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Topic: How long should you wait to before replying to someone?
irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 02/25/08 08:38 PM
Sareesataka, sareesataka lol within 24 hours. sometimes i check in to read my mail and dont have the time to reply right away, but i try to answer within 24 hours.

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM
i do asap

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 08:42 PM
I try to be prompt but I do have a life outside this crazy internet thing .. Sometimes I just can't immediately .. but I try to use kindness and courtesy

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 02/25/08 08:42 PM
I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word I was just thinking.. while getting my 5th drink since chatting with you moments ago.. that I'd rather you just stay under my desk.. I think it's a good place for ya.. not to mention, I'm enjoying myself immensely Oh and, I just used all 7 of my letters.. Flicker

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 02/25/08 08:45 PM
Blanket and pillow please I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word I was just thinking.. while getting my 5th drink since chatting with you moments ago.. that I'd rather you just stay under my desk.. I think it's a good place for ya.. not to mention, I'm enjoying myself immensely Oh and, I just used all 7 of my letters.. Flicker

jhitchco Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 463	Mon 02/25/08 08:46 PM
asap I agree

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 02/25/08 08:49 PM
Blanket and pillow please I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word I was just thinking.. while getting my 5th drink since chatting with you moments ago.. that I'd rather you just stay under my desk.. I think it's a good place for ya.. not to mention, I'm enjoying myself immensely Oh and, I just used all 7 of my letters.. Flicker I'll make you up a comfy little bed.. you'll probably be camping out for awhile anyway.. Oh yeah.. how ya doin on the cold water

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 02/25/08 08:51 PM
I'm out lol Blanket and pillow please I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word I was just thinking.. while getting my 5th drink since chatting with you moments ago.. that I'd rather you just stay under my desk.. I think it's a good place for ya.. not to mention, I'm enjoying myself immensely Oh and, I just used all 7 of my letters.. Flicker I'll make you up a comfy little bed.. you'll probably be camping out for awhile anyway.. Oh yeah.. how ya doin on the cold water

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 02/25/08 08:52 PM
I'm out lol Blanket and pillow please I can't, if i tried to say anything right now i would sound like i had cleft palate lol Ok miss scrabble usa, thats enough lol You so much as lift your leg up to rip one, it's too late. Or, go pee and get a beer or 5 Honey.. you know, if you'd quit trying to rub all over me and pay attention to the game.. I might not be Miss Scrabble USA.. now get out from under my desk.. and spell me a good word I was just thinking.. while getting my 5th drink since chatting with you moments ago.. that I'd rather you just stay under my desk.. I think it's a good place for ya.. not to mention, I'm enjoying myself immensely Oh and, I just used all 7 of my letters.. Flicker I'll make you up a comfy little bed.. you'll probably be camping out for awhile anyway.. Oh yeah.. how ya doin on the cold water I am sooooo sorry to hear that.. would you like me to bring you over some ice

whatdoyaknow Joined Mon 01/28/08 Posts: 341	Mon 02/25/08 08:55 PM
I met this girl on another site and replied to her after I read her email and she waited 4 or 5 days to respond, but there is a feature where you could see if they read your email and she did the first day I sent it, but she waited so long to respond. Maybe she didn't have time to respond. I try to respond as sson as I read but sometimes I have waited a day or two.... sometimes it was because i was not interested and had to think of a way to say that without offending him and others because i wanted to take my time in answering because i was interested... hope that clears things up lol

smuflicker Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 4019	Tue 02/26/08 05:08 AM
why wait? tell them something

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Tue 02/26/08 05:13 AM
Sometimes I wait a day, it's not that I'm lazy or rude, just major busy..I check my emails while running out the door and or by Iphone in my car...Unles you email me telling me you want to do me, want nude pics, or just a freak, then I'm not answering...I respect myself to much to deal with idiots..

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 02/26/08 05:16 AM
treat it like a conversation, what would you do when spoken to? I think a reply is common courtesy. jmo

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 02/26/08 05:46 AM Edited by angelindarkness on Tue 02/26/08 05:46 AM
Reply immediately. Although, I sometimes do not use my own advice. I'm bad with emails and phone calls in general. ....Unless someone REALLY has my interest.

Jura_Neat_Please Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 4606	Tue 02/26/08 05:48 AM
Reply immediately. Although, I sometimes do not use my own advice. I'm bad with emails and phone calls in general. ....Unless someone REALLY has my interest. Now I know why she never writes J/K

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 02/26/08 05:53 AM
don't play games .. period

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 02/26/08 05:54 AM
Reply immediately. Although, I sometimes do not use my own advice. I'm bad with emails and phone calls in general. ....Unless someone REALLY has my interest. Now I know why she never writes J/K

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 02/26/08 05:55 AM
I respond immediately whether I am interested or not. It is a courtesy imho that should be granted to everyone. Respect is a two way street

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 02/26/08 06:04 AM
The majority of females on this site get bombarded with many emails a day. Moreso if they are also on other dating sites. I have heard of women in their twenties getting 20 or more emails a day. It is just simply impossible to respond to each - especially if they are on other sites. There are other responsibilities and activities in life besides the internet. Plus, we all know that with some people we respond to, we will never please. Some cannot take "no" for an answer and keep writing, unaware or not caring that we simply may not have the time for email relationships. Some get annoyed if we respond just to say we are not interested. Others get annoyed when we do not respond to give a signal that we are not interested. sigh There are also emails we do not answer because, while there may be interest, we are not at the right place or time in our lives to pursue it. Timing.