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Topic: Ever misjudge someone?
madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Thu 02/28/08 08:39 PM
Yes - you disliked me until I pulled the stick from my ass. Remember? i am in love with you now!!!!!!! stick or no stick pumpkin butt!!! xoxooxoxoxxo

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Thu 02/28/08 08:39 PM
She was a total biotch when i first started working at the job, but then we all went out and had drinks and she turned out to be one of my coolest friends.

KAY KAY Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 1795	Thu 02/28/08 08:39 PM
Yes, and regretted it big time!! He started dating someone else because I pushed him away........turned out to be the guy I have been looking for.

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Thu 02/28/08 08:39 PM
that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!! my main squeeze baby Hi baby!!!! MUAH!!!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 02/28/08 08:39 PM
Absolutely .. and sometimes the funny thing that I come to realize is in my hasty judgement that it is something about myself that I see in them that I don't like lol ... I hope that made sense made complete sense!!! you are so right that is when I realize that I need to learn something from them so I can be the best person I can be ... Whoot whoot WHOOT WHOOT

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 08:40 PM
I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch.

rtaylor74 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 1188	Thu 02/28/08 08:40 PM
Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears.

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Thu 02/28/08 08:40 PM
Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. I have and have been wrong and felt like a jerk but have also found that 9 out of 10 my gut instinct is right.. when i get that gut feeling i go ahead and explore but with extreme caution. there have been times that i found a wonderful person inside who was just having a moment or a bad day...as we all have them. i love you indn!!! feel better!!!

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 08:41 PM
Absolutely .. and sometimes the funny thing that I come to realize is in my hasty judgement that it is something about myself that I see in them that I don't like lol ... I hope that made sense made complete sense!!! you are so right that is when I realize that I need to learn something from them so I can be the best person I can be ... Whoot whoot WHOOT WHOOT is there an echo in here ??? MUAHHH

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Thu 02/28/08 08:41 PM
I try to give them time to show who and what they are. Sometimes our first impression of someone may not be acurate.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 08:41 PM
Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears. and they are wrong ...how?

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 02/28/08 08:43 PM
Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. I have and have been wrong and felt like a jerk but have also found that 9 out of 10 my gut instinct is right.. when i get that gut feeling i go ahead and explore but with extreme caution. there have been times that i found a wonderful person inside who was just having a moment or a bad day...as we all have them. i love you indn!!! feel better!!! I love you too Madam thank you sweetie..

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 08:43 PM
I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick..

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Thu 02/28/08 08:44 PM
that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!! my main squeeze baby Hi baby!!!! MUAH!!!!! my little heart is going pitter patter

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 02/28/08 08:44 PM
Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears. and they are wrong ...how? That's just RT's smart ass sarcastic disappearing way Hiker... love ya RT... You too Hiker but you knew that

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 08:46 PM
I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 08:46 PM
Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears. and they are wrong ...how? That's just RT's smart ass sarcastic disappearing way Hiker... love ya RT... You too Hiker but you knew that I have just happened to observe how RT drops his smart bombs

Godschosengirl Joined Fri 09/07/07 Posts: 2491	Thu 02/28/08 08:48 PM
Yeah, as a NICE person... See, my problem is I tend to want to believe that people are generally good. Unfortunately, I keep getting proven wrong.

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Thu 02/28/08 08:48 PM
that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!! my main squeeze baby Hi baby!!!! MUAH!!!!! my little heart is going pitter patter You can only imagine in your dreams what my first impression of you was...

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Thu 02/28/08 08:48 PM
I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. well that goes to show about the whole book and it cover thing