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I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing.
Sometimes yes; sometimes no. (((((Angel)))) how are you beautiful? Haven't bumped into you in ages.. I've been better, ((((IndnPrncs)))). Thinking about leaving the forums, though. Takes up too much of my time, I'm afraid. I hope everything is ok Angel.. If you need to talk email me and or call (you'd have to email for my number  ) I'm here for you sweetie really.. 
Um yeah the forums so much damn fun we're all giving up sleep or a majority of us... lol |
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! |
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Absolutely .. and sometimes the funny thing that I come to realize is in my hasty judgement that it is something about myself that I see in them that I don't like lol ... I hope that made sense 
made complete sense!!! you are so right
that is when I realize that I need to learn something from them so I can be the best person I can be ... Whoot whoot WHOOT WHOOT  Happens to me all the time
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) |
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I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing.
Sometimes yes; sometimes no. (((((Angel)))) how are you beautiful? Haven't bumped into you in ages.. I've been better, ((((IndnPrncs)))). Thinking about leaving the forums, though. Takes up too much of my time, I'm afraid. I hope everything is ok Angel.. If you need to talk email me and or call (you'd have to email for my number ) I'm here for you sweetie really..
Um yeah the forums so much damn fun we're all giving up sleep or a majority of us... lol I down to four hours a night..I keep thinking, oh, it's only 2 am....yikes |
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lol ive done the contrary, gave someone he benefit of the dough and it turned out he was a total prick
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lol ive done the contrary, gave someone he benefit of the dough and it turned out he was a total prick |
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) |
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) WHOOT WHOOT
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) I understand..you may get a lot more attention but is it the kind of attention you really want? It's hard to find the right fit no matter who you are. But we have these forums to have fun while we are waiting! 
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) WHOOT WHOOT
Hey John you cutie patootie ... whoot whoot to you too , you and mirror making fun of my whooting... |
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lol ive done the contrary, gave someone he benefit of the dough and it turned out he was a total prick rofl. dough. doH! doubt. hahaha, its a long night. |
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I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing.
Sometimes yes; sometimes no. (((((Angel)))) how are you beautiful? Haven't bumped into you in ages.. I've been better, ((((IndnPrncs)))). Thinking about leaving the forums, though. Takes up too much of my time, I'm afraid. I hope everything is ok Angel.. If you need to talk email me and or call (you'd have to email for my number ) I'm here for you sweetie really..
Um yeah the forums so much damn fun we're all giving up sleep or a majority of us... lol Thank you, sweet. I'll remember that. ....Can't talk about it just now. (((hug))) |
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Edited by
shoes4rhon
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Thu 02/28/08 09:24 PM
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I know I have seen it work the other way around..occasionally at work I get put into groups with young accountants..and you can see on their faces when they see me..oh, crap, we are gonna have to work with a granny...but then I make them laugh and I say things they never heard their grandma say; and I know some of their music and the shows they like..they always end up hugging me and then keeping in touch. I would not have thought anyone could have that impression of you hikerchick.. well..visually -the first impression - I am 50 years old..overweight..I know they are expecting me to be like their mom or something..but some of my best friends are young people..once they get to know me. true, but the thing is they give me a chance and they come around. pfft - I can charm youngsters easy. It's guys my age that I have trouble with! who - the kids or the guys my age? Guys are just visual creatures for the most part. You can have the most amazing mind, heart, and soul, but if the looks are not there, most of them back away slowly. There are some super special ones that can see past the outside and into the inside..but they are rare. (certainly worth looking for, though!) I understand..you may get a lot more attention but is it the kind of attention you really want? It's hard to find the right fit no matter who you are. But we have these forums to have fun while we are waiting!
there is not enough alcohol in the world for me to be interested in some of the emails that I get ... shuddering .. and you are right about not wanting that type of attention .. guys don't care what I have to say ,or want to know who I am but by god I better look good on thier arm in front of thier friends .. I thought that online dating would make them have to see me , my insides ...Besides about the outside I always feel like I should call my parents and say thanks for great genes .. |
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I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing.
Sometimes yes; sometimes no. (((((Angel)))) how are you beautiful? Haven't bumped into you in ages.. I've been better, ((((IndnPrncs)))). Thinking about leaving the forums, though. Takes up too much of my time, I'm afraid. I hope everything is ok Angel.. If you need to talk email me and or call (you'd have to email for my number ) I'm here for you sweetie really..
Um yeah the forums so much damn fun we're all giving up sleep or a majority of us... lol Thank you, sweet. I'll remember that. ....Can't talk about it just now. (((hug))) I completely understand, just don't forget I'm here.. <hugs> |
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I won't.
Thanks. |
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back to topic for just a second .. Do you think that sometimes we put off wrong impression to defend the vulnerable person in there ??
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back to topic for just a second .. Do you think that sometimes we put off wrong impression to defend the vulnerable person in there ?? Nope, not in my book, you're only vulerable if you're weak. And weakness is a sign that one day, you will not survive, because as we all know its survival of the fittest. I'm going to continue to tell it like I see it. |
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Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. Not often. But I've been misjudged. |
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Have you ever had a first impression of someone that may not have been so good, then after you get the chance to spend some time with them and get to know them, you find that they are really an awesome and decent person? I guess giving everyone the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. No....My first impressions are always dead-on. 
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