No, I'm not a drama queen, but get this. A few hours ago I received a
phone call from a very good friend who told me that she thought I was
flirting too much with her live-in boyfriend. Now, mind you, I've known
this woman for four years; we are all deep into middle age. I've been
blind sided again. I wish I could say I was bull ****ting you, but I'm
not. Damn, I'm 60 yrs old for crying out loud in a bucket. I joke and
tease and people laugh, but that's about it! It may have been PMS or
something. I don't know, but I've gotta get away somehow. I rather
become a recluse than live one more day in the court room. When do we
all graduate from high school? And this is a real live friend not a
computer person. What's the deal?

Maybe she has some insecurities, and needs some reasurance.

Just ask your friend why you would want her man when you have access to
all these younger men and ladies here on just say Hi. Besides, we
probably have more to offer you in the friendship side anyhow. You do
not have to explain yourself to anyone. I would re-evaluate how much of
a friend she really is for 4 years time. As Shag said it may be
insecurities in her part or guilt for not treating her man right or fair
who knows.

Don't let it worry or upset you it is Christmas eve for God's sake.

Miss Sushi, Hello my very sweet young lady...wink,wink..lol

Your FRIEND, Is one of many folks in life, who for WHATEVER
reason is NOT HAPPY, so she to is having a bad day, it happens
and we all including myself have sorry ass days, where we just
cannot find that NOTHING, happens right.....

Miss Sushi my FRIEND, I do not care what anyone has ever told you,
INCLUDING ME, LOL.....YOUR A VERY SPECIAL PERSON WHO CAN
SHOW HER LOVE AND COMPASSION IN YOUR ON SPECIAL WAY, AND NOT
JUST TODAY,,,,BUT EVERYDAY!!!!!!!!

People will not always be happy with you, and you can't change
their minds at that time, but just know inside your self that it
is of their mind to be hateful, not YOURS!!!

Your love for animals and lonely people, has been seen by many
folks here, and I can't speak for them, but I dann-sure can
speak for me, and tell you,IM GLAD THAT I HAVE MET YOU, AND THAT
YOU CALL ME AND TREAT ME AS YOUR 'REAL' FRIEND!!!!!!!

SO with that being said from my heart, let me say to you now,

I TRULLY HOPE THAT ON THIS CHRISTMAS DAY, THAT 'YOU' WILL
KNOW, I LOVE YOU GIRL, AND WISH YOU A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS ,
AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!! PLEASE BE SAFE, AND GRACE GOD WITH

ALOT OF SMILES FOR HIM AND OTHERS IN YOUR LIFE!!!!!!

yes drama,but I think that friend who is judge jury and excutioner needs
to be frankly here get lost you dont need friends who accuse you enemies
do that,friends stick by you,she needs to read the friend handbook again
by laws in that text,real nice people here stick with them,MERRY
CHRISTMAS

You have to ask your self a few things? Was she really ever your friend
in the fist place? Isn't friendship partially based on trust? Is it true
that with out trust, there is no love or respect? I'm a Man & my species
have been known to think with there D*cks! I have made my fair share of
mistakes, but I would never intentionally put my D*ck where it would cum
between my friendship with someone I cared for! It seems to me from what
you have written, is>> You're a far better friend to her, than she ever
was to you! The best addvise I can offer is>>> Be more choosie in the
future on whom you consider to be your friend! Friends truly are one out
of a million. When you find one, hang on till the end!
Sincerely Leroy

Thanks, all of you. But why drop a nuke on Christmas Eve? I really
thought that once I retired, I get outta mess, but it just keeps
following me around. Well, all things will pass. They always do. I'll
figure out something--I always have. And that's Gospel for all of us.
But on Christmas Eve!!?? I love all of you, especially IAM--The Sage!!!

well maybe you are flirting too much. I don't think anyone here can
honestly say because we have not seen what goes on there. Insecure,
maybe, maybe not, but to judge the woman is wrong when we really don't
know anything about it. The woman apparently don't mind a little bit
because you said that she stated "too much". Everyone's point of excess
is different. If she thinks it's too much, then maybe just apologize and
if you don't like it and she's not that much of a friend then stay away
from her. Whoever's pointing fingers here sorry but your wrong whether
you know it or not and choose to believe it.

Mike68, You may be right, I've thought of that. But Jeeze, I'm hardly a
threat at my age. Come on. Give me a break!

LOL what does age have to do with anything hell look at Rags LOLOL

Mike68, You may be right, I've thought of that. But Jeeze, I'm hardly a
threat at my age. Come on. Give me a break!

I am new here and I have to say I have the same type of problem. Only
mine is my ex. He has something bad happen to him and all of a sudden I
get a nasty email from him chewing me out for something I know nothing
about. I just do my best to ignore it and try to remember that he isnt
happy and he dont want me happy. When he is happy with things going in
his life he leaves me alone, just when things go bad for him I catch all
his crap.

sushi, is it really you, or does she have some issues with her man
wanting to stray. in that case I would say no matter what, she does not
trust him, and will see any other woman who may come along as a threat.
in my opinion she is very insecure, also does not have any faith in her
man.

I agree with the insecurity issue. But I gotta get out. And join back
in back with her maybe later. I have aquaintenes (sp I'm not in the mood
to look it up), but noone one close enough to really talk to. I'm not
trained to handle insecurity issues. I really didn't know there were
any in my case. I'll just have to let things ride.

Sushi, I hate to tell you this but it never ends! I was at the partial
care facility(70+yrs old) near my home enjoying a meal with a friend
when out of the blue a whole table errupted into an uproar... Seems
someones man had been flirting with a lot of the woman and the woman
went at each other during dinner LOL believe me more then words were
flying I was ducking buns!

Karen, that was too funny, and I don't LOL too often.Merry Christmas!!!