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Topic: the nerve of some people
DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:02 PM
i just got an e-mail from a girl who says she thinks im cute(like i care about that )and she finds me interesting.I tell her "thank you for the messege,but im not interested in you".then she tells me i have a cocky attitude,why is it that when some girls get turned down they get frustrated and/or mad?

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Thu 02/28/08 10:02 PM
Its rejection. it happens to the best of us. some people just can't take a no.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
you could have just thanked her for the compliment darling u r a cutie

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
fine...I won't email you any more

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:04 PM
you could have just thanked her for the compliment darling u r a cutie i did thank her

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Thu 02/28/08 10:04 PM
Semper Fi!!!

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:05 PM
Its rejection. it happens to the best of us. some people just can't take a no.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Thu 02/28/08 10:05 PM
Most guys cuss me out when I reject them online.. some people are just rude

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Thu 02/28/08 10:05 PM
Lol "I'm not interested in you" can seem like a bit of a harsh rebuke. If you give a reason like "you're far away" or "our interests seem too far apart" that usually softens the blow and makes it seem like you had a reason besides looks and/or cockiness to turn the girl down.

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Thu 02/28/08 10:06 PM
Maybe you could have put in a little nicer. You probably hurt her feelings.

Enya Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2077	Thu 02/28/08 10:06 PM
devildog,you must be in need of a heart healer. not cyber s--

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:07 PM
Most guys cuss me out when I reject them online.. some people are just rude yeah,but at least you can tell them why,like me,i like to speak my mind,if i dont like you then i dont like you,and thats what i told the girl(well,that im not interested)at least its not as bad as never getting a e-mail.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 10:07 PM
i just got an e-mail from a girl who says she thinks im cute(like i care about that )and she finds me interesting.I tell her "thank you for the messege,but im not interested in you".then she tells me i have a cocky attitude,why is it that when some girls get turned down they get frustrated and/or mad? You are cute .... did you tell her a reason that you are not interested ??

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Thu 02/28/08 10:08 PM
Sometimes its better not to say anything

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 02/28/08 10:08 PM
that was a bit rude of you to say that to her......you should have just said thank you and moved on......

Pinky01 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 3492	Thu 02/28/08 10:09 PM
some people get extremely offended when they're rejected

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 02/28/08 10:09 PM
Semper Fi!!! De Oppresso Liber!!!

DevilDog1987 Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 613	Thu 02/28/08 10:09 PM
well,first of all i dont care what people think of my looks,that doesnt mean anything to me,and it also shows she was close minded cause she only focused on my looks.And i tried to let her down as gently as i possibly could(but also not to beat around the bush).

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 02/28/08 10:09 PM Edited by itsmetina on Thu 02/28/08 10:11 PM
just because u r not interested doesnt mean u cant be friendly i'm not interested in some people but i still chat with them but its your choice darling

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 02/28/08 10:10 PM
Sometimes its better not to say anything Yup