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Topic: I need help....Any advice?
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 02/26/08 04:05 AM
didn't you post before about trying to stand by him and help him thru being an alcoholic?

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:06 AM
has he never done anything to your child? any kind of abuse? No he has never even yelled at her. HOWEVER I believe that a child can be abused just from what they wittness or "hear".... He always use to like beat me when she was asleep or wasn't home.. But i got his ass back one night....BIG TIME ...thats the night he left. since he has been abusive to you, you should seek a restraining order ASAP. No one has any business putting their hands on you like that, ESPECIALLY in front of their kids. I live in Ky...And here, you basically have to be bout dead to get one.

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:07 AM
Yes, but ....I am willing to help anyone......I still love him just NOT IN LOVE ....I would help anyone really...I just hate to see ppl hurt. He has been thru alot I never meant that we would get back together

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:09 AM
Have you read my creative writing Thread? That should tell you what type of person I am....I think I just wanna make sure he is still in her life. She never asked for this. Ya know...

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Tue 02/26/08 04:09 AM
I understand about the about dead thing and that financially the lawyer may not happen immediately but you do need some sort of help here is a number that you can find out what resources are in your area -National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE) TTY: 1-800-787-3224 Please again remember to keep yourself safe ...

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:11 AM
I understand about the about dead thing and that financially the lawyer may not happen immediately but you do need some sort of help here is a number that you can find out what resources are in your area -National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE) TTY: 1-800-787-3224 Please again remember to keep yourself safe ... Thank you shoes...I wrote it down ...i will put it on speed dial next to 911

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Tue 02/26/08 04:14 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone.

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:17 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone. Well, they don't work around here either, They still haven't found Amandas body......its been a year... I think he fed her to the Hogs So sad. They say they serve and protect? Yea!

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Tue 02/26/08 04:19 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone. Well, they don't work around here either, They still haven't found Amandas body......its been a year... I think he fed her to the Hogs So sad. They say they serve and protect? Yea! It's terrible. People say to get them all the time, it's just a piece of paper. What is paper doing to keep that person away?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 02/26/08 04:20 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone. Well, they don't work around here either, They still haven't found Amandas body......its been a year... I think he fed her to the Hogs So sad. They say they serve and protect? Yea! It's terrible. People say to get them all the time, it's just a piece of paper. What is paper doing to keep that person away? the paper doesn't protect you from crap... however, when he violates it, it does give the cops another charge to arrest him on

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Tue 02/26/08 04:21 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone. Well, they don't work around here either, They still haven't found Amandas body......its been a year... I think he fed her to the Hogs So sad. They say they serve and protect? Yea! It's terrible. People say to get them all the time, it's just a piece of paper. What is paper doing to keep that person away? the paper doesn't protect you from crap... however, when he violates it, it does give the cops another charge to arrest him on Usually by the time he violates it, it's way too late.

countrybumpkin2u Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 1238	Tue 02/26/08 04:22 AM
Restraining orders dont work. Here just two weeks ago, a woman that had had put so many different restraining orders on her ex was taken hostage by him and killed ultimatly. There need to be better laws to protect someone. Well, they don't work around here either, They still haven't found Amandas body......its been a year... I think he fed her to the Hogs So sad. They say they serve and protect? Yea! It's terrible. People say to get them all the time, it's just a piece of paper. What is paper doing to keep that person away? the paper doesn't protect you from crap... however, when he violates it, it does give the cops another charge to arrest him on I just have to say...And I know this may sound dumb... But ..Thank you guys...It seems like this past week I have found BETTER friends on here than I have OUT here. So , for what its worth ....Thanks Bunches ya'll!! Thank you !!!