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Topic: the nerve of some people
iraceslowcars Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 5776	Thu 02/28/08 10:35 PM
I had a woman email me and tell me I was "cute" about a week after I got on this site. She never did read my profile, though, what a mess...

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:35 PM
well,first of all i dont care what people think of my looks,that doesnt mean anything to me,and it also shows she was close minded cause she only focused on my looks.And i tried to let her down as gently as i possibly could(but also not to beat around the bush). Welcome to a females world, as far as the focusing on looks. I give you kudos for not being shallow! well thnk you,im glad someone sees it clearly

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Thu 02/28/08 10:35 PM
trust me,you cant get the ****er to not say whats on his mind,that why i actually had to punch you like last week ,remember pave? your a dumbass,you only punched me cause you said i wasnt paying attention to someone,AND THERE WAS NO ONE YOU IDIOT! yeah,but it was funny as hell,you couldnt breath for about a minute yeah,well,you just got a lucky shot,and you wouldnt be laughing if i just punch you on the side of the stomach a bludgeon to the head seems to work nicely too!

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:37 PM
I had a woman email me and tell me I was "cute" about a week after I got on this site. She never did read my profile, though, what a mess... so,she told you you were cute,but she never looked at your profile?

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Thu 02/28/08 10:38 PM
Don't get me wrong I think Honesty is a wonderful thing, but a little more tact could have been used. You never said if she was wann't to pursue anything. I mean, if she took the iniative to say hello, yes telling someone their cute is not as bad as some of the other pick up lines other there. But she had also said you sound interesting. Future reference, if she clearly stated "Hey Baby I find your keystrokes Sexy" that's one thing, but she may have just wanted to be friendly! Are you didn't have to reply at all..... I don't know....do we have a class on proper Online Chatting etiqutte....Where's Martha Stewart when you need her....

iraceslowcars Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 5776	Thu 02/28/08 10:40 PM
I had a woman email me and tell me I was "cute" about a week after I got on this site. She never did read my profile, though, what a mess... so,she told you you were cute,but she never looked at your profile? Looked at the main pic, and decided to email me. I never gave it a second thought, because I read the profiles I check out beginning to end.

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Thu 02/28/08 10:42 PM
ok...in desperate need of the eye rolling icon again

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:43 PM
Don't get me wrong I think Honesty is a wonderful thing, but a little more tact could have been used. You never said if she was wann't to pursue anything. I mean, if she took the iniative to say hello, yes telling someone their cute is not as bad as some of the other pick up lines other there. But she had also said you sound interesting. Future reference, if she clearly stated "Hey Baby I find your keystrokes Sexy" that's one thing, but she may have just wanted to be friendly! Are you didn't have to reply at all..... I don't know....do we have a class on proper Online Chatting etiqutte....Where's Martha Stewart when you need her.... she said i was cute and she was interested in me,and wanted me to write back or something,and i just told her kindly,(this is exactly what i put)"sorry,im not interested,but thank you for the messege,bye."and i thought she wouldnt write back if i put bye...but she wrote back and said can i ask why your not interested? and i just told her "that im just not,sorry,bye." then she says i have a cocky attitude

iraceslowcars Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 5776	Thu 02/28/08 10:43 PM
ok...in desperate need of the eye rolling icon again I use this one or this one

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 02/29/08 06:16 PM
Most guys cuss me out when I reject them online.. some people are just rude yeah,but at least you can tell them why,like me,i like to speak my mind,if i dont like you then i dont like you,and thats what i told the girl(well,that im not interested)at least its not as bad as never getting a e-mail. I can only tell them why I don't like them if I block them right after so they don't cuss me out. lol All I say is, Thanks for the email, but I'm not interested. Good luck in your search!

werewolf_by_night_1 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 1667	Fri 02/29/08 06:19 PM
your just a tease

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 02/29/08 06:19 PM
Don't get me wrong I think Honesty is a wonderful thing, but a little more tact could have been used. You never said if she was wann't to pursue anything. I mean, if she took the iniative to say hello, yes telling someone their cute is not as bad as some of the other pick up lines other there. But she had also said you sound interesting. Future reference, if she clearly stated "Hey Baby I find your keystrokes Sexy" that's one thing, but she may have just wanted to be friendly! Are you didn't have to reply at all..... I don't know....do we have a class on proper Online Chatting etiqutte....Where's Martha Stewart when you need her.... she said i was cute and she was interested in me,and wanted me to write back or something,and i just told her kindly,(this is exactly what i put)"sorry,im not interested,but thank you for the messege,bye."and i thought she wouldnt write back if i put bye...but she wrote back and said can i ask why your not interested? and i just told her "that im just not,sorry,bye." then she says i have a cocky attitude Well that's just her wanting to know if she can improve on anything, and you gave her a vague answer. Your lack of wanting to truly hurt her feelings caused her to assume you were a jerk. Some people like constructive criticism.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 02/29/08 06:28 PM
Lol "I'm not interested in you" can seem like a bit of a harsh rebuke. If you give a reason like "you're far away" or "our interests seem too far apart" that usually softens the blow and makes it seem like you had a reason besides looks and/or cockiness to turn the girl down. Or- I appreciate your interest but I feel we are not a good match. I hope you understand and wish you the best in your search.