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OK , so I had to sing at a booking today. We set up and everything is going fine. You know, we are singin' and really havin a great time. Out of no where this older man stood up and raised his hands, I thought he was goin to pray then he just dropped. We of course rushed to his aid. I was terrified!
When the emts got there he was pronounced dead. I am flippin out by this point . I have never wittnessed anything like that before.I am pretty shaken by it. We only got thru two songs before it happened. His wife turned and said to me that the song I sang was his favorite song and now I feel bad. I know its not my fault, but even still..... How does a person cope with something like this? |
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Dying while hearing your favorite song isn't too bad of a way to go, if you think about it.
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what song was it?
just curious |
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what song was it? just curious Hope to God it wasn't Stairway to Heaven. |
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what song was it? just curious The Anchor Holds |
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It was his favorite song!
He passed away happy if you ask me... Try not to let it worry or bother you. It was his time... (not your singing  ) (((Country)))  |
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Edited by
pilgrimandpagan
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Sun 03/02/08 12:49 PM
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just think that it was his time and you gave him a verry spiffy gift
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It was his favorite song! He passed away happy if you ask me... Try not to let it worry or bother you. It was his time... (not your singing ) (((Country))) {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{MsTeddy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} |
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You absoulutely had nothing to do with that,but it was an experience you will never forget, life happens...so does death...it just was, that's it, it was him time, god called him, and the fact that he was prob having fun is a good thing,,, so that's it...
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Some people pass away with singing as a comforting guide to eternity. Especially if it is a song they love. No worries with you though. It's okay. The angels just sung him home.
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Death is something Absolute, and will eventually catch up with us,
Witnessing a Death can be Starting and tramatizing, But The Man passed with a Sound he would have liked to stay echoing with him on the other side You done nothing wrong, more then that, someting for him in a sense |
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I know what everyone is sayin , but I still feel bad. And now his wife wants me to sing at his funeral.
Do I ? It would be rude not to. I am just not at all ok with this at this moment. I am a mess. |
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He died happy, what more could you ask?
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He died happy, what more could you ask? Well, I guess so, but I keep thinkin if I had not sang that song...... |
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Do what makes you feel right. Only you can decide that, chere.
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OK , so I had to sing at a booking today. We set up and everything is going fine. You know, we are singin' and really havin a great time. Out of no where this older man stood up and raised his hands, I thought he was goin to pray then he just dropped. We of course rushed to his aid. I was terrified! When the emts got there he was pronounced dead. I am flippin out by this point . I have never wittnessed anything like that before.I am pretty shaken by it. We only got thru two songs before it happened. His wife turned and said to me that the song I sang was his favorite song and now I feel bad. I know its not my fault, but even still..... How does a person cope with something like this? i can see why your shook up, witnessing that, you will be upset and shocked, but youll feel better soon sweetie.
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I know what everyone is sayin , but I still feel bad. And now his wife wants me to sing at his funeral. Do I ? It would be rude not to. I am just not at all ok with this at this moment. I am a mess. Wow... you made an impression with your singing on her. Its up to you... but sometimes when we sing it helps us through the hard things in life.
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Think of it this way...Suppose it was your time to go...
Wouldn't it be nice if you were listening to one of your favorite songs just by coincidence? Would you blame the singer?! Don't let it bother you - but talk about it!!
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Sorry I brought this to JSH , but I really had no one else to turn to.
Thank you all. (((((((((((((((((EVERYONE)))))))))))))))) 
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It is possible ....that all that was missing between Him and God.......was to ....REALLY hear that song..........
Consider that God used you in a mighty way........to release this Spirit......to PARADISE |
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