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| Topic: Ever misjudge someone? | |
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Yes - you disliked me until I pulled the stick from my ass. Remember? i am in love with you now!!!!!!! stick or no stick pumpkin butt!!! xoxooxoxoxxo |
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She was a total biotch when i first started working at the job, but then we all went out and had drinks and she turned out to be one of my coolest friends.
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Yes, and regretted it big time!!
He started dating someone else because I pushed him away........turned out to be the guy I have been looking for. 
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that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!! 
my main squeeze baby       
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Absolutely .. and sometimes the funny thing that I come to realize is in my hasty judgement that it is something about myself that I see in them that I don't like lol ... I hope that made sense 
made complete sense!!! you are so right
that is when I realize that I need to learn something from them so I can be the best person I can be ... Whoot whoot |
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch.
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Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears.
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Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. I have and have been wrong and felt like a jerk but have also found that 9 out of 10 my gut instinct is right.. 
when i get that gut feeling i go ahead and explore but with extreme caution. there have been times that i found a wonderful person inside who was just having a moment or a bad day...as we all have them. i love you indn!!! feel better!!!
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Absolutely .. and sometimes the funny thing that I come to realize is in my hasty judgement that it is something about myself that I see in them that I don't like lol ... I hope that made sense
made complete sense!!! you are so right
that is when I realize that I need to learn something from them so I can be the best person I can be ... Whoot whoot is there an echo in here ??? MUAHHH |
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I try to give them time to show who and what they are.
Sometimes our first impression of someone may not be acurate. |
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Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears.
and they are wrong ...how? |
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Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. I have and have been wrong and felt like a jerk but have also found that 9 out of 10 my gut instinct is right..
when i get that gut feeling i go ahead and explore but with extreme caution. there have been times that i found a wonderful person inside who was just having a moment or a bad day...as we all have them. i love you indn!!! feel better!!!
I love you too Madam thank you sweetie..
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. |
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that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!!
my main squeeze baby
my little heart is going pitter patter
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Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears.
and they are wrong ...how? That's just RT's smart ass sarcastic disappearing way Hiker...  love ya RT... You too Hiker but you knew that
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. |
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Happens to me all the time... People automatically assume I'm a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears, but then, when they talk to me they realize I'm just a smart ass sarcastic black dude who just pops in, makes bizarre (yet occasionally insightful)remarks, and then just disappears.
and they are wrong ...how? That's just RT's smart ass sarcastic disappearing way Hiker... love ya RT... You too Hiker but you knew that
I have just happened to observe how RT drops his smart bombs |
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Yeah, as a NICE person...
See, my problem is I tend to want to believe that people are generally good. Unfortunately, I keep getting proven wrong. 
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that happened with me and my ex.... I thought she was a stuck up beeotch when I first met her then.....we ended up together for 2 and a half years.....go figure!!!
my main squeeze baby
my little heart is going pitter patter
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. |
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