she is currently seeing someone else right now as I was unable to move over there when I first intended, and I support her in it completely as I want her to be happy. When I do finally move over there, I am NOT going to try ad disrupt there relationship, or to get her to leave him or anything. If she does leave him then i will be there as I always am to help her get through it, and maybe thensomethign willhappen. But again, maybe not. |
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I like the new pic btw .... It would be a great world if everyone showed such self respect and restraint .. respecting of others begins with respecting yourself ... Good thoughts !!!
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I always hated when my friends would sit there and flirt with my girl right in front of me, and I'm not talking the playful normal flirting. I'm talking the "why are you with this guy" stuff. That always got under my skin. I understand what you're saying though , and i agree.
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as far as I am concerned, stepping into the middle of a relationship and trying to get one of the two to be with you instead is the same thing as stealing. I myself am in love with my best friend. She knows this too. She also knows that I am not willing to try a long distance relationship with her due to problems she has had with the very asses we are discussing here. I want to be close enough to see her regularly, and not once a month or so. Also, she is currently seeing someone else right now as I was unable to move over there when I first intended, and I support her in it completely as I want her to be happy. When I do finally move over there, I am NOT going to try ad disrupt there relationship, or to get her to leave him or anything. If she does leave him then i will be there as I always am to help her get through it, and maybe thensomethign willhappen. But again, maybe not. See thats the way it is with my friend. They known each other over 10 years. The topic to answer adj4u question. Is about respect and knowing where the fine line is between being friends and putting yourself where you don't belong... |
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I have never been in that situation and would never want to be. If I like someone and they are "attached", I remain respectful and get over it.
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I always hated when my friends would sit there and flirt with my girl right in front of me, and I'm not talking the playful normal flirting. I'm talking the "why are you with this guy" stuff. That always got under my skin. I understand what you're saying though , and i agree. Friend?????  That is what is know as c0ckblocking in my neck of the woods and is way out of line. Maybe it is time to find some new friends???
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laugh I like the part that you said, although i would not knowingly develop a relationship with someone in a relationship. It would not be my fault if it happened. Question, please explain how it would not be your flat if it happened? You have the choice to end it reight there and then if it came up. How could you not take resonibility for your actions? what actions having feelings for someone and i probably would end it then and there because if they are not faithful to the one they are with they would not be faithful to me niether why would i be responsible for --thier actions-- i promised the person they are with nothing they are the one not living up to their promise not me i am only confirming the good taste of the other person |
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I always hated when my friends would sit there and flirt with my girl right in front of me, and I'm not talking the playful normal flirting. I'm talking the "why are you with this guy" stuff. That always got under my skin. I understand what you're saying though , and i agree. Then there really not your friends and if your gf is allowing this. Then this at the time, it tells me that she didn't have any respect for you. Hell I teel most girls that I start getting to know if were datting and it might be a little rough. Although it's where I'm at and have done. If i'm in a sitution where she is allowing this to happen. I have no problem today just geeting myself up and move on. I say you want to play. then play with yourself
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Ok
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adj4u~~
I'm not trying to sound difficult, but I can say in all honesty your posts in here are vague, cryptic, convoluted, and hard to read in general. Can you write in complete sentences and clarify what you are trying to say??? I can make NO SENSE out of it.
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adj4u~~ I'm not trying to sound difficult, but I can say in all honesty your posts in here are vague, cryptic, convoluted, and hard to read in general. Can you write in complete sentences and clarify what you are trying to say??? I can make NO SENSE out of it. sorry about that do not read it as a paragraph it is not read each line separate if can not decipher that way then just skip over my posts |
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adj4u~~ I'm not trying to sound difficult, but I can say in all honesty your posts in here are vague, cryptic, convoluted, and hard to read in general. Can you write in complete sentences and clarify what you are trying to say??? I can make NO SENSE out of it. See adj? I am not the only one suggesting grammar lol  Just kidding bro.... |
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adj4u~~ I'm not trying to sound difficult, but I can say in all honesty your posts in here are vague, cryptic, convoluted, and hard to read in general. Can you write in complete sentences and clarify what you are trying to say??? I can make NO SENSE out of it. See adj? I am not the only one suggesting grammar lol Just kidding bro.... leyeks eye sayz nz da udder 1 iffin theyz does theyz job
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