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Topic: Would you want
Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:51 PM





Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same.
I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin


Clearly you are not unattractive but why are you so hung up on looks? you have so much more to offer, don't you?

To some I am not, but to others I am. Everyone does not have the same take on a persons appearance. I am not hung up on looks alone chick, I think the people I have in my friends list shows that. If a person is shallow, they have no value to m like that, but looks are somewhat important to everyone.


Maybe to some extent..but it is way down on my list of what I am looking for. I would date a troll if he was smart, funny, kind and interesting.

But honestly, people who post in those Hot or Not thread..I feel sorry for them. They are desperately seeking validation and it seems to me it must be because they think they have nothing else to offer. Thanks for the topic, this is interesting.flowerforyou


I can se your point chick, but I do it for fun. i really don't expect any particular answer. i was told tonight I wasn't hot, my life continues, and everything is still moving forward

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:52 PM
Don't let the haters get you down, Rob.

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:55 PM

Don't let the haters get you down, Rob.

sometimes in life I an be harsh chick. I have been told that many times. I am honest to a fault, but I expect no less than what I give. If you ask, I will tell you exactly the way I feel. i do not intentiionally set out to hurt anyones feelings, but if you put yourself in that position, it means you desire to know imho. Just because one person is not your type does not make for a falling sky. be true to thy own self

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/02/08 05:57 PM
I would never post in one of those threads, Rob, because people would either lie to me or tell me the truth and both would be painful.

Best just to know what I know.

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:01 PM

I would never post in one of those threads, Rob, because people would either lie to me or tell me the truth and both would be painful.

Best just to know what I know.

understood. I myself will refrain from them in the future. Just not worth the headache. I will not lie to save someones feelings. The few always ruin the fun for the many

hikerchick's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:03 PM


I would never post in one of those threads, Rob, because people would either lie to me or tell me the truth and both would be painful.

Best just to know what I know.

understood. I myself will refrain from them in the future. Just not worth the headache. I will not lie to save someones feelings. The few always ruin the fun for the many


yah - that seems to be epidemic around here.

Oh - and beware the poster who starts an incendiary thread and continues to bait you until you are rabid and then reports you to the mods.

It seems to be a new sport around here.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:06 PM
Nope not if I asked now if I don't ask keep it to yourself grumble

Shaden's photo
Sun 03/02/08 06:08 PM
I'm not one for harshness giving it or receiving it. It would depend on the circumstance.

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