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Topic: You go out with someone
irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 02/27/08 01:25 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol. hmmmmmmmm..u said u found someone irad..guess it didnt work out? ehy? no it didn't, found out she was shacking up with some guy. yes i told her in person too lol and it wasn't pretty. Ouch but better to find out early instead of much later.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:26 PM
I'd point them to you, peccy... That way they'd be too overwhelmed by all your questions... to give any thought to me!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Wed 02/27/08 01:28 PM
Well in the first place I would not have told them that if I did not mean it. But if that were to happen the least the person could do it hold up to there words and see if maybe they missed something they did not see the first time. spoken like a Texas lady Ya got that right girlfriend, honesty is the best policy!!

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 02/27/08 01:29 PM
another date wont kill give things a chance

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Wed 02/27/08 01:29 PM
I would tell them too, and have some kahoonies and tell them in person. But i can't even get a date, so i don't have to worry about it right now lol. hmmmmmmmm..u said u found someone irad..guess it didnt work out? ehy? no it didn't, found out she was shacking up with some guy. yes i told her in person too lol and it wasn't pretty. Ouch but better to find out early instead of much later. Don"t blame you there that is not right to lead another on like that shshhs be single before they start looking.

Nambi Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 259	Wed 02/27/08 01:30 PM
Tell, it's best...

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:32 PM
Okay so if you went out with someone and said you would like to see them again and then don't call what is the problem? I mean people get busy , if you made a big deal about seeing them again then yeah tell them

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 02/27/08 01:32 PM
I would be true to my word...i said we could do it again...so i would go out for that 2 time...u never know..1st impressions arent the best....and see...if after that i dont want to see them again..i would tell them, lisen i had a nice time but i dont think we click...sorry

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Wed 02/27/08 01:33 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 02/27/08 01:35 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something. Can I get an Amen and a Hallelujah!

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Wed 02/27/08 01:36 PM
I don't have changes of heart

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/27/08 01:36 PM
Its best just to put distance between you and her. Dont bother talkin to her about it. That never works out. Just dont talk to her is the best way to let a girl down. It leaves the door open to plausible deniability if you have a change of heart. You dont have to burn any bridges.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/27/08 01:37 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something. It dont work out..............

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:38 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something. It dont work out.............. Well so you want him to call you to tell you he does not want to talk to you ?? that makes about has much sense has a donkey on roller skates ...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/27/08 01:38 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Wed 02/27/08 01:40 PM
It sounds nice to say you will talk to her but trust me its better just to avoid her. SHE WONT UNDERSTAND. Even if she says she does. It will just hurt her feelings.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/27/08 01:39 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something. It dont work out.............. Well so you want him to call you to tell you he does not want to talk to you ?? that makes about has much sense has a donkey on roller skates ... Im sayin dont call her.........

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 02/27/08 01:39 PM
It sounds nice to say you will talk to her but trust me its better just to avoid her. SHE WONT UNDERSTAND. Even if she says she does. It will just hurt her feeling. avoiding just makes people want to know why. I prefer the truth

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/27/08 01:41 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Wed 02/27/08 01:41 PM
It sounds nice to say you will talk to her but trust me its better just to avoid her. SHE WONT UNDERSTAND. Even if she says she does. It will just hurt her feeling. avoiding just makes people want to know why. I prefer the truth It keeps feelings from getting hurt and it leaves the door open in case theres a change of heart. Ive broken up with lots of women. I know what Im talkin about.......

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:41 PM
Tell.. I lose respect VERY quickly for someone who has no balls to be an adult & say something. It dont work out.............. Well so you want him to call you to tell you he does not want to talk to you ?? that makes about has much sense has a donkey on roller skates ... Im sayin dont call her......... mirror i am on yourside man i got your back

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Wed 02/27/08 01:41 PM
It sounds nice to say you will talk to her but trust me its better just to avoid her. SHE WONT UNDERSTAND. Even if she says she does. It will just hurt her feeling. avoiding just makes people want to know why. I prefer the truth It keeps feeling from getting hurt and it leaves the door open in case theres a change of heart. Ive broken up with lots of women. I know what Im talkin about....... most can't handle the truth ...