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Topic: do the guys always
mdl7070 Joined Wed 03/21/07 Posts: 1470	Mon 02/25/08 07:59 PM
ok do the guys always have to be the first to say something when there is a match made on mutual match. or should the women sometimes make the first contact?

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Mon 02/25/08 08:00 PM
Most of the women won't make the first contact.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Mon 02/25/08 08:00 PM
Aliens make first contact........geez

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Mon 02/25/08 08:00 PM
I THINK THAT THE GUY SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST CONTACT!

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Mon 02/25/08 08:00 PM
When there is a mutual match i think that sometimes the guy should at least say hi! Just an opinion.

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
there's ur answer...

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
I send the first email if I feel like it.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
Women should go for it!

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
Aliens make first contact........geez isn't there some protocol written for that? oh wait...damn it that was classified

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
I THINK THAT THE GUY SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST CONTACT! Heh, I'm not falling for that one again!

Dimple622 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 116	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
i thought i was the one always makin the first contact...sucks!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
ok do the guys always have to be the first to say something when there is a match made on mutual match. or should the women sometimes make the first contact? It depends, if you want to make first contact go for it. Sometimes they'll contact you first though. It just depends.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 08:01 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ...

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Mon 02/25/08 08:02 PM
I always make first contact...but would be nice to see an aggressive gal...kind of a turn on

Silvercloud08 Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 75	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
I'll make 1st contact... Otherwise I might not get any contact at all!

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ... Shamelessly promoting herself.....again

trying_to_fly Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 6258	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
I made a contact to one off of mutual match and she never wrote back....sometimes they don't even reply and it's a "MUTAL MATCH" I don't get it...oh well...just keep truckin

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
Either way!!

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
ok do the guys always have to be the first to say something when there is a match made on mutual match. or should the women sometimes make the first contact? Just like anything else in life.. we're just as capable! I have no problem clicking the NO tab.. ~sighs~ Sad, but a true story!!

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
It depends on how much she is really interested in the guy. If she is old fashioned, she may check the guy's profile out and see if he sends a message. If she is bold, she will send a "Hello" message. A nice ice breaker. Me? I prefer the guy to message if he sees there is a mutual agreement. I may be waiting for a while, but I may send a "Hello" message myself to see if he really is interested.