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Topic: Would you want
AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 03/02/08 05:35 PM
depends.. are we talking about my butt?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:35 PM
truth. But the thing is, people post these threads asking for honesty and then rip you a new one when you give it to them. Isn't that the truth. You tell the truth, and you get branded, lol. I have been rejected enough to know that not everyone thinks I am attractive, just as I don't think everyone else is attractive. Skin is as thin as a catholic condom these days

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sun 03/02/08 05:35 PM
a person to tell you what you wanted to hear, even if it wasn't the truth? the truth even if it hurt.

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Sun 03/02/08 05:36 PM
so if you posted in a thread that asked a question, would you answer it honestly? Bring it on What do you want to know our oppinion on?

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sun 03/02/08 05:36 PM
I only handle the truth...

crystal14882 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 391	Sun 03/02/08 05:37 PM
so if you posted in a thread that asked a question, would you answer it honestly? Bring it on What do you want to know our oppinion on? Curiousity is killing the cat here. Do you have a good ??? lined up?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:37 PM
so if you posted in a thread that asked a question, would you answer it honestly? Bring it on What do you want to know our oppinion on? You guys/gals already answered my question. I am not going to head into specifics, but this site has made me question a few things. I thank you for YOUR honesty, all of you

texasrose9 Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 1140	Sun 03/02/08 05:37 PM
The truth definitely. Been in that position and didn't like it when the truth came out later.....

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 03/02/08 05:37 PM
truth. But the thing is, people post these threads asking for honesty and then rip you a new one when you give it to them. Isn't that the truth. You tell the truth, and you get branded, lol. I have been rejected enough to know that not everyone thinks I am attractive, just as I don't think everyone else is attractive. Skin is as thin as a catholic condom these days I don't think I would post in a thread where someone is asking if they are attractive. I would never rate another person's looks. It's when you rate what they say in their profiles that you get blasted. I would never call anyone unattractive. That's not honest, it's rude.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:39 PM
I would never call anyone unattractive. That's not honest, it's rude. why is it rude if that is the title of the thread. hot or not? You are asking for their opinion

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sun 03/02/08 05:39 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:40 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same. I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 03/02/08 05:41 PM
I would never call anyone unattractive. That's not honest, it's rude. why is it rude if that is the title of the thread. hot or not? You are asking for their opinion I would not post in a thread where someone is pathetically looking for validation of their worth via their appearance. But that is just me. Appearance means nothing.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sun 03/02/08 05:41 PM
I want the Truth

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 03/02/08 05:42 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same. I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin Clearly you are not unattractive but why are you so hung up on looks? you have so much more to offer, don't you?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:43 PM
I would never call anyone unattractive. That's not honest, it's rude. why is it rude if that is the title of the thread. hot or not? You are asking for their opinion I would not post in a thread where someone is pathetically looking for validation of their worth via their appearance. But that is just me. Appearance means nothing. I did not see you post there chick. It is no different that asking someone if you are fat, or blad, or hairy

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sun 03/02/08 05:43 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same. I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin Amen Rob! That is what is important, feeling comfortable in one's own skin!

daddysxgirlx35 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 588	Sun 03/02/08 05:43 PM
NO IF YOU CANT BE TRUTHFUL THEN YOU CANT BE HONEST EITHER SO TELL THE TRUTH

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 03/02/08 05:44 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same. I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin Clearly you are not unattractive but why are you so hung up on looks? you have so much more to offer, don't you? To some I am not, but to others I am. Everyone does not have the same take on a persons appearance. I am not hung up on looks alone chick, I think the people I have in my friends list shows that. If a person is shallow, they have no value to m like that, but looks are somewhat important to everyone.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 03/02/08 05:49 PM
Hearing what one wants to hear is a temporary thing to me. That feeling of joy will suddenly change to the opposite feeling when the truth is known. What one wants to hear and the truth sometimes can be the same, but more often than not, they are different. I will always tell the truth and would hope the other person would do the same. I can handle it quite fine myself. I have been told many times that I am not attractive, big deal. I am comfortable in my skin Clearly you are not unattractive but why are you so hung up on looks? you have so much more to offer, don't you? To some I am not, but to others I am. Everyone does not have the same take on a persons appearance. I am not hung up on looks alone chick, I think the people I have in my friends list shows that. If a person is shallow, they have no value to m like that, but looks are somewhat important to everyone. Maybe to some extent..but it is way down on my list of what I am looking for. I would date a troll if he was smart, funny, kind and interesting. But honestly, people who post in those Hot or Not thread..I feel sorry for them. They are desperately seeking validation and it seems to me it must be because they think they have nothing else to offer. Thanks for the topic, this is interesting.