Topic: What Does It Mean?
crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 04:56 AM
So I was talking to someone on here, invited him to attend a party with me and a few friends. He stated that he had seen me at a few of them and, and recognized my face, said that is was beautiful and all that jazz, total lines.....so gave him my number cause he wanted to chill before going straight to a party, anyway, long story short no reply to the e-mails or texts, and when I wrote him today no reply, come to find out he deactivated his account.

Not so sure if I had anything to do with that, but I am hoping not, all I did was extend a friendship with someone who shared the same interest as me, WTF..... I know I'm a loser but damn! DAMN!

Jess642's photo
Tue 02/26/08 04:59 AM
Perhaps he got deactivated, for breaching forum rules..or is taking a break, or his wife came home and discovered what he had been up to... or his pet iguana died....

there are more possibilities than you did something wrong...

He has shown at this moment in time, he cannot offer the same generosity that you can.flowerforyou

stevil342001's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:01 AM
your not a loser somepeople play games sounds like he was playing ya ... do ever settle for lesss beleive it or not you far more better then that... good luck

celticpride0280's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:01 AM
Edited by celticpride0280 on Tue 02/26/08 05:02 AM

So I was talking to someone on here, invited him to attend a party with me and a few friends. He stated that he had seen me at a few of them and, and recognized my face, said that is was beautiful and all that jazz, total lines.....so gave him my number cause he wanted to chill before going straight to a party, anyway, long story short no reply to the e-mails or texts, and when I wrote him today no reply, come to find out he deactivated his account.

Not so sure if I had anything to do with that, but I am hoping not, all I did was extend a friendship with someone who shared the same interest as me, WTF..... I know I'm a loser but damn! DAMN!
Welcome to online dating ....Hang in theredrinker flowerforyou

crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:17 AM
This totally sucks though, I mean I wish I could show you what he wrote, if I got played that sucked because I didn't really put myself out there like that.

He started it, I just wanted to hang out, like I said he seemed like he would be real cool to chill with and I don't know what it was I did?

I mean at least he read my e-mails right, but I have his number should I call him one day or just lay low?

crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:19 AM

Perhaps he got deactivated, for breaching forum rules..or is taking a break, or his wife came home and discovered what he had been up to... or his pet iguana died....

there are more possibilities than you did something wrong...

He has shown at this moment in time, he cannot offer the same generosity that you can.flowerforyou


It could be, or he just found someone else to chill with, but he could have gave me a...I don't want to talk to you anymore, or he could have just deleted me from his friends list I would have gotten the picture then. he's not married thank god! but maybe that other stuff could totally have happened

hottpinkilicious's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:25 AM
Baby...WHY are you even wasting your energy on this guy????? Obviously he is the one with the problem, not you! Just thank God you found out what he is like before you started liking him!
To quote a TV show...NEXT!

shoesmonkey's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:26 AM


Perhaps he got deactivated, for breaching forum rules..or is taking a break, or his wife came home and discovered what he had been up to... or his pet iguana died....

there are more possibilities than you did something wrong...

He has shown at this moment in time, he cannot offer the same generosity that you can.flowerforyou


It could be, or he just found someone else to chill with, but he could have gave me a...I don't want to talk to you anymore, or he could have just deleted me from his friends list I would have gotten the picture then. he's not married thank god! but maybe that other stuff could totally have happened
A guy I met here deleted his acct. after his girlfriend found me in his cell. I thought it was me....guess it was! Anyhow, she and I are friend's now! I love it. I got some sweet revenge in a very nice way.laugh happy :wink:

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Tue 02/26/08 05:31 AM
You are not a loser. It is most likely possible that the reason he deactivated his account has absolutely nothing to do with you. It is possible he may have met someone special; or, that he was attached to start out with and is either hiding out or got caught.


Try thinking of 5 positive qualities about yourself. Write them down on a piece of paper and put it where you will be sure to see it every day. Say these things out loud to yourself at least twice a day for a month.

Be well.

trueokie2's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:40 AM
Just move on n forget about it.. drinker smokin

crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:56 AM

Just move on n forget about it.. drinker smokin

I will, but I'm just stuck!

crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:58 AM

Baby...WHY are you even wasting your energy on this guy????? Obviously he is the one with the problem, not you! Just thank God you found out what he is like before you started liking him!
To quote a TV show...NEXT!


No, energy wasted, just wish he didn't try to sweet talk me.. I will see him around, no worries....I'm such a girl...lol

crzyblue20's photo
Tue 02/26/08 05:59 AM

You are not a loser. It is most likely possible that the reason he deactivated his account has absolutely nothing to do with you. It is possible he may have met someone special; or, that he was attached to start out with and is either hiding out or got caught.


Try thinking of 5 positive qualities about yourself. Write them down on a piece of paper and put it where you will be sure to see it every day. Say these things out loud to yourself at least twice a day for a month.

Be well.


I hope he did find that someone he was looking for, everyone needs that special person in their life, but a heads up would have been nice....maybe it's karma...i stop talking to people for no reason too, only when they become uninteresting

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Tue 02/26/08 02:57 PM
Then why is it okay for you to do that, but not for him? huh