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Topic: You go out with someone
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Wed 02/27/08 01:15 PM
and during the date you say you would like to do it again. However; the next day you have a change of heart. So how would you let them know?

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 02/27/08 01:15 PM
Tell them.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Wed 02/27/08 01:16 PM
Tell them. obviously, which method though

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Wed 02/27/08 01:17 PM
yeh dont string her along like most guys do..just tell her, be honest..

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 02/27/08 01:17 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol.

pilgrimandpagan Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 1118	Wed 02/27/08 01:17 PM
well a lot of guys/chicks dont even bother to tell you

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Wed 02/27/08 01:19 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol. hmmmmmmmm..u said u found someone irad..guess it didnt work out? ehy?

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:19 PM
why did you have a change of heart .. it would depend on my reason ...

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Wed 02/27/08 01:20 PM
Well, the person is obviously going to expect another meet. So, I'd say have another date, but tell them at the end how you feel. Tell them you enjoyed their company and the times they shared, but you feel it would be best to be just friends...or you aren't ready to jump in a relationship with them. It is always good to be honest...you know?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 01:20 PM
you need to be open and honest. I can respect that even if I don't like it

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 02/27/08 01:21 PM
Tell them. obviously, which method though You call her up and tell her you changed your mind. Is there more than one method for telling someone?

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Wed 02/27/08 01:21 PM
I'd point them to you, peccy... That way they'd be too overwhelmed by all your questions... to give any thought to me!

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 02/27/08 01:21 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol. hmmmmmmmm..u said u found someone irad..guess it didnt work out? ehy? no it didn't, found out she was shacking up with some guy.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Wed 02/27/08 01:21 PM
why did you have a change of heart .. it would depend on my reason ... you're reading into it too much shoes, just a generic reason

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Wed 02/27/08 01:22 PM
Well in the first place I would not have told them that if I did not mean it. But if that were to happen the least the person could do it hold up to there words and see if maybe they missed something they did not see the first time.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Wed 02/27/08 01:22 PM
that sux irad, sorry dude

tanyaztoy Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 181	Wed 02/27/08 01:23 PM
If it was the first and only date I wouldn't bother doing anything. If she happens to call you then you can politely decline and explain why.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 02/27/08 01:23 PM
that sux irad, sorry dude I appreciate it.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Wed 02/27/08 01:24 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol. hmmmmmmmm..u said u found someone irad..guess it didnt work out? ehy? no it didn't, found out she was shacking up with some guy. Ouch but better to find out early instead of much later.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 01:24 PM
Well in the first place I would not have told them that if I did not mean it. But if that were to happen the least the person could do it hold up to there words and see if maybe they missed something they did not see the first time. spoken like a Texas lady