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Topic: the nerve of some people
DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:12 PM
just because u r not interested doesnt mean u cant be friendly i'm not interested in some people but i still chat with them but its your choice darling thanx,cause i do want the choice to choose who i want to be friends with(and like i said,i like to speak my mind and notbeat around the bush,this is just the way i am)

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Thu 02/28/08 10:16 PM
i just got an e-mail from a girl who says she thinks im cute(like i care about that )and she finds me interesting.I tell her "thank you for the messege,but im not interested in you".then she tells me i have a cocky attitude,why is it that when some girls get turned down they get frustrated and/or mad? The next time, just thank them for the compliments. Adding the whole "I'm not interested in you" line just isn't called for. If you gotta tell them that you're not interested, be more polite about it.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 10:18 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ???

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Thu 02/28/08 10:20 PM
I like the way you type. rofl. it's sesy. wanna cyber... rofl...

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 02/28/08 10:20 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ???

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Thu 02/28/08 10:20 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ??? dammit i love this girl!!!

Pjinkysmom63 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 331	Thu 02/28/08 10:21 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ???

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Thu 02/28/08 10:21 PM Edited by Wolf19 on Thu 02/28/08 10:23 PM
trust me,you cant get the ****er to not say whats on his mind,that why i actually had to punch you like last week ,remember pave?

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Thu 02/28/08 10:22 PM
well,first of all i dont care what people think of my looks,that doesnt mean anything to me,and it also shows she was close minded cause she only focused on my looks.And i tried to let her down as gently as i possibly could(but also not to beat around the bush). Welcome to a females world, as far as the focusing on looks. I give you kudos for not being shallow!

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Thu 02/28/08 10:23 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ??? Exactly. The sender probably worked up a lot of courage in just bothering to send you the e-mail to begin with. By telling her you weren't interested, you probably crushed her already fragile ego.

knightless Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 402	Thu 02/28/08 10:24 PM
I think you lack taste and I'm sure you did nothing but hurt her feelings...that was pretty shallow.

tinabelle Joined Tue 09/26/06 Posts: 1044	Thu 02/28/08 10:24 PM
i just got an e-mail from a girl who says she thinks im cute(like i care about that )and she finds me interesting.I tell her "thank you for the messege,but im not interested in you".then she tells me i have a cocky attitude,why is it that when some girls get turned down they get frustrated and/or mad? you can't spend a few random emails talking to someone you're not 'interested' in? isn't meeting people the reason most of us are here. it wouldn't have killed you i'm sure.

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:25 PM
trust me,you cant get the ****er to not say whats on his mind,that why i actually had to punch you like last week ,remember pave? your a dumbass,you only punched me cause you said i wasnt paying attention to someone,AND THERE WAS NO ONE YOU IDIOT!

CrazyPalindrome Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 736	Thu 02/28/08 10:25 PM
well,first of all i dont care what people think of my looks,that doesnt mean anything to me,and it also shows she was close minded cause she only focused on my looks.And i tried to let her down as gently as i possibly could(but also not to beat around the bush). When I get comments on my looks, it kinda skeeves me out, and surprises me. I don't usually think about how I look much, people interested in looks generally don't have much in common with me. Last time I got one I said something about "I don't usually think of myself as "cute" but more "creative" "funny" etc" It's a way of letting them know you're not into looks, and it also subtly contradicts them, so they might realize that there's not much in common, whatever. I don't know... it's what I do, thought it might help...

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 10:27 PM
This is an online dating site and I am sure that the compliment was an ice breaker .. what is she suppose to say??You have a great font ??? dammit i love this girl!!! Whoot

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Thu 02/28/08 10:27 PM
Yeah I hate when women email me and tell me I am cute too....It posses me off.....I hate that!!!!

marangu88 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 148	Thu 02/28/08 10:28 PM
Rejection. It hurts. LOL. Yes, it hurts, but I would rather be rejected than the guy having to go through suffering because he doesn't like me. I mean, if a guy told me that he thought I was cute and I wasn't interested, I'd tell him a reason why and that we can still talk and be friends. It works sometimes, but not all the time. They just stop talking to me and go on. At least it's better than a big rejection. It's less painful in my opinion.

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Thu 02/28/08 10:29 PM
trust me,you cant get the ****er to not say whats on his mind,that why i actually had to punch you like last week ,remember pave? your a dumbass,you only punched me cause you said i wasnt paying attention to someone,AND THERE WAS NO ONE YOU IDIOT! yeah,but it was funny as hell,you couldnt breath for about a minute

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:29 PM
Yeah I hate when women email me and tell me I am cute too....It posses me off.....I hate that!!!!

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:30 PM
trust me,you cant get the ****er to not say whats on his mind,that why i actually had to punch you like last week ,remember pave? your a dumbass,you only punched me cause you said i wasnt paying attention to someone,AND THERE WAS NO ONE YOU IDIOT! yeah,but it was funny as hell,you couldnt breath for about a minute yeah,well,you just got a lucky shot,and you wouldnt be laughing if i just punch you on the side of the stomach